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Svetlana, 53 y.o.

United States

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In the discussion on the О женской самооценке. in the forum Ladies only . Number of comments: 323

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Таша, когда я наткнулась на статью, я подумала о стиле общения женщин вообще и женщин на форуме в частности. Признаюсь, я подумала, что вы одна тех, кому эта статья может быть полезной. Помочь увидеть что-то со стороны, задуматься. Но вы не согласны со статьей (нет, это не я ее написала). Что же, хозяин - барин.

Главный посыл статьи - здоровая самооценка не должна зависеть от факта, делают ли вам комплименты. Человек со здоровой самооценкой в состоянии спокойно воспринимать критику, и использовать ее как обратную связь, информацию к размышлению, а не как повод для обид. Большинство мужчин не нуждаются в эмоциональных поглаживаниях, чтобы любить себя. Они в себе уверены regardless.

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Svetlana, 53 y.o.

United States

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Люблю животных, но коты - вне конкуренции для меня. Васька просто красавец!


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Nata

In the discussion on the Мои рисунки на ногтях in the forum Beauty, health, lifestyle . Number of comments: 32


Я бы нет, не люблю дизайн


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Nata

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Хороши ваши малыши))


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Natalia

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Вы спросили мнение, я выразила свое.
В жизни бы такой дизайн не сделала.  


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Natalia

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Татьяна, Вы правда считаете, что это красиво смотрится на женщине плюс двадцать пять?
ну, для подростков, еще как-то может быть.

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Eric, 77 y.o.

Netherlands

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Well , there are Always pros and cons on every matter.It is the same when joining a dating site.You must realize and understand that it is only a way to get to know other people.

If or when you will be succesful is a bit tricky , because it depends on different aspects.And with some of them you may or may not have the insight or the right mindset to properly make a right decision.

About the videos saying that Ukrainian women are all liars I must disagree.Yes , I have seen some of these vids.
It is my understanding that these guys only have met with the wrong women or they were looking in the wrong places.

And to make it more worse they only speak about Ukrainian women.I did not hear them comparing Ukrainian ladies with Slavic women from other CIS countries.If you want to let your conclusions have any meaningful ground , then the least that you should do , is to visit other CIS countries and observe and investigate the women there.

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As far as I see it , they never did any investigation in other CIS countries.On the other hand , don't forget that it's just marketing for their web site.So men will subscribe and make a paid registration.

With that said I wonder why you registered on this site.Is it your intention to find a future wife on here ?
You say you don't know much about Slavic women.But have you ever visited a CIS country ??

Have you ever met a Slavic woman in person and had a date or more with her ??

I believe that you are rather new on here.There were posts about the culture and tradition and how to behave in CIS countries and Russia when meeting the women.

It is not difficult to find the issues of how to behave on a first date/meeting with such a woman.
I myself , have been to Ukraine several times in the past years.

But I had a Polish girlfriend in the era of the Cold War.I have been several times behind the Iron Curtain.And I have lived the life of the then Russian people. I have seen the troubles and differences between those who were a member of the Communist Party and those who were not a member.

I noticed the benefits that the other would get compared to a non member.I have seen myself , how members were treated or what priveliges they had.

You would only know that if you had a chance to live with and between these people.But in general the people had free medical care and I believe that school education was also free.

So , my knowledge of the life in the U.S.S.R and the family bonds and relations are not from hear say.It is from personal experience.

That is why I understand that some people want to go back to the era of the CP .Because the CP did many good things for their members.

It is oke if you sent me a personal note.I will see what I can help you with.

Just as some advice , don't look at these women from your own vision as it is with a Western background.Because that is where you are already starting on the wrong foot.Foreign men go to EEurope and or Russia , with their Western vision on women/girls from their home country.

Believing or thinking that this is how to behave or treat a Slavic woman can sometimes work out the wrong way.And , yes , then they blame the woman for it.Do you feel that this is right ??

Of course , I know that the times they are changing in EEurope and in Russia.There are women growing up with other standards and vision on their life and their future.
So , yes it all depends with whom you will have a date or have a correspondence on this site.

