"Blonde and snow cliche"

Хорошего времени суток.
Комментарии не читала.А что не так с "блондом"?
Можно поинтересоваться цветом Ваших волос?
А так же показателем чего является Ваш цвет волос (конечно,если Вы - не блондин)?
С каких это пор о людях судят по цвету волос?

P.S.Désolé pour mon mauvais français.

Ну вот я это и пыталась донести) надеюсь, наше национальное стремление к совершенствованию своей внешности не будет восприниматься за легкомыслие и доступность😅👻ну и натуральный блонд это всегда круто лично для сеня) вам оочень идет и цвет и форма прически 🙃🧚🏼‍♀️

Hope i explain our to appearance improving goals right) we do it mostly for oursefs not for man’s attention) and its says nothing about our brain/ behavior capabilities) only our taste in image preferences)

☺️как-то он очень глобально простой имиджевый вопрос рассматривает) клише тут больше в том, что женщины бывшего ссср только и заботятся о своей внешности с целью привлечение мужчин, но ведь это совсем не так🤷🏻‍♀️😅. И да, самой захотелось посмотреть на вопрошающего) как там у негл с внешними данными😅🤷🏻‍♀️

Ваше милое романтическое сердце??????)))) ахах. Вы невидимка! Я более менее укурила смысл поста. Я вам так скажу, ОТВЕТА КОНКРЕТНОГО НЕТ! Вы говорите "Восток" красит волосы в белый цвет, и не всем это идёт. Это так, не всем, но кому идёт или ближе они тонко к этому подходят, сейчас много вариаций блонда от стилистов, всех преобразят без искажений. Иногда почему то красят в гидроперитный цвет (при Железном занавасе блонд был-перекись водорода и таблетки гидроперит, аналог этого уже в коробках только есть, дешёвый вариант) , и это выглядит "колхоз "как у нас говорят, но им невдомёк. Кавказ, и Татарстан не особо этим увлекаются, отдельно девушки. Видимо, всё таки чтобы освежить образ,но не для того чтобы казаться супер пупермегаблондинкойкрасоткой! Иногда волосы красят в блонд чтобы скрыть седину( моя знакомая так делает, я ей говорю, Нет тебя это не украшает, ответ:не надо часто красится. Но вы Mb, блонд связываете блонд с распуством, с привлечением мужчин🤤, похотью, на этом "востоке" как вы именуите, много белокожых, и им идёт этот оттенок. И он ассоциируется больше с невиностью чем с похотью

Ах, Катя (простите за фамильярность), редко в спорах на форуме услышишь доброе слово, в действительности я самокричная особа) и я также не считаю, что блондинка покрасится, значит знак к доступности, флирту, и ещё многих интересных вещей) либо хочешь освежить образ, либо закрасить седину, либо..... ну нет эстетики.... всем не угодишь. Спасибо за ответ, и будьте обязательно всегда в ТРЕНДЕ, и счастливы  

Моё мнение, только для этого, а для чего ещё? Большинство хочет нравится и чувствовать свою востребованность именно у мужчин, а не у дивана, на котором она возлежит вся такая ухоженная и красивая.

Added Ekaterina in.my favorite. She shocked me to much : on one side she did an incredibly emphatic translation of my.poor english previous effort, on the other side she tried to localize my may be subtile topic. I'm simply chocked. If I were to take this into account I would have been.too much lost . I'm too much lost. I need to freely exchange with smart girl like Ekaterina without any sex or marrying expectation.like this girl I'll find a way even if Ekaterina is willing to. "Merci"   . Got it.

Thank you , i may help of course with translation or something here) i am just used to understand very very difficult English, and its type of challenge that i like) take care, and hope you tell us whom you’re looking for in the end🙃✨✨

Вы все очень даже доступно написали нашему уважаемому французскому исследователю женственности ))) видите, он даже ‘вышел из тени’))
Форум у нас очень хороший, занимательный, но я пока только начала ‘активничать’, хотя, конечно, свое мнение иногда очень хочется высказаться)
Благодарю и вас, Света за ваши пожелания. Ну и вот, я сейчас примерно такая . Всем Блондинкам salut 🤗✨✨✨

Your answer somehow confuses me.You say that Ekaterina shocked you too much with her effort to find your post and then made a empathetic translation.

While she is in your Favourite List , I hope that you can have a fruitful correspondence with her.
But how long can you keep on talking about this topic : Blonde or .... cliche

Furthermore you say that you are too much lost ...
I take it that you had a broken relation - not too long ago ?
So , do you have your life back on " the rails " so to speak .

