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Tod Zheng, 37 y.o.

China

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Any marriage is not for the purpose of love is a rascal


what do you think about this sentence:any marriage is not for the purpose of love is a rascal,pls share your view

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Salvador, 54 y.o.

Mexico

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Pensamiento sobre la Mujer


No tienes porque tratar de entender a una mujer, solo amala, admírala, disfrútala, deja que sea libre y sé libre con ella, no la conviertas en un complemento de tu machismo. Tampoco trates de entender su actitud, solo entiende lo que se necesita para hacerla sentir bien y hazla sentir bien! y entonces cuando actúes de esta manera ella te querrá. no puedes hacer que te quiera a la fuerza, no puedes ser brusco porque no recibirás nada, no puedes atarla porque se te escapara de las manos, no intentes ser su máximo dueño, nadie es dueño de nadie... así firmes un contrato de matrimonio no podrás tener propiedad sobre los deseos y sentimientos de una mujer.

Siempre he dicho que la mujer es la debilidad del hombre, y de aquí el porque el hombre siempre a marginado al sexo opuesto, ha convertido la figura femenina en su esclavo. El hombre en su cobardía hace creer a la mujer que es inferior para mantenerla dormida, para que no despierten su gran potencial, para que no se den cuenta que son peligrosas para nuestro orgullo de "machos", y de que pueden manejar el mundo por un mejor camino que nosotros. Ellas son el lado hermoso de la humanidad, pero nunca han participado en ella, ¡se les ha prohibido! y es por esto que la historia de la humanidad es tan decadente y horrorosa, pues siempre ha sido mano y obra del hombre.

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La mujer es un maravilloso regalo de la existencia, su cuerpo es un delicado camino que solo se puede recorrer si posees la exacta y adecuada sutileza, sus pechos, dos delicados monumentos símbolos de su hermosa feminidad, su vientre, fuente de uno de los mas hermosos misterios de la vida. Su actitud un laberinto que se torna oscuro ante la visión de cualquier hombre, su paciencia, la fortaleza con la que ha podido soportar al hombre, su dolor, el mayor dolor que puede soportar el mundo, su coraje, aquella fuerza única que las hace levantar de cualquier caída... y su presencia, aquella luz que siempre ha faltado en la humanidad para ser humanidad.

"Mujer, no odies al hombre porque te convertirás en él"

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Salvador, 54 y.o.

Mexico

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FALL IN LOVE WITH A REAL MAN


TO MY DEAREST YOUNG GIRLS, MY DAUGHTER AND NICES, AND ALSO YOU  

"If you ever read these words, I want to ask you a few minutes of your time ... to try to explain."

"I can not ask you to fall in love with a stranger, that's absurd; But I want to ask you to give it to your heart, knowing that whoever is by your side is a man who will know how to love and appreciate you for the woman you are. "

"I want to ask you, that you fall in love with a real man; One that pursues you with the eyes, like a hungry lion; And that, be lost in the brightness of your eyes, even in the dark. Fall in love with a man, for whom you are the only woman in this world; And, be able to build a castle, even if you only have a pencil and paper. "

"I can not ask you to fall in love with a man who does everything; However, I beg you to fall in love with a man who is willing to do everything for you. "

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"I want you to fall in love with a man with enough manliness to cook at night, or when you're tired. A man who can sew a button on your favorite blouse, so you can get to that meeting on time; And, why not, to tell you in the ear that: all will be well. "

"Fall in love with a man who values ​​God, family and friends. For in life, you will need all of them. And, if he's a thief, try to steal only a few kisses; Then your heart will already have stolen you. "

"I want you to fall in love with the one who caresses your face and plays with your hair, so you will know that your mind is alone with you. Anyone can say a "I love you"; But, love shows itself every day, and in the little ones: "I love you" ... "

"I want you to fall in love with a man who tries to fill you with joy; And make you smile, even in your most difficult days. Fall in love with that man, who did not take advantage of you, even in your moments of vulnerability. A true man will respect you, even when you do not want to. "

