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Salvador

Do you Believe in Friend Ship Between a Woman and a Man ??

Interesting question a great person asked me today.


 


Good question to post it.


 


I have had a great friend lady when I was 26, she was 12 years older than me, we used to visit us at both houses and my parents really appreciate her a lot, as well as her parents appreciate me also.


 


She liked me very much and I liked her also.


 


At the end everyone married with other persons and then LOST connection.


 


But we where a great friend team in those days;  always talked of everything, she looked as a very attractive woman.


 


We set up friendship since the beginning.


 


It remember me the Movie When Harry Meets Sally. - She looked as the female character, very beautiful -.


 


So the Question is ¿Do you believe in REAL friendship between Woman and Man?


 


 


I will cited the Answer / Question I read today from a great lady who asked me:


 


Yes, you're right, friendship is the most single treasure which every one should esteem! But there can't be any friendship between man and woman actually ...
unless that in long lasting happy marriage may be. Love, passion and friendship are not the same things ...
It's only my point of view. And I just wonder what you think about this eternal question...


 


 


Of course I have not yet mentioned the word LOVE in any of my conversations....


 


It is something that shall be handled in REAL after well know the person many times....


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Anastasiya


As for me, I think that friendshkp between a man and a woman has the right to be and it really exists. I can say from my personal experience.


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Salvador

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Wow, this Saturday night watching the referred movie in local TV, remembering my great friend Diana - 1988- always talking by phone while watching the same movie. Then went to cinema and watched together this movie.

We laugh a lot and said , hey!, those actors are us!!!

Yes!!!

I believe in woman and man friendship.

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Yulia, 46 y.o.

Israel

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Да, и мой личный опыт подтверждает, что такая дружба возможна. У меня всегда были друзья мужчины, и это нормально.

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Tim, 40 y.o.

United States

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Are you asking whether men and women can "only" be friends versus having some sort of romantic relationship?

If so, my answer would be "certainly"! Growing up, some of my "best" friends were women and I had zero romantic interest in them.


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Natalya


Присоединяюсь к Вам, друзья — я тоже верю в дружбу между мужчиной и женщиной, потому что у меня есть свои личные примеры. С годами такие мужчины для меня становятся как братья


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Yuliya


Yes it is a possible.
I have man with they only friend Ship....)


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Maryana


I have a friendship only with men. This decision is the smartest thing i have done in my life )

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Mike, 53 y.o.

United Kingdom

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the best relationships start as a friendship


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Tatiana

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Хорошо дружить с тем, кто изначально скажет "Давай дружить".
А как дружить с тем, кто сказал "Люблю!", а потом "Давай останемся друзьями"?
Умеете ли Вы дружить?
Что для Вас есть дружба?


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Salvador

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Friendship is a state of trust, respect, support, listening, unconditional, listener, affection, loyalty,... With no sexual love attribute...

I have had that experience with my friend and associate, she finally married and i am really happy for her 


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Albina


Я УВЕРЕНА, ДРУЖИТЬ МОЖНО С МУЖЧИНАМИ БЕЗ ПОДТЕКСТА И НАМЕКОВ НА ОТНОШЕНИЯ, У МЕНЯ ДАВНИЕ ДРУЗЬЯ СО ШКОЛЫ, МЫ ОБЩАЕМСЯ КАК НОРМАЛЬНЫЕ ЛЮДИ Я ЗНАЮ ИХ ЖЕН И РАЗЛИЧИЯ БОЛЬШОГО МЕЖДУ НИМИ НЕ ДЕЛАЮ

I'M SURE YOU CAN BE FRIENDS WITH MEN WITHOUT OVERTONES AND HINTS AT A RELATIONSHIP, I HAVE LONGTIME FRIENDS FROM SCHOOL, WE COMMUNICATE LIKE NORMAL PEOPLE I KNOW THEIR WIVES AND BIG DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THEM DON'T DO


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Lyudmila


Мне очень близка эта тема, потому что верю, что сначала надо установить дружеские отношения(имея ввиду знакомства через интернет, заочное, когда не видишь друг друга). А потом из взаимного интереса может родиться что-тот большее. Конечно, при личной встрече может сразу возникнуть чувство, но по Интернету... я по крайней мере, не верю в это.


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Veronika


Да, такая дружба возможна. 


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Veronika


You are completely right. 


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Veronika

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По интернету возникает симпатия, интерес к друг, другу общие мнения, нежность, но это пока- виртуальные друзья. Если оба понимают, что нужна встреча, можно думать, что чувства возникнут, и в дальнейшем... будущее вместе... 

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Anastasia, 40 y.o.

Russia

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imo, friendship between a man & a woman is possible if neither of them has a love interest in each other.
friendship can grow into relationships and relationships can end peacefully with you staying good friends,
but if a friendship starts with one of you secretly hoping for more and soothing themself that friendship will do for now, when the other person has no such interest whatsoever, i'm afraid it won't work out...


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Natalya


Tengo amigos masculinos como en la vida real e tanto en Internet del largo tiempo. En el mundo real a veces sido tentado para ir en la amistad en el otro un nivel más íntimo, pero el sentido común siempre se lleva a cabo no hacer al paso arriesgado, ya que tener un buen amigo del varón, es siempre mejor que un mal amante. La amistad entre el hombre y la mujer se basa en la confianza, el respeto y el interesante de generalmente, pero el amor entre una mujer y un hombre requiere más,... este como unas chispas cuando los corazones de dos personas golpearon al unísono, y se puede sentir ser querido desde la distancia.


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Veronika

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Прибавлю, что при переписке двое должны НРАВИТЬСЯ друг другу, идти к встрече. Т.е. глубокая симпатия, конечно, возможна. А далее - личная встреча нужна.





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