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Lola, 62 y.o.

Russia

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ПОЧЕМУ ВСЕ НЕ ТАК КАК НАДО ???

Привет девчонки!!!! Уже год как я здесь... Как только я появилась, мне на почту пришло пару подмигиваний, написал мужчина из Италии пару писем, ответила, а он меня заблокировал... Не поняла, почему... Общались через переводчик... И все, тишина. уже как год. Такое чувство, что меня здесь вообще нет... Никто даже не заглядывает... Досадно... Я уже, видимо, совсем древняя    . Есть ли здесь те, кому тоже не пишут??? Или я тут такая одна????

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Irina

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В каком смысле НАГЛЕЕ? Возможно, вы имели в виду увереннее? 


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Svetlana

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When people registered to this site they had different purposes not only serious relationship. Many men were afraid this serious relationship and more afraid purposeful women. I just wanted to say that I consider that woman needs to be active but not annoying, not shows man very big interest to him. I wanted to say that many women here very want abroad and don't appreciate theirself. And what the result? I saw our news, I am an active member of many immigrant sites, I had conversation with many people from Russian community here. People arrived to USA but couldn't adapt, hate USA and Americans, try to make small Russia here ....and came back home. The main point of my story is the every woman firstly needs to respect and appreciate herself and gotcha if she can adapt to new life, new mentality, new order and changes herself or no and respects person which whom she has conversation in Internet and understands difference between cultures, history and world view.


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Svetlana

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This site is date site but it doesn't mean that all persons here plan to marry or have serious relationship. Many people don't have enough conversation and need only gossip or want to know more about Russia, Russian people and other republics of former Soviet Union. Why no? They can't get normal trust information here and want to get this information from Russians. This is one. And the second, I met these persons who can't use computer or understand of work of cell phone. It is reality especially for old persons. So to push necessary button is a problem for them. I know these persons myself because to help them with their technic.


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Svetlana

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Ok, Nata. I replied for this question before in other theme.
My answer: Why no?I read many comments here in English from persons from Russia. As for me I speak only English here, I don't have Russian letter in my phone and it very dislikes translit and tryes to correct me all the time, I think in English and I think as people around me not Russians. This is firstly. Secondly, I am not Russian, I don't have any Russian relatives and ancestors, I never lived in Russia, and my native language is Polish, not Russian. And moreover, I never feel myself Russian. So why do I need to use this language here if everyone can read my message with help of Google translator?
If you speak me, why I wrote here, in forum I will reply that I have problems with languages and don't want to forget Russian at all because I plan to visit my Mom in Ukraine. But day by day it stays hard for me to read in Russian. I read comments many times and sometimes can't gotcha the sense. Similar situation is in Facebook. I have conversation with my neighbors, classmates in English and sometimes can't understand their Russian text. They tryed to explain me or translate. And one more after I met some Russians here I refused to speak Russian language at all. If anyone said me anything in Russian or Ukrainian languages I replied only in English...automatically

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Svetlana, 52 y.o.

United States

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Светлана, а вы уже адаптировались к жизни в Америке, к другому менталитету, поняли, как работает система? Трудно вам было? Чем пришлось пожертвовать, что изменить в себе? В чем главная разница между культурами? Вы работаете? Поделитесь, пожалуйста, личным опытом.


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Svetlana

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Ok, Svetlana. I arrived to USA by invitation of my elder daughter. Before I sent all my stuff by Ukrainian Post and they stolen all what I had. So I went to Highlands Colorado at 6 December 2016 with my papers and 2 books. I was old, fat, sick woman after stroke and heart attack, with angina and diabetes. During my way I received pneumonia and arrived to Colorado with strong cough and high temperature. I didn't know English and have problems with memory, attention and lack abilities to languages at all from my childhood. My elder daughter met me with words: Go away from my house. I hate sick people. So I spent in wild forest in mountains among wild animals 6 months from December to June. I found food in garbage cans and berries under snow. Wild animals stayed my the best friends. Then during 3 months I was as slave in one family from Russia. One year ago I left USA and came back to Ukraine. But this life very changed me. At 2 December 2017 year I came back to Denver. I found place for living, got my American documents and found job. I made all myself, without any help. When I began to work I had problems with Russian mafia here. After this I refused to have any conversation, any business with any person from former Soviet Union and speak Russian. I lost more than 80 pounds during 1 year. My health doesn't stay better. I received problems with tetanus.

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Now I am living among Americans, speaking only English and consider myself American. Sometimes I wrote letters my friends to Ukraine and sent my pictures. They can't recognize me, said that I changed at all: not only appearance, but my thoughts, point of view, relation to life.

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Aksi

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Прямо фильм ужасов какой-то...


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Olga

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I was amazed at what I read. I wish that this never happened in the future.

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Tanya, 45 y.o.

Ukraine

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Фантастический рассказ. Вьі писательница?

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Irina, 63 y.o.