Understand that a dating site for Slavic women doesn't make your life easier.The question is are you willing to deal with it , and how much patience and energy you want to put in it.

Here is just my advice.If you really are looking for a Slavic wife , go to visit a CIS country.And see and observe the people and their daily life.

It will give you more insight in how they look at life and what they think about foreigners.If you want to have a happy life and relation with a Slavic woman , this is just an essential part.

But , of course , there are Always exceptions to the rule ....


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Nata

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Статья не Светланы, так что если и писать свое мнение, то мнение о статье совсем другого человека, не Светланы.
Ваша статья и данная статья это как небо и земля.


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Yuliya

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Спасибо за Ваши ответы  

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Tatyana, 49 y.o.

Ukraine

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Жестоко? Неужели? А лично Вы хотите женщину на 20 лет старше? Может Вы полагаете, что женщине должны нравиться мужчины на 20 лет старше и она не вправе хотеть ровесника?

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Percy, 49 y.o.

Peru

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Debe ser puro negocio, una estrategia para lucrar.

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Percy, 49 y.o.

Peru

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Eso es muy fuerte y cruel...

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Percy, 49 y.o.

Peru

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Los hijos son la alegría de una familia.

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Marina, 62 y.o.

Sweden

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Ольга, вы живёте в Хальмстаде? Тогда я в 50 км от вас


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Nata

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Прочитала полностью. Мне понравилось. Больше согласна с частью, которая не размещена здесь.

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

Germany

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Я имела сегодня очередной экзамен и после пошли мы с партнершей по экзамену к ее другу художнику в гости. Так он так жаловался, как сложно найти жену. Он имеет обширный круг знакомств, хочет жениться и не может найти женщину. Предыдущая жена была из Украины из Луцка . Он купил ей два дома в Луцке, а она его бросила.... Жизнь не научила, хочет еще одну.


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Tasha

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Хорошего времени суток,Светлана.
Тема достаточно интересная.Однако не так давно,затронула и я эту тему,но тема была закрыта по моей просьбе,т.к. усмотрели некоторые в ней "сексизм"( набор предрассудков и предвзятое отношение к людям или дискриминация людей по признаку пола или гендера.)
Думаю,к Вам "критики" будут более благосклонны. 
Я лишь выскажу свое мнение...И не смотря на разногласия,я очень рада,что Вы пишите собственные посты,и при этом участвуете в обсуждениях.Думаю,что "старожилы" (уж извините за этот термин) должны показывать хороший пример "новоселам",и оказывать больше поддержки тем,кто в ней действительно нуждается.Дабы не уподобляться "кукушке",которая хвалит "петуха" за то,что хвалит он "кукушку".

((Это видно с самого детства, девочек жалеют и нахваливают намного больше.)))

-На мой взгляд,все происходит с точностью наоборот.
Могу ошибаться,т.к. у меня есть дочка (можно сказать две - племянница) и плюс две внучки.

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Но у меня есть старший брат - ученый,ботаник,философ,программист.


Все "почести" с самого детства были отданы ему.Заслуженно.Я была обычной девочкой.Возможно где-то меня и "нахваливали" и "жалели",но никак не больше,возможно - чаще.
Всегда считала,что только женщина может быть настолько самодостаточна,что мужчинам и не снилось.
Это мы,женщины,рожаем детей,сначала их "выносив",а потом еще воспитав и дав все необходимое,зависящее от нас.
У женщины, изначально, более высокий уровень ответственности,нежели у мужчин.
Исключения,конечно,бывают.
Поверьте,я не феминистка,я прекрасно отношусь к мужчинам,но моя "самооценка" при этом никак не страдает.

Не могу не процитировать обожаемую мной Фаину Раневскую -
"Женщины, конечно, умнее. Вы когда-нибудь слышали о женщине, которая бы потеряла голову только от того, что у мужчины красивые ноги?"

"Чтобы получить признание — надо, даже необходимо, умереть."
 