"Fall in love with a man who does not show off his possessions; But to know how to appreciate and value all that has lived, the people with whom he has shared and the experiences he has accumulated in life. "

"Fall in love with someone who likes to cook and exercise, so you'll have the perfect excuse to eat your whims; And then spend time together: "burning those calories". I want you to fall in love with a man who is willing to oppose you; And, have a different point of view than yours. So, in health, distance or illness, you will know that you can always count on someone who will be by your side: despite of any difference. "

"Fall in love with a man who keeps you in mind at every moment of the day; And, that you fill the life of details. A man, never hide what he feels; And tell you, what you need to know. I want you to fall in love with someone who knows how to listen to you, even in the sordid silence of forgetting. "

"Fall in love with a man who is free, who is yours; That I loved you, and let love for you. Fall in love with someone who, though not me, makes you happy. "

"In the end, if you have not yet understood, you are so worthy of this love so much yours and so mine, that the one you fall in love with will know that: only a real man is worthy of you."

"Do not settle for less ... Never lower the bar."

"He tells you:"
"A MAN IN LOVE WITH YOU. YOUR FATHER"

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Andrea, 39 y.o.

Italy

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I am surprised! Message for gentlemen!


Hello gentlemen, I checked the list of women who want to meet me, are 12,200 beautiful girls!!!

Now you will say: WOW MAN YOU ARE VERY LUKY!

When i write a message to some of them, very rarely have the answer.
I suppose that they check on my profile and see that i am tall 168 cm.
The problem is that women "tall" 152 cm write on their profiles they want a 170-175-180cm tall man at least, till 30 cm of difference.
Of course i understand very tall woman if they look for a tall man but a girls tall a meter and a half?

I look good, I succeed in life, I have a lot of culture and interests and high education, I can talk about everything and I honestly do not want to undergo all this.
I answer already a few messages, my response rate will be even lower.

The height is not synonymous with intelligence, success, courage, strength, and ability to solve the problems of life, giving peace of mind to your family, it is only in appearance.

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Men know that today's problems can not be solved with height but need the money and the brain.

Sorry but love? Chemistry? The thought? The parsonality? The reliability?


The women here choose to answer only according to centimeters?

I have much more success in real, i mean out of the site.

I joined this site because I do not like very much Italian women, their way of living and acting, but I see even here the sensitivity and intelligence do not abound.

So, colleagues not tall, what is your experience here?


 

Thanks!


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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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~ HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE Personality. ~ - Must read.

1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control.Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

3. Don't over do; keep your limits.

4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does.

5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.

6. Dream more while you are awake.

7.Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..

8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness..

9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.

10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

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13. Smile and laugh more.

14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

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Bas, 52 y.o.

Netherlands

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Ukrainian Passport


Hello members
I like to invite an Ukrainian woman to my country, The Netherlands. She agrees to come.
Till now I only had contact with her using this website and Whatsapp.
She has no computer with a webcam. So I only received some photos.

She now says an International passport costs 4700 hryvnia (174 USD). This seems a lot of money to me. Can someone tell me?
I want to pay it for her but I am still not sure about her being sincere.
Thanks for your advice.

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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Majority of today's relationships cry, stink & bleed because-
People take 1/100th of time to get into THAT relationship and then they further are taking 100x time to get over THAT.
Why do not you get this ?? ---Lust is Blind. Flirting is Blind. Loneliness is fully blind. 'Copying what your friends are doing' too is super blind.
Open you EYES baby and please delayyyyyy falling in love!! Love today is Tooooo frequent & Tooooo EASY.
Do something DIFFICULT as 'BECOMING SUPERBLY AWESOME IN YOUR Fitness, Career, Hobbies, Communication & Emotions'. Once you become THIS; the right ones will wait in queue to date you. I promise. I swear .

