Лиана, это такая сложная тема. Вы не знаете, почему эти люди покончили жизнь таким образом. Вы не знаете, что они думали об успехе и о жизни. Может, им вообще этот видимый успех не был нужен. Этот мир их не устраивал, ни успех, ни деньги не могли изменить эту ситуацию. Очень жаль, конечно. Часто думаю об этом: почему в богатых и успешных экономически странах так много самоубийств? Задумываюсь, помому что у самой ребёнок. У него, казалось бы, есть всё, о чём дети мечтают, во всяком случае намного больше, чем было у нас в детстве. И каждый раз, когда ему в чём-то отказывают (из последнего - не купили очередной костюм Человека-паука за 70 евро, дешевле ему не надо, они не такие), ему кажется, что у него самая плохая жизнь, он чувствует себя самым несчастным человеком на земле.

Из темноты не надо  

El amor si existe Jorge, pero para conseguirlo tu hai que seguir a buscar. No se desde cuanto tiempo estas aqui pero a mi me parece que este sitio es muy bueno para encontrar la mujer de tus suenos. No puedo darte recomendaciones pero ten fe, no eres solo, ni eres el unico de encontrar muheres quien no fueron compatibles. Mucha suerte y buen dia!

I must congratulate you Ben on how you handle such a wide ranging topic, you seem to really know your way around these matters. I would like to add that it's not easy to become someone people turn to for advice and see as a worthy person to learn from about success and failure. Furthermore we are surrounded by traditional and social media full of role models of success and it's very difficult for young people to decide who's a positive and who's a negative role model.

Son usuarios que te aman desde la oscuridad 🤣

A topic of conversation, gentleman. The point is that it is difficult to find a woman with your ideals, with similar tastes.

Мой ранний комментарий изменили, и суть также изменилась.

Они не были , неудачниками, но покончили жизнью в молодом возрасте,им казалось им что они неудачники, о них говорили по ТВ

Света ,здравствуйте! Хотела лично у вас проконсультироваться в нескольки вопросах. Мужчина из США,детей не имел никогда,брак расторгнут 15 лет назад. Живет в съемной квартире,меня это не пугает ,но и не радует. Какие важные аспекты мне нужно учитывать ? Мне он очень важен

Успех, для меня лично устаревшее, и смешное слово.

Эфимерное слово.
Очень много хороших людей, молодых , покончило жизнью,
т.к им показалось, что они неудачники в жизни, по примеру журналиста, о нем говорили по нашему ТВ, и таких много.

Я против пропаганды темы успеха.
Всё относительно.
Хорошо, и хорошо.
Большего и не надо.

Hello Svetlana,
You certainly have a good point here. I consider making a crucial distinction necessary here:
1) objective success
and
2) personal success.
Objective success is aligned to the good old SMART approach (setting goals: specification, measurability, action based, realisation and timing). This certainly also echoes gloomy episodes in and of history: by that definition the seizure of power by extremists, the waging of war and others still have to be considered 'successful', if we strictly abide by that definition.
Whether that goal is tied with our well-being or brings personal satisfaction with it, is an entirely different matter altogether, namely our PERSONAL SUCCESS.
Even them most extreme forms of government (Nazi-Germany, Fascist Italy, The Soviet Union, etc) would have been doomed from the outset, if the people, i.e. the leaders and the populace hadn't been determined to achieve (and implement) their goals.

what is the point of this?

I can’t predict the future but this is an option. I can support a family if this is a mutual choice of two people

Давид, у вас уже есть дети, надо ли вам ещё?
Ищите женщину уже с определенными детьми, взрослыми.
У вас ведь тоже взрослые дети.

Success is measured by meeting our goals in life! I remember you said your dream was USA 🇺🇸 I also hear you talk about your family husband and children. We often see women of 46 saying they can’t get reply’s or dates so I feel your achievements in dating is success. I can’t comment on other areas has I don’t know your life. I can’t make an instant opinion on everything about you that’s for sure but most what I know I like to read!

You cannot instantly recognise a loser or a failure you can instantly recognise a personality fault or a trait!

I’ve yet to meet a perfect person

It could further be argued that someone who instantly judges other could be seen has a bigot

Has for talking about others? Is there a sub criteria here? Is it ok to talk about others has long has there braindead and in Nut gang, or Caribbean Villa? or looking for women under half there age? This acceptable or hypocritical?

A mistake only a mistake if we learn from them.

I take onboard opinions and criticism but now Sunday is Monday so I now reply having enjoyed the silence  

Happy new week to everyone ;-)

Just read your profile and seen your children with you. Your children are much younger than mine and will be stable in school.

My children are 17 and 18 years old. Was 4 and 5 when I first had there care.