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Svetlana, 50 y.o.

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Ольга, Я инициативная))) И конечно же пишу. Не жалуюсь, но понятно что и я не всем подхожу, да и мне не любой нужен. Так что на данном этапе я пока в поиске) И конечно же верю, что найду)))  


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Tasha

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И Вам спасибо,Тамара.Очень приятно с Вами общаться.Такое "море" любви и положительных эмоций сейчас все реже встречается.Мне кажется,что чем счастливее человек,тем он добрее и чувствительнее.Очень хочется жить в полной гармонии с собой и окружающим миром.Тогда счастье видится даже в мелочах....


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Tasha

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Чувствую "запах позитива"! 
Ирина,как прошла поездка?Наверное масса приятных впечатлений,как впрочем и обычно у Вас? 
Жду фото.Очень интересно посмотреть.Да,и фото у Вас всегда такие "живые".
Если будет время и желание,прошу поделиться (и не одна я,заметьте!)  


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Irina

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Я с детства восхищена Юрием Горным, человеком с уникальными способностями, он первый назвал себя экстрасенсом, чтобы его не путали с Мессингом, а его трюки повторил и объяснил впоследствии. «Экстрасенс - это человек, наделенный обостренным рефлексивным мышлением... Я на личном опыте убедился, что вещи, выдаваемые сторонниками мистики, религии за сверхъестественные, потусторонние, на самом деле являются следствием природных законов либо чисто человеческого умения, подчас весьма нечистоплотного.» Он не создавал вокруг себя мистического ореола и всегда сотрудничал с учеными.
Можно почитать «Феномен Юрия Горного» автор Б Руденко.

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R S, 50 y.o.

United Arab Emirates

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I feel that anyone who is really serious about their search, should actually think and write the Answer to Questions without fail. Most people don't do it, and I am not a person who mince my words. My tongue is sharp and seldom people who know me, try to foul me. I also correct myself, when I do a mistake.

Regarding photo - Security and other things have grown exponentially, and track is also better. The instances where bank didn't have a procedure about what need to be done in case of an identity theft and all have been reduced considerably.

I believe you about your age. My mother's brother is 74, but he looks very toned and my own father is 84 now. I myself cannot find out where he is today, because he is so independent and goes for visits of all sorts of places by himself.

Integrity in all things we do, is really a requirement for everyone. I don't know much about Slavic women, but I have met a few married to my compatriots who are really very family oriented and grounded. but I think it is difficult to find women with depth in this site and who can actually have a continuous conversation. I came across only one person who could actually ask me some meaningful question in the forum. And she is undecided on what is a bit important for me. Anyway, at least someone who is ready to explore without boundary and a general good natured would be great. Why don't we ask in the forum about this ??? May be we will be able to crack the code. No one there who will invest time to find out about a guy properly.

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Share with me if you have any experience on the matter of Slavic women and how to communicate? I saw a YouTube that says most Ukrainian women lies a lot for no particular reasons. I don't know personally. These Europeans saying that and I didn't come across much comments under the video which tear them apart if it is wrong.

Is it ok, I send you a private message ? Its always nice to pick good friends. I was supposed to fly to New Zealand with my kids, as it was the longest Guinness book record flight by Emirates in December, 2016. But business took a nasty turn and I am undergoing a real war in life since.

Regards,

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R S, 50 y.o.

United Arab Emirates

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You have a huge blessing. But being openly gratuitous about these blessing, will always bring you more. Stay blessed.  

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R S, 50 y.o.

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I have to totally agree to this comment. Though cold place, it is one of the good countries with wonderful people around. Have a swede Guy who is a friend of mine, Lars Olof, 74 years, he is now with an Iranian lady who is really good for him, still jovial and robust.

Excellent and indepth knowledge in Engineering, one of the very few people with whom I can talk and have meaningful conversations. He invited me several times, but missed out each other visiting his place in Sweden.

Need to catch up. Now he is in Sweden. Has some health issues, I don't know his exact place. Will update later. One of the most contended people in the world.