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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If you light a lamp for someone else it will also brighten your path. Today be a light to those you meet along the way. A simple smile may brighten someone's path today, a phone call to an old friend, helping an elderly cross the street. No matter how small it might seem shine your light today. One good deed can go a long way for you! one life rise and shine on.

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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3 reasons why you are trying to change but FAILING to do so:
1) You are doing the same old stuff yet expecting new results. Same distractions, temptations & complications. Same old you.
2) Lack of self-discipline. You need to decide the 4 most imp things and then do them with extreme doggedness. Else, NO POINT!
3) You are menti-sental. Your feelings are your GOD. They run you (and ruin you). Drop those junk emotions in the nearest trashcan. And move on with lesser baggage.
Rise & Shine!

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Ben, 37 y.o.

United Kingdom

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Monday motivation


Dear Monday, thanks for having the word "mon" in you. That's French for "mine". In case you weren't aware, Monday, but it makes me think of you more as "my day". Frankly that sounds like a much more promising way to start the week.

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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Be RESPONSIBLE for the PRESENCE that you CREATE Always aim to have a POSITIVE impact on the people that surround you ~ Take a second before you enter anywhere that you will encounter others and decide to bring only FAVORABLE energy It feels so much better to leave a room knowing that you’ve left your company in a BETTER state than when you arrived POSITIVITY and smiles are CONTAGIOUS if you carry enough of the "FEEL-GOOD" germ ~ SPREAD it wherever you go, leaving behind symptoms of UPLIFTED spirits, SMILES and JOY Start a "WELL-BEING" epidemic by deciding to infect others with your ENERGY…We don’t need a VACCINE for VIGOR!

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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An Email this morning  am bored, confused & going 'I don't know where'. What should I do ?? Can't bear all this anymore. Want to do something very big in Life. Please answer me !
OK! This is my Answer  I don't have the Answer. However I can tell u the method how u may find the direction to your answer  1) Add physical fitness to your life . 60 mins daily burnout for 6 months (without even a single day of break)
2) Identify 10 books to be read and read them in next 6 months. One has to be "Autobiography of a Yogi"
3) Meet 10 successful people from different fields and inner view them
4) Avoid relationship chutzpah for next 6 months
5) Do your current job with 100% focus with absolute intention to excel in it for next 6 months
6) Don't say u r confused to anyone including yourself for next 6 months

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Answer will come before 6 months. ..


May the force be with you ,

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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A school principal in Singapore sent this letter to the parents before the exams..... and yes ! You are going to love reading & sharing THIS one !
Dear parents,
The exams of your children will start soon. I know you are all really anxious for your child to do well.
But please do remember amongst the students who will be sitting for the exams...
There is an artist,who doesn't need to understand maths...
There is an entrepreneur, who doesn't care about History or English literature...
There is a musician, whose chemistry marks won't matter...
There is an athlete, whose physical fitness is more important than physics...
If your child does get top mark's, that's Great...!
But if he or she doesn't...
Please don't take away their self-confidence and dignity from them...
Tell them it's Okay...
It's just an exam, they are cut out for much bigger things in life...
Please do this and when you do, watch your children conquer the world...

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One exam or low marks won't take away their dreams and talent...


And please do not think Doctors and Engineers are the only happy people in the World...
With warm regards,
The Principal

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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The Secret to Success "You might have more talent than me, you might be smarter than me, you might be sexier than me, you might be all of those things you got it on me in nine categories. But if we get on the treadmill together, there are two things: You're getting off first, or I'm going to die. It's really that simple, right?"

Lesson to learn: Someone else may be better than you in some ways, perhaps because they are naturally gifted, but perseverance and hard work can always win out over talent.

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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Almost everyone around you is involved in petty gossips.
How can you make a statement to the world if you also gossip? Leave gossip for weak people. Strong people do not say anything about which they are not 200% sure.
People discuss / criticize / talk too much about other people; maybe because they just cannot be HEROES themselves – so they find / create VILLAINS around.
Don't create VILLAINS. Don't be a cheap gossip monger!

