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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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Normal of woman to not ask questions to the men?

Been here like 4 month and been talking propably to 50 girls or more. I am the only one asking questions and the only answer, is that normal behavior?

This is so boring to have talk in my opinion, its like talking to a wall.

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Elena, 65 y.o.

Ukraine

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I recently stopped talking to a man for this reason ... For a week I asked questions, the man answered me very politely .. I did not ask anything about me and did not discuss any of those on his initiative .. (he added me to my favorites ) .

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Eric, 76 y.o.

Netherlands

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I'm not sure if I can follow your reasoning.Do you believe that you can find a serious partner here in 4 months ?

Of course it may happen ,but I wouldn't bet on it too strongly.

Then , of course , it is what type of questions you ask.
And how do you respond , when her answer is not what you had expected ??

Understand that first you must ask the correct questions.And be polite and understand that you are a complete stranger to her.

If you want to have it more realistic , you must go to E Europe or Russia yourself.And meet women there in person.
In this way , you will not have the correspondence part.

And you will almost immediately know , if she is likely to be a good partner.You will have to go on multiple dates with her , of course.

If you still want to correspond with women here first , then patience and perseverance will be your best friend.

In a previous post of you , people have given you some other advice.

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What did you do with these suggestions ?



I mean , did you edit your profile text and may be other things ?

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André Luiz, 34 y.o.

Brazil

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I wonder how you are talking to those girls.
If you are the only one asking and answering, as you mentioned, then are you just sending questions and their respective answers in messages by yourself, while the girl stay silent?
If that is true, so the girl is ignoring you or she did not read your letters yet. Anyway, that behaviour may seem a bit weird, demonstrating anxiety.

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Anastasia, 41 y.o.

Russia

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imho, if people don't ask you anything , it just shows lack of interest.... it shows that they don't want to know you or about you, and when they just answer your questions it's rather out of politeness (at least, to me, it feels like that )


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Tatyana

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Андрэ, вы живете очень далеко от Европа , поэтому возможно девушка думает над вопросом "Что будет если я уходить и жить из родной континент?"!! на другой конец Свет (земля).
Также и вы должны думать над вопрос-"Нужна ли мне женщина, которая будет смотреть каждая ночь или день на океан и ее мысли будут находиться на много тысяч верст от вас
Чудеса бывают.. чудо Любви


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L


Those women.. they are just not that into you) that's it.

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Natalia, 53 y.o.

Sweden

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Hej Andreas! Var uppmärksam på tjejer som skriver till dig själv. Det är normalt att ställa frågor och få svar. Här är många tjejer som verkligen letar efter ett seriöst förhållande med en man. Det viktigaste är att du själv bestämt vilken typ av tjej du vill träffa, hur seriösa dina intentioner är. Lycka till!


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Ben


If your messages are as full of negativity as your posts, I wonder how you managed to tangle up 50.
I wonder what kind of behaviour you expect from such ostentatious and blatant pessimism.

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Nataliya, 47 y.o.

Russia

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Andreas, what do you expect from a woman? I think you just haven't met the right woman yet. I know women from this site on the forum and I think that most of them are very interesting women. Many have different interests and hobbies. Therefore, I find it difficult to answer your question why you are bored with them. For my part, I can say that I am also bored of communicating with men who only ask questions. Alas, but when communication begins with the usual " Hello! How are you?"I already know that we will not communicate long. Unfortunately, very often this is the case. I agree with you, when meeting on the Internet a communication is very important. I can advise you to ask more questions about what you are interested in - books, music, movies and other things - to understand whether you have a woman's common interests and you will be interested in communicating with her.

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Olga, 47 y.o.

Azerbaijan

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Андреас, у вас два поста о том "как здесь скучно"   может это проблема не сайта, не ваших собеседниц, а ваша? при всем уважение к вам, я не понимаю как все может быть скучно  

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Eric, 76 y.o.

Netherlands

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Nataliya ,

So , you rather have the man to start the correspondence with this :

" Hello Nataliya , I have read your profile and I am wondering if you would like to look at my profile too.

And , if you do , can you then tell me what you think of it ?
And do you feel , that it may be a good idea , that we 2 can start a communication ? "

When you have read it carefully , you will notice , that I already have asked you 3 questions !!!

And we have not even started to correspond ....

So , what it is it going to be .....

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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Exactly, this is my opinion to. 

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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Harsh but true. 

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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Tack, för ditt svar.

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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Just asking normal question in my opinion. I am very polite person. For me normal questions are asking about there jobs, hobby, music, family how they see in life and stuff like that. 

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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I can agree. I normaly put Hello, How are you? in the beginning of the communication, this is just normal politness. The rest like hobbys, music, jobs, family this is normal questions to i believe but maybe not fun after 100 times to hear but i ask them anyway and try to get deaper in one of them. 

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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I like that input Eric, can i use it  

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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Sorry, to hear that. Not fun at all. Strange that he add you then but i believe yours and mine are very shallow.

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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Ty for your input Eric. I had a few persons that wanted to me straight away. But they didnot want to talk little bit first and want me to book Luxory hotels and everything for them. This is not serious dating in my opinion. I ask normal questions about jobs, hobbys, music, family and trying to get deap in one of those subjects.

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Olga, 47 y.o.

Azerbaijan

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обычно ответы на эти вопросы есть в анкете. достаточно просто посмотреть профиль


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Tatyana

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Лучше получать просьбы в письме, плохо получать просьбы на реальной встрече.
Мужчины просят женщин купить стиральная машина либо дать наличные деньги от 200-2000 евро, быстрый секс

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Olga, 47 y.o.

Azerbaijan

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серьезные люди для создания серьезных отношений назначают встречу, бронируют отель и покупают билеты. несерьезные люди могут говорить о музыке, хобби и семьях в чате месяцами и годами


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Tatyana

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Татьяна, я про вас написала))
Когда читала ваш коммент о стиральной машине
вы так умело написали ( с юмором, с пониманием и открытостью), что я не желала писать вам "соболезнования"))В ы в этом не имеете нужды

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Milton, 63 y.o.

Brazil

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Friend! I'm not a gold or platinum client, I can not communicate with standard people like myself, but I'll leave you a suggestion.
Anyone who suddenly cares about you, passes your Skype or some other way of video chatting.
Everything becomes easier when we interact with people.
At that time we see who is who, we see if there is really interest from both parties.
Written messages are cold! Eye in the eye is much better!
I've talked to some by video even though I do not speak the language, and I assure you it's a lot better! I can make myself understood and I understand what they say!
In your case it is much easier because it speaks the English language!

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Milton, 63 y.o.

Brazil

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Note: You can use the video call of the site too, which should be easier!

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Eric, 76 y.o.

Netherlands

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Well , of course.But I believe that you are smart enough to write your own intro ....  

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Andreas, 43 y.o.

Sweden

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haha  





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