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Janho

I have my doubts

Here I go. Must admit that I have my doubts, I've heard so many horror stories about internet dating sites in the former Soviet Union, but I have a good feeling about this site.

How does it work? Do you write to a few woman, invite one to come visit me or do I travel to her. What are the expectations?

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Tommaso, 66 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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Why? Generally russian women are very honest and well educated. I had very good experiences in meeting russian women. They are a lot more honest generally then italian and spanish. This site is very good and women are well verified. No scammers at all

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Tommaso, 66 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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Soviet Union does exist since many years. Now there is Russian Federation and other countries

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Steven, 54 y.o.

United States

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Tommaso would disagree, but my feeling is that you should go to meet the woman in her country first. A chance to see her culture, friends, family. To me it is important to link the two families and cultures. I am not looking to simply pluck a Russian flower.
And yes, there are plenty of Russian dating scams. You will find scammers on this site, but they seem to respond quite quickly to them when identified.
There are lots of great girls here. Good luck to you.

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Doug, 67 y.o.

United States

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Janho, any questions you may have, regarding anything, may be confidently directed to Tommaso. He is knowledgeable about most things.   If anyone knows this site, it is Tom. Welcome. This is a site in which you may have great confidence; as in everything else, finding the right girl will be up to your ability to navigate the waters. Be advised, there is much priceless treasure in these waters; it’s up to you to find it. There are also some underwater mines; there always are, but this is a very good ship in which to travel. You can have confidence in it. I’m difficult to please and have found very few faults here.

Feel free to become part of the forum family and interact. This is the best way to get to know some precious girls and how they think; to also let them see how you think, something very difficult by searching profiles. Some advice from an old man, best to always enter any relationship trying to discover what you can give away; think of the other and you will receive ten-fold. Tom will be your good friend.   He's pretty smart; almost the smartest guy here. (That would be Boris!) Don't discount Tom just because he flys a plane with no propellor.   You will have lots of fun here as you get to know everyone. If your heart is somehow broken, some of your friends here may even put their arm around you and cry with you.   Be patient; good things take time. If your heart is pure and you can’t find a soul mate here, you can always join the French Foreign Legion!  ))))) Good luck!

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Doug, 67 y.o.

United States

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Oh, sorry, Jan. I forgot about Steve. Steve has much experience and very good sense. Very quiet guy, but when he speaks the room shakes!   If you fall off your horse, Steve is the guy to see; has excellent advice and encouragement. Hope to see you here, my friend!  )

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Tommaso, 66 y.o.

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Wrong. I Already know Russia and russian women and I do not like to live there, so woman have to know and uniformate to my coulture, not I to their. I have to respect their coulture. Never found a scammer. I have too mutch experience for not recognizing a scammer from a real good woman!
Janho, do you want to live in Russia? If yes, you have to go there, if not, better to invite and show your life to woman if woman wants to live with you in Pretoria. It's more honest and you do not loose your time in a place where you do not want to live with your woman. You can goto Russia in a second time if you like woman you will meet here.

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Tommaso, 66 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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Thanks Doug for your appreciation! The same for you

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Tommaso, 66 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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My opinion is opposite respect Steven. A lot better to play at home then in Russia and even better for the lady because she understand who you are only if she comes to you. You might be anyone in Russia for anyone! Steven likes there. I do not and I hate cold too.
Put this question to yourself: who wants to emigrate? You? If so, you have to go, but if woman wants to emigrate, she must go and see where she might to stay with a possible partner! Logic, no?
When one emigrates in another country he has to marry new country coulture , language and habits, not the contrary! If I goto USA for living there, I become american 100%. and my flag will be stars and stripes, not italian one!

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Helga, 44 y.o.

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What is funny, "Russian" scammers are not necessarily Russian, and even not necessarily women...
Such stuff is really quickly removed from this site.


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Janho


Thanks guys! I really appreciate your valued advice.

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Yana, 43 y.o.

Ukraine

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Tommaso,women will go if women want just travelling,or just need take viza and meet somebody else,but there is no 2 opinions,who have to be more active in romantique relathionship.All married couple i know,started when man came very rapidly,not talking that after marriage they visite regularly parents of wife.