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Ben, 37 y.o.

United Kingdom

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A poetic time


It is sad and unfortunate that the immense art and value of poetical language has been drowned in a sea of acronyms, abbreviations and technical language.
LOVE is just about the longest living topic to be discussed among humans, so here is one of my favourite poems:

"O Tell Me The Truth About Love"

Some say love's a little boy,
And some say it's a bird,
Some say it makes the world go round,
Some say that's absurd,
And when I asked the man next door,
Who looked as if he knew,
His wife got very cross indeed,
And said it wouldn't do.

Does it look like a pair of pyjamas,
Or the ham in a temperance hotel?
Does its odour remind one of llamas,
Or has it a comforting smell?
Is it prickly to touch as a hedge is,
Or soft as eiderdown fluff?
Is it sharp or quite smooth at the edges?
O tell me the truth about love.

Our history books refer to it
In cryptic little notes,
It's quite a common topic on
The Transatlantic boats;

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I've found the subject mentioned in


Accounts of suicides,
And even seen it scribbled on
The backs of railway guides.

Does it howl like a hungry Alsatian,
Or boom like a military band?
Could one give a first-rate imitation
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On a saw or a Steinway Grand?

Is its singing at parties a riot?
Does it only like Classical stuff?
Will it stop when one wants to be quiet?
O tell me the truth about love.

I looked inside the summer-house;
It wasn't even there;
I tried the Thames at Maidenhead,
And Brighton's bracing air.
I don't know what the blackbird sang,
Or what the tulip said;
But it wasn't in the chicken-run,
Or underneath the bed.

Can it pull extraordinary faces?
Is it usually sick on a swing?
Does it spend all its time at the races,
or fiddling with pieces of string?
Has it views of its own about money?
Does it think Patriotism enough?
Are its stories vulgar but funny?
O tell me the truth about love.

When it comes, will it come without warning
Just as I'm picking my nose?
Will it knock on my door in the morning,
Or tread in the bus on my toes?
Will it come like a change in the weather?
Will its greeting be courteous or rough?
Will it alter my life altogether?
O tell me the truth about love.

W. H. Auden

I wish you all a great start into the week!

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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A tourist from the United States visited the famous Indian Yogi. He was astonished to see that the Yogi's home was only a simple room filled with books. The only furniture was a Mat and a Kerosene Lantern.
"Yogi ji, where is your furniture?" asked the tourist.
"Where is yours?" replied Yogi.
"Mine? But I'm only a visitor here."
"So am I," said the Yogi.!! 
Lesson  One very small Life ! Travel Light smile emoticon .
The issues on your mind just could be unnecessary baggages . Drop them & Fly !!

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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Become BAD Once If Staying GOOD Always Is Not Helping You

Here’s my singular most ‘people learning’ of 2016 You tried to very genuinely help someone so many many times… and that too at the cost of your own health, peace & most importantly TIME. The more you helped; the more you lost your own self. Got misunderstood as well most of the times.

If your help could not help him / her; THEN it will not help in the future times as well…
So! The worst YOU can do is to carry on behaving as in past. And the best you can do is to NOT TRY to take control of others and let things BE.
YOU take control of yourself. And focus on your damn life. Too much to do in here … Isn’t it ?
They might find you shirking and might call you BAD. Become BAD to them once & forever than getting dissolved every single time (by becoming GOOD). Becoming BAD doesn’t mean doing bad to them. It means they will automatically start calling you BAD as they will now be missing your attention (having gotten used to it).

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Applies to the closest relations in your life. A knife even if made of Gold can’t be kept closer to heart.


People can be severely thankless at times & keep on expecting you to be always there discharging your sense of responsibility (especially in families).
If you are emotionally competent enough to stay disconnected from their drama; yes! please keep on helping them. But if you are getting affected & rubbed and that also too very often- take a bold decision. For your very own people could be your biggest time & energy vampires & could suck you dry if you keep on letting them.
Be bold. Buy out peace by taking this ONE DECISION.
GUILT never BUILT anything. One Life!!

