When I first started into the international dating scene. I thought I was going to be breaking hearts and taking names but boy was I wrong. It really is hard establishing a foundation when you first write or Skype with a Ukrainian or Russian girl. It’s not like western girls where you can charm them in a few moments and they think your the man they’ve been waiting for all their life. Slavic girls are more cautious and I wouldn’t say picky but you have to think. They do have plenty of options to choose from. Even a master like myself got shot down by many girls. I got a good laugh when a few girls asked me my profession and I said plumber. Want to see girls disappear fast but return just as fast when they find out journeymen plumbers make awesome money. Plus I was pretty handsome and that didn’t hurt my odds. Did I give them a second chance. Nope. But I couldn’t blame them because in their culture the trades aren’t considered high value like in North America. Their trade workers make the same as minimum wage. I’d Have never got into plumbing if the money wasn’t good. Anyways... Like I was saying...some women that are off the charts gorgeous want a man that is incredibly rich but they think you are getting what you pay for which is true. But I didn’t care less about girls like that because we have incredibly beautiful girls here in North America that are easy to date short term where you don’t have to be rich or highly successful to get with. I wanted a Ukrainian girl because I heard they are truly amazing wives. It took me a bit to find a girl suitable for me because I’m not going to lie. They are like ice queens. Our funny jokes and humor doesn’t quite fly with them. They all watch different shows and movies so finding common ground isn’t easy. If your not very good at conversation and being socially cool. Success isn’t going to come easy. Yes there’s a lot of girls who are one word answer type girls. They or may not be interested in you but I always give them a chance because English isn’t their first language and talking and saying a lot isn’t normal over there. They would think it’s annoyingly you or maybe they are talking to much. But here’s the deal. When you do melt that ice princesses heart and they finally smile and start opening up. It’s magic. Soon things start flowing and that is when it’s time to really investing in them.

When I met my wife for the first time. She wasn’t even on my radar. I already had my top ten girls I was going to see. But the more I talked to her. I found every morning I would see her messages or email and enjoy them the most. I always got excited more when it was time to Skype with her. Soon I found that I actually wanted to go see her instead of all the ones I was talking to. Did I ghost those girls. Never. I told them that I met someone and I was going to see her. Some were understanding and wished me luck. Others were a little mad and said I wasted their time. But what else could I do.

Anyways...instead of complaining. It takes long to do this. It isn’t easy. This journey isn’t for everyone. It costs a lot financially in the long run as well. But if you do meet someone and it turns out for the best. You’ll always be glad you didn’t stop. That’s how I feel. Good luck. My wife is living in Canada with me and it’s a blast. I wish I had met her long long ago. I kept pushing and met a pretty awesome girl. But yes...when I first started my journey. It was rough too.