Ukraine

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Светлана...слов нет(((Вы сильная женщина! Счастья, Вам, огромного желаю!

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Marina, 66 y.o.

Russia

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Do you communicate with your daughter now?

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Tatyana, 62 y.o.

Italy

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как то тоже насторожило.
пол- года в лесу , не только с дикими зверями ,но и диабетом!?
А бессердечная дочь? сама же пригласила , сама же выгнала прямо с порога?
Зимой , где можно выжить в лесу? В норе? В пещере ?
Киплинг нервно курит в сторонке , со своим Маугли, в теплых то джунглях, да пригретый волками)


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L

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как Вы решили визовый вопрос? пребывание по турвизе ограничено 6 мес, у Вас не было проблем при повторном въезде в страну? в каком Вы сейчас статусе там находитесь?

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Liudmila, 53 y.o.

Germany

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Фантастическая история. Светлана, извините, если я правильно поняла, Вы в США находитесь менее года (с 2 декабря 2017, не учитывая времени проведенного в диком лесу и в рабстве), за это время Вы получили американские документы, нашли работу и, самое главное,выучили английсикй до такого уровня, что забыли русский? И это при том, что сами считаете себя несклонной к языкам... Сказка   


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Aksi

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Вот, мне кстати тоже этот вопрос интересен  

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Natalia, 52 y.o.

Belarus

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А по моему какое то социологическое исследование.
Можно забыть клавиатуру но как забыть меру веса родную? Или весы в америке показывают вес в футах и перевести в международную не представляется возможным? Риторические вопросы.

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Marina, 66 y.o.

Russia

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Солдат Джейн, в подметки не годится.

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Tatyana, 62 y.o.

Italy

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сорри, не совсем понятно , на каком основании вы опять вернулись в США?
Ваша дочь , по привычке , отправила вам новое приглашение?))

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Svetlana, 52 y.o.

United States

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Светлана, таких историй я на нашем форуме еще не читала. Ничего, что я по-русски? Извините, это мой родной язык, никак не забуду.
Столько испытаний выпало одной женщине за меньше, чем два года: инсульт, инфаркт, эмиграция, бессердечная дочь, пневмония, полугодовые скитания по заснеженным лесам Колорадо с дикими зверями (как вы выжили вообще? Там же зимой до -30С и волков и медведей не меряно, почему в шелтер не пошли?), рабство в русской семье, потом проблемы с русской мафией (it's for a reason that all bad guys in all american movies are always Russians, you know), столбняк где-то подцепили. Кстати, а у вас медицинская страховка есть?
При этом вы не унываете, выучили английский с полного нуля до уровня уверенного владения, получили американские документы (грин карту?Как?), нашли работу и жилье, находите время быть активным участником различных иммигрантских интернет форумов, похудели, похорошели, ходите на свидание с молодыми мужчинами, которые вам проходу не дают, адаптировались настолько, что забыли свой родной язык и считаете себя американкой. Пожалуйста, раскройте мне секрет, КАК???

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Я приехала, можно сказать, в тепличные условия, минимум раз в неделю плАчу от того, как трудно дается все, времени ни на что не хватает. При этом язык я уже знала. Языковой барьер все равно есть, американкой себя не считаю. Ну расскажите ваш секрет, Светлана.

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Natalia, 52 y.o.

Belarus

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Это все равно как если бы я зарегистрировалась на китайском сайте, и писала там по голландски, ну я же выучила. И пусть все желающие в лепешку разбиваются переводя мои опусы. А что такого, мне ж трудно на китайском, я ж не китайка.


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Svetlana

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No. Any contacts


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Svetlana

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My daughter didn't know that I came back. I am Green card holder


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Svetlana

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Thank you, Irina!


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Svetlana

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Cars, campers, empty cabins. If honestly it was surprise for me how I survived. I wanted to die every minute of this life...but stayed alive. I don't know how. But I can't name this life. It was hell. All people who know me know this story from my Mom, younger daughter or me, or coworkers my Mom and our neighbors. People with whom I have contact here, in USA know about it, too.


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Svetlana

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I came here as future permanent resident. So I have a Green card no tourist visa


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Olga

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Как вы выжили в горах одна среди диких животных с декабря по июнь месяц? Где вы спали? И как вы попали в рабство в Россию?


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Svetlana

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She didn't know that I came back. I have Green card


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Svetlana

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Green card holvisafrom the beginning no tourist visa


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Svetlana

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Pity but it was reality for me. I came here as future permanent resident. In January 2016 I got Green card. When I returned I made my ID in January 2017 and bank cards. It is not problem to find job here for Green card holder. I found a place for living when I was here for the first time. My neighbors suggested me to live in their house and take care about one old person with dementia without money. All the time and everywhere I hear only English so I need to speak this language. I am learning it every free minute. I don't have abilities to languages so I began to forget Russian because I don't conversations in this language only to read..sometimes. I forget my native language - Polish but sometimes I recover it when I visit Polish community here


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L

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How come?

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