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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What is Success?

*At the age of 4 years ...* *Success is.....*
That you do not urinate in your pants,

*At the age of 8 years ...* *Success is.....*
To know the way back home.

*At the age of 12 years,* *success is........*
To have friends.

*At the age of 18 years,* *success is.......*
To get a driver's license.

*At the age of 23 years,* *success is.......*
To graduate from a university.

*At the age of 25 years,* *success is........*
To get a job

*At the age of 30 years,* *success is........*
To be a family Man.

*At the age of 35 years,* *success is........*
To make money.

*At the age of 45 years,* *success is.......*
To maintain the appearance of a young man.

*At the age of 50 years,* *success is.......*
To provide good education for your children.

*At the age of 55 years,* *success is...*
To still be able to perform your duties well.

*At the age of 60 years,* *success......*
To still be able to keep driving license

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*At the age of 65 years,* *success is.......*
To live without disease.

*At the age of 70 years,* *success is........*
not to be a burden on any one.

*At the age of 75 years,* *success is........*
To have old friends.

*At the age of 80 years,* *success is.......*
To know the way back home.

*At the age of 85 years,* *success is.......*
That not to urinate in your pants again.

One of the best messages I have ever read.

Life is a Cycle!!!!

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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It was one seemingly ordinary day when I decided to QUIT… All of a sudden I made a decision to quit my job, my relationship and finally my spirituality. I just wanted to quit my life.
But before that, I went to the wood to have one last talk with God.
I started: “God, can you give me one good reason not to quit?”
His answer really surprised me: “Look around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and the bamboo?”
I replied: “Yes. When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth.
Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.
But still, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.
He said: “In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit.”

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“Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth.


Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant…But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.
It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.”
After that, He asked me: “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots. I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you.”
“Don’t compare yourself to others.” He added. ”The bamboo had a different Purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful.” God said to me: “Your time will come”
“You will rise high”.
I asked: “How high should I rise?”
“How high will the bamboo rise?” He also asked.
I was confused: “As high as it can?”
”Yes.” He said, “Give Me glory by rising as high as you can.”
After this conversation I left the forest and I wrote this amazing story. I really hope that these words can help you to see that God will never give up on you.
You should Never, Never, Never, Give up.
Don’t tell the Lord how big the problem is, tell the problem how great the Lord is!

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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karma


True. Nothing works like a wonder if one can restrain self not to indulge in acts of revenge. The true power is in restraint even if one has the power and capacity to hit back.

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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Life is not about doing 20 things lousily but about doing those 3-4 things very well; as the remaining 16-17 things are usually nothing but JUNK attractions. In fact a lot of stuff around is JUNK. The trick is to simplify & progressively reduce your JUNK consumption & eventually become so discerning that you begin to ‘Bunk the Junk’. Only then will your thoughts gradually become practical & objective instead of irrational, dramatic & subjective. It will be then that the REAL growth will come (Personally experienced).

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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Why is it that a lot of people achieve so much in their lives while the rest remain onlookers?
I believe the reasons are 1. Top achievers TRAVEL LIGHT!
They don’t focus their energies on over-emotional issues or hold grudges against people. Most of us get upset or over-react when the things don’t turn out the way we have planned.
Accept that people are different and have a right to disagree with you!
2. Top achievers don’t hold PEOPLE CRUTCHES.
Most of us waste our time on pleasing people. We get upset when somebody holds a bad opinion of us.
Remember, Opinions are transient and do not matter in the long run.
So, kick the drama and upgrade your life!
One life! Rise and Shine!

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Danny, 31 y.o.

India

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Someone once said “If you want something very, very badly, let it go free. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with.”


Someone once said “If you want something very, very badly, let it go free. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with.”

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Joel, 21 y.o.