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Olga, 51 y.o.

Sweden

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Спасибо Светлана .  Мне много шведов писало .🤔Я сама первая никогда не писала ,но может попробовать взять инициативу в свои руки как некоторые девочки делают . Здесь в Швеции много одиноких мужчин и как мне мой сказал очень многие мужчины хотят в жены русских девушек . У нас племянники они спят и видят русских жён себе )

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R S, 50 y.o.

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Our family had been a concussion of different faiths, people from different states within India and different countries. So it was never a problem and I may not be able to explain this scenario at the other spectrum properly. If you are a smoker, you can think about how you have the pleasure for your senses while living with a strictly non smoking family. ( I don't know if this is example )

But generally, among Hindu community, there is a high tolerance level, with respect to others belief systems, because all paths lead to GOD. Hindus don't have a fear that if you participate in any other religious practices, you will go to hell or that if you abstain you will rot in hell. There will be enough and more square foot of personal space where you can just do whatever you want.

If you have a belief system, respect others belief system also. Participate in them, explore them and be a seeker. Certain ceremonies will require you dress in a certain fashion. Get along just like you will join your friends in a new game and follow those rules during the game. There could be dietery restrictive period of year like "Lent " before Easter and Ramadan. I fast totally without water for twice a month on the days called "Ekadasi" for about 36 hours. It has health benefits - whereby the Nobel Prize last year on Autophagy recommends fasting.

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You might have heard that there are millions of Gods in Hindu religion. It is wrong, there is only ONE GOD, anything that you can describe and can be made into an idol is Demi God, even though they are called as God, while speaking. So, within a house, there could be someone who follow the female deity form " Devi ", while another person go to a temple of Lord Siva, While another person try to befriend, Lord Ganesha ( with elephant face), and yet another follow Lord Vishnu. So if you really put effort, you can find a Million Hindus who worship different forms / manifestation of GOD. As told in my last post, Devi herself is worshipped in 9 forms, from a motherly to most destructive in the coming nine days.

Now, I can only narrate my own personal experience in my family. My sister is nearly 10 years elder to me. She was married to a person whose family was strict vegetarian. So she used to be vegetarian in her home, but come to our place to eat non vegetarian. Now she has become vegetarian, she subtly tells me to be vegetarian, whereby I still eat Beef, Pork and also anything that comes to devour me. I enjoy cooking a spectrum of dishes, and don't mind having raw non vegetarian like Sushi, etc. Her daughter is currently studying in Copenhagen University, Denmark, who is a non vegetarian.

Beef could be a big NO, NO, for a large group of Hindus. When I go to those places, I am just contended with what is available there. I feel like eating, I get it and eat within my own home or my own room for that matter. If I find a partner who is vegetarian, may be she will never cook for me anything non vegetarian.  May be, I will end up buying a tiny fridge for myself.   . Nothing escapes me.

Now, when we have parties, there is always a Vegetarian corner, if muslim friends are attending, out of respect for them, we will avoid pork dishes, OR have a separate corner for Pork. ( There could be some houses, certain food preferences need to be your little secret with your partner )

I have to say that it will all depend on case to case basis, and on the mind set of that particular families. I think you can ask your partner about what is the scenario in his place and come to an arrangement with him early. You can ask him, if daily worship of the Gods are done and is it mandatory that all members have to attend or not. I feel that as long as you get along and don't scorn upon and show your displeasures in the open and have an intolerant mentality inside, any Hindu Household, would be of no issue for anyone from another faith.

This is my opinion  

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

Germany

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Ольга, ВЫ себя недооцениваете, пишете Вы очень даже хорошо и интересно  .

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

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Спасибо, Оля! Присоединяйтесь, не исчезайте   .

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

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Да и я помню. Она врач кажется была. Из Днепра вроди или из Запорожья.

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Svetlana, 50 y.o.

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Думаю многие девушки готовы обратить внимание на шведов.
В этом случае главное получить и от шведов взаимное внимание.
Очень рада за Вас Ольга  





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