If you are too much lost , than first you need to find yourself back again.
If you know what I mean ...

Is that the reason why you asked : what Slavic women mean with a "strong man" ??

You say that you were in love so many times ...
The way I see it , we must learn from our mistakes !!

Falling in love is surely one of the things that we must learn from .
Giving your heart too easily , well it may be a recipe for trouble ...

Hi Eric.
I'm more southerned ( copyrighted word) than you, so i may "exagerate" a bit ... sometimes.
By the way I love the North Holland , Edam, Volendam, Monikendam, the enormous B&B farms ( a bit smaller than the Belgian ones) of that "kaas" region and Alkmaar, the deutch jewel immediately at north of it, generally my definition of ones of the first week end for a new love story with a loving girl.
By the way "strong" is not an attribute of a man seen from a women. In the army or sport may be. Not even "reliable". His friends or employer can use such lexical field. A women usually see a man "viril" or not, good father or not, successfull or not, even.rich or famous but not "strong or reliable". Such choice have to mean a very particular world view in a very particular region of world and very dated at the very now.

By the way, Ekaterina said "here we. ..." without really realizing that she were not far from the subtile explanation. I can compare the social and historical mecanism if the blondiness tsunami in west seen in the past with the one currently playing in the East. There is a huge difference : "consumerism" actually playing in East is far more disrupting than the one seen in America ( where the "desperate house wifes" were expecting some techmological change and robots to free them in the 50") and west europe where recently freed women were desperatly expectating some social.change to "equalize" them. Here we have East women fighting desperatly in to-define-men-east-world with both "tradionnal" weapons , amazon.,aliexpress and, their iphone to be "sexy" and "soldable/marketable" ( to men) but also free/autonomous/individualized" .. . ( i'm no more in the academic world since age and do not work in any.sociology field , i'm just playing my game and my rule like i.used to )

Aha .... so you love cheesy Dutch girls /women ??

Oh , yeah , Dutch cheese is famous all over the world ...

When I will go to E Europe I will bring one as a present for a Slavic lady .

As for the word "strong" - I am very well aware what a Slavic woman means when she says that she wants a strong man ...

And you are right - it can /may have a different meaning in other parts of the world ...

For now I keep focussed on E Europe and Russia ...

Yes , I know , I know all the fathers they keep their daughters in the house ....

you are perplexing in your thoughts, but we just want to understand what you want to get from this conversation in the end) as I understand you found a in your taste woman so ?))i am sure that generalize women's behavioral habits, the road to nowhere)
I have a lot of practice communicating with different people, and a bag of stories that can directly to prove that we are all different, not only geographically,but also at different stages of life.
and yes, I assure you, it’s full of Europeans and Americans, much more mercantile and also improved in order to ‘sell’ themselves. Like Russians girls who are only occupied with work and self-education. etc

It's not an (supposed unlegitimate ) generalization. In english there is no way to tranlate the french expression "grille de lecture", reading grid? ..way of seeing? Any ways it's only a reading grid of the ( hidden reality) . I use many of them consciously as I pretend to be conscious of my mind biases..

How can a man not love a Dutch ( even blonde ) cheese girl (.and all its Disney country ) ?

Well , we do not have Mickey Mouse here ...
But a Dutch (blond) cheese girl is not a bad pick either ...

So , you will come to visit in next year ... ?

According to the Bible history Mother Maria had golden hair. This colour is a symbol of femininity and tenderness

Sure. I'm addicted to the vlaamse frites . At least once a year. The 2019 quota is already consumed. Probably next June.

Ok , so you will come next year to visit and then when you find a (blond) Dutch (cheese)girl , then you both can go to shop at Ikea ....

Well , that sounds really perfect to me .

I must say that I never had a chance to stay for some months in a "Southern" country.
I know that in Spain , Portugal and in Greece the people have a siësta (afternoon nap) in the afternoon.

For me it would not be a problem to adept to this style of life.And a life more on the outside than inside the house ...

If you know what I mean ...

To have a siësta in the arms of a (blond) Slavic woman sounds like a very ,very good idea to me ...

So , maybe I must relocate to a Southern country ... ?

By the way , there is a difference between the Dutch and the Belgian frites ...
But I like both ...

I'm very aware of the gap with the "South" way of life as i grew up and still live in the most crazy ( and by the way richest , check it if you like) region of West Europe. There is no counterpart of the Paris région in Germany, probably the Great London region but I'm not sure) . But i also know that a few dozen kilomètres far we enter another France, That's the tourism magic of France and