Mexico

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Interrogante


¿Será posible que algún día exista una página para conocer gente que no sea lucrativa?

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Gabriel, 45 y.o.

Mexico

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Why a Russian woman want to get married with a foreigner, I mean a Latino man?


I have read some information about this topic before. But I would like to know some more information, mainly because it is necessary to know more about a different culture than mine, since I'm a Latin and I am very interested about Russian culture, but not only from the official perspective but from the people who lives its culture every day.
Thank you in advance.

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Salvador, 54 y.o.

Mexico

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Teoría de Juegos en las Relaciones por Internet


Habiendo reflexionado en las relaciones virtuales, he observado que el éxito ó fracaso de estas relaciones tienen que ver con las leyes de oferta y demanda, que existe en nuestro entorno tanto en la selección natural ( búsqueda de parejas, reproducción) como en los negocios.

 

Observo que los perfiles deben ofertar las características de quien se promociona bajo los siguientes conceptos:

 

                Imagen ( entre más atractivo físicamente, tiene un alto valor de atracción)

 

                Personalidad, que puede ser unas cuantas lineas descriptivas ó una completa descripción de la persona que se promociona.

               

                Gustos Personales, con los hobbys y entretenimientos que nos interesan y disfrutamos.

               

                Lo que nos atrae en la persona idónea, sus características raciales, edad, educación, finanzas.

 

                Nuestros anhelos de crecimiento personal como en pareja.

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                El cómo visualizamos a nosotros mismos y como nos ven las personas que nos rodean.

 

Entonces, el juego consiste en encontrar una sintoniza entre nuestros ideales y nuestras realidades, con los posibles participantes en el juego.

 

Deben existir o acordarse reglas para no sentir una pérdida de tiempo y esfuerzo,

 

Suerte a todos y espero que sea esta reflexión de utilidad...

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Sean, 27 y.o.

Germany

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Introducing Your's truly


Warm greetings, Gentlemen, and also the ladies in this subtopic.

I want to take the opportunity to mingle here a little bit. I would start my introducing myself, and then ask a few questions.
[Warning : long post- you might get bored and bitter while reading this. So if you feel that I have been talking too much, or any negative emotion (towards me), I am sorry for your experience. I still wish to present myself in a clear way, Gentleman to Gentleman. Should this offend anyone, then please, you are probably interpreting this in a wrong way.]

Background


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I am a male of the Human species, 26 year old, almost 27 in a few days. I am ethnically Indian, but I grew up in England and India, and I studied, live and work in Germany.

The reason I am here


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I am opening a can of worms here.

=> First a little bit of how I got here. During my studies, I decided to learn the Russian language at least for reading, so that I could read mathematical monographs from Russia. At that time, I noticed that Russian life's outlook is slightly different than the western one. That raised my curiosity.

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Later, I have my own company now, and the second owner of the company is from Croatia. We operate business in various countries in Europe, including Ukraine. So I was able to experience the Slavic culture first hand, albeit for a very short time. I am aware, that the Ukrainian culture probably does not represent the entire spectrum of Slavic culture, but it's been a good experience.

This is why I got interested in Russian / Slavic people, finally leading me here.

=> the reasons I'm not charmed in Germany : (Disclaimer : this section is my own *personal* experience, and does not represent Germany as a whole) You see, so far, I have had been the designated Nerd. Some ladies who knew me even affectionately gave me the nickname "Sheldon" from Big Bang Theory - others who didn't know me, gave me the name "Rajesh"  . As the designated nerd, I was never reciprocated, in fact scolded on my advances. Fast forward a few years, and now I have my own Company, multinational B2B business, money and status. And lo - all the ladies, who so far were never interested in me, suddenly are dying to see me.

I am not charmed.

I do not plan to play the role of a provider to a woman who so far didn't care. I am aware, that the elderly generation will eat me alive for saying this. But regardless of the mother or the grandmother advising the woman to settle down with a provider, and the man to strive to become a provider - I am still not charmed. I first want to be loved, for my mind, my brain, my body, and my way of life. Then I can bring in the bank and birth in it.