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Tommaso, 66 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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Thy are mostly american men! I'ts very easy to discover from where they write by IP number

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Tommaso, 66 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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No. You are more rapid to buy a multivisa for your woman and ticket to her. Romantic? Its not romantic to meet an always unknown man in your country! He might be a criminal. a mafious, anyone! And then, doing what? Do you want to emigrate? Ok, let's go and see to know! It's absurd what you wrote!
We are not at roman era when soldiers kidnapped women in their territorries! I I know a man and I want to live in his country and I'm intelligent, first I go to know him in his country! Maybe I woman dislake man life and country life and then? I lost only time in my country for a stupid and uneuseful "romantic" meeting! Romantic what? For sex?

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Tommaso, 66 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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To goto Maryupol for a meeting? The most polluted city in Ucraine? Do you know you are living in a gas room? But I think you know. People is very angry here for that!


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Irina


Прмветствуем вас! Здесь всех проверяют и если попадается мошенник то с ним прощаются без его желания. Желаю удачи в выборе своей женщины!

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Yana, 43 y.o.

Ukraine

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Dear Tommaso,man can just passively wait only if it`s gay couple(when both are men),or if he called prostitute.As to Mariupol,well,men sugeste exactly that,or Donetsk,or any other big near city,if not,i understand person really not interested.I don`t want wasting my time.

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Yana, 43 y.o.

Ukraine

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All these women who were visite you didn`t like place where you live? Why they didn`t stay?


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Elena

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Tommaso!Ну Вы опять двадцать пять...А где же нам жить? На Луну что-ли высадиться?))Или Вы думаете,что мариупольские газы не доходят к Вам на Тенерифе?Мы все в одной упряжке,в одной экосистеме,и если страдает какя-либо ее часть,то нарушается баланс и в других аспектах!И здесь надо думать ,что делать ,чтобы наладить всю систему,а не упрекать в этом отдельно взятых людей.


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Elena

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Doug!You are also very clever man,with a big Heart!)


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Irina

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Том! Вы снова начинаете тему о грязных городах? Мы уже все обсуждали это. У нас появился новый прекрасный мужчина.давайте не будем его запугивать своей информацией ))


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Olga


If you are interested in women's opinion, listen to their views. Many women will appreciate the true your actions to come to the woman or at least to meet on neutral territory, which is even better for the first meeting.
Personally, I think that if a man does not commit acts and he not going to compromise and adoption of solutions that are comfortable and good for two , I will not insist and just move on even if the person is pleasant to me..


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Tata


1. Если вы легки на подъем, то поезжайте в Россию первым.Ваша девушка оценит этот знак!
2. Так же вы должны изучать менталитет русских женщин. Он сложный, но он самый трогательный.
3. Не ждите, когда вам девушки начнут писать.В русских девушках есть хорошее качество - скромность. Пишите первым!
4. И удачи!

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Yana, 43 y.o.

Ukraine

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Кстати,Елена,хочу сказать,после митингов в нашем городе в прошлом году,закрыли некоторые особенно травящие людей объекты.

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Steven, 54 y.o.

United States

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This may be the efficient response, but I prefer the more thorough option. Go to see her at her home, to me, is a matter of respect to the woman and her family. I want them to know me and to know that she would be safe with me. Second visit she can come to me.
It's not wrong either way. It is what works for those involved.

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Steven, 54 y.o.

United States

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I think you are correct that the woman better understands who you are when she comes to you. But that does not change the idea that I want her family and friends to meet me and to meet them. I want to see her in her normal environment too. Obviously we are looking for very different types of women, Tommaso and I.
Your logic is correct, and I agree that the woman should come to visit before emigrating, if possible, but that doesn't preclude a visit to her in any way.
And as for emigrating to the US, I would hope that you would keep your Italian culture. There is no such thing as 100% American and we integrate other cultures, not overwrite them. You meld the two, not eliminate the one. That is my opinion of course, but often how it works here in the US anyway.

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Steven, 54 y.o.

United States

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Agreed on both accounts unfortunately.
Easy to recognize normally and they do knock them off here quite quickly.

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Steven, 54 y.o.

United States

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I agree. I think it is a statement of serious intent to make the effort to go to her.

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Steven, 54 y.o.

United States

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Thanks for the kind words!


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Marina

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Grazie caro Tommaso , per le buone parole pro donne russe  


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Marina

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это точно. Советского Союза давно нет.

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