I agree 100% with your reply and has Male careers for our children we need to put the children first and be sure about who we meet.

At your age and your kids ages you are right to be more protective against meeting with women from other country’s however I’m sure you’ve done the right thing to look for Slavic woman and your beautiful family has much to offer the right woman. Once your sure you’ve made the right choice and the woman realises a future is with you and your beautiful children.

At 17 my son wants to see the world so inclusion is important to me i home educate him (my youngest) and having autism he lacks social interaction so for me the situation is right (for my family)

David, I have custody of my two young children and their mom lives in another state. I completely understand the hardships. My comment was not directed to you or your situation but merely my opinions on the matter and my own convictions that I attempt to maintain. There's no parenting handbook, we live and learn and we do what we feel is best from past experiences. That being said, I still stand by what I say. I personally would not bring my kids around any woman I wasn't seriously invested in, especially if there were to be any public displays of affection. When kids get older there may be more leniency as they can better grasp the concept of dating, friendships, relationships, etc

Todo es importante cuando se esta en una relacion, pero la verdadera base esta en el respeto y apoyo incondicional.

Hi Ben, interesting topic.
Nowadays, we see so many eloquently talk about the greatest ideas yet they have not done or achieved anything tangible in their lives. Blah-blah-blah...
Could you please define a "successful person"? What does success mean to you?
Unfortunately, I feel like the very definition of success is lame in modern Western society. Most people when they hear "successful" think of someone wealthy or powerful. Yet, there are examples of the most despicable people with big money and great power (think of current POTUS).
I reflect often about what true success means. Let's say 30-40 years from now when I am nearing the end of life, how can I measure whether my life was successful and was worth living. I haven't found a clear answer for me yet.

I can quite agree with the first bit of your simple solution, the second half should be a bit more specific I think, losers talk about other peoples actions and ideas, simply put they judge people.

Your text is empty blabla and has nothing to do with the issue at hand.
Some friendly advice for the start of the week:
1) first read
2) then understand
(If unclear ASK)
3) then think
4) lastly text / post
PS: doing this in reversed order will bring YOU problems.

My dating principles are family always there for each other. Dates can come and go and until married they can’t have equal consideration to your children or family . Once married then child must show respect and both parents have a equal say on everything. My family values are strong and I seek person with simular values. I’ve achieved allot in my life I’m not a loser but my goals are different to someone with no children so I agree my eyes and the male member you reply to are much different. I want more children with the right woman!

Brendon they not see there own mother who’s not seen her youngest in 5 years or more. My mother (grandma) is 87 and not always well enough to be with my youngest. Allot of the women with little support or with drunk or violent ex partners or partners who don’t care about there children will understand its hard to make arrangements while dating. Parents need to have a life has well has be a parent and whatever anyone says or thinks I’ve no issues with my 17 year old son meeting Slavic women he understands daddy can date and I always get two bedroomed apartments and his rooms private and his space!

Прасковья, Санкт-Петербург мой любимый город. Меня туда тянет постоянно.Я там заряжаюсь положительной энергетикой.

Your post translated perfectly and I couldn't agree more! I wouldn't introduce a woman to my children if I had no intentions of having a lasting serious relationship. Especially when children are young they get confused easily and don't fully understand the concepts of relationships.

Спасибо)Лора.
Очень красиво написала и фото красиво очень.
Давно хочу посетить Грецию.
Буду следовать твоим советам.Спасибо!

Если Дэвид имеет быть в хорошей семье )это большое счастье.
Семейные ценности всегда очень важны.
Может тебе не так повезло и как Дэвид иметь хорошую семью.
Это счастье всегда)и у тебя будет когда то.

Это не совсем вежливо так писать для мужчины из Англии.
Excusez-moi,возможно вы не англичанен.

Attention means ASKING first and THEN making a conclusion.
All that you do is to guess and give opinions.

Я умею вникать в текст, а мысли я умею читать, когда вижу ваши глаза, если ваши мысли открыты и рот закрыт.
Надеюсь, Вы тоже умеете читать мысли тех людей, которых Вы очень хорошо знаете. Обычно это близкие люди. Друг, подруга, коллега по рааботе, мама, папа, дочь, сын, возлюбленной. Вы проводите с ними большую часть времени в тесном взаимодействии. И второе важное условие прочтения мыслей Вы неравнодушны к этому человеку. Вы можете его не любить, он может вас даже больше огорчать, но Вы всегда заинтересованы и внимательны к нему. Тогда Вы считываете мысли с него. Ему "никуда от вас не спрятаться". То есть не спрятать своих мыслей. Мы же иногда все спиной чувствуем что делают наши дети за нашей спиной, пока я читаю или чищу картошку. Или у вас еще не возникало такого внутреннего видения, взора?
Это не ясновидение. Это внимательность.