Besides that, as an Indian immigrant, romantic life in Germany is crappy. Either people think you are a software nerd (I am not. I am a aerospace nerd   ) or you are a rapist or you are a terrorist.

Even funnier is that the men accept me as the leader of a group, but women start shouting "We don't need a leader, we definitely don't need a male leader, and even if we do, we don't need an immigrant male leader". This really happened.

As for being a rapist, I, well, don't wanna make a comment.

As for being a terrorist : I fell in love with an Italian, she was okey with me, then suddenly she **suddenly remembered** (ähm, ahem, ahem) that she was married to a Pakistani who was using her to stay in Europe to avoid terrorist charges in his country.

Yes, all these reactions are pretty entertaining to me, but this is not sustainable in a relationship.

=> Reasons I am not signing up for an Indian dating site : Chicks of India that I came across so far are too conservative, and by that I mean in terms of outlook to life, and ability to take risks in life. I am a scientist and a businessman - so certain amount of risk taking and dealing with resulting hardship is part of my life. But Indian and west European chicks alike don't appreciate this. Not to mention that you have to deal with their elders, and their expectations .... I am not interested in marrying the closed minded family of a less, but closed minded chick.

So, so far I'm pretty dry.

What I am looking for here :


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Long term relationship, that can withstand the stresses arising from my kind of work. By that I don't mean that I am going to put the woman aside, and ignore her for my work. I want a woman to stick to me and travel with me all around the world. However working and travelling all around the world means sometimes it will be less than a 7 star vacation, and that will create considerable physical and mental stress (trust me).

I want to have a long term relationship with a woman who isn't just looking for a provider, or isn't agreeing to settle down for me 'cause she's an adult now and "have different demands", who doesn't disqualify me as a romantic partner just because of my nerdiness, and isn't interested in me "because so far she's been interested in other kind of men and now experience taught her to like people like me" - no thanks, not charmed.

I am looking for a woman who is in the same wavelength with me, in terms of that she's hungry for passion as much as I am. Someone who didn't waste her youth lurking around in the shadows, but hopefully achieved something in life, so that the upcoming midlife crisis will not be an issue for her.

I want a woman who realizes life is short, so there should be a lot of romance, and memories worth making.

That is pretty much all what I care. Religion, hair color, etc irrelevant.

If that is possible, then down the road, marriage and children are thinkable.

Now, shipmates, here's my question to you :

* What is your experience on this site so far? Is this a site where it is possible to meet a diverse array of ladies to find out who resonates with me? Or is this a site full of people who wishes to get married to a rich provider?
* Does anyone know, how do I search for the lady's preference(s)? Not mine, but hers? That is, is there a way, to search for ladies whose desired age matches mine, desired "ethnicity" matches mine, and filter the rest? Or do I have to check them one by one?

Besides that, I thank you for reading this and have a nice weekend Madams and Sirs !

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Salvador, 54 y.o.

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The female brain


Hey fellows, did you have read the book about the female brain?

If not, pity....

If yes, congratulations.

I did it and I understood many REAL facts (even my dear and beloved daughter and explained what she feels and senses).

Women, the most delicate and really amazing gift that god / nature give to us....

Treat them as they really deserves...

Women !!!

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Salvador, 54 y.o.

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Find the way to live in Russia


Hello! In my last trip to Moscow and saint Petersburg with my very dear friend and business partner, I had the question why not me live in Russia.

After some reflexions and the touring of saint Petersburg city, I found a way to do it.

Me get into the university polytechnic of Saint Petersburg with Russian language, master degree and even PhD on Computer automation.

I have been two times at Russia and people are great with me, even I run sociological test at both cities and I choose Saint Petersburg to live for at least 5/8 years.

The question is about to find a property to buy and live there.

Is it possible for me as a foreigner student?

Thanks!!

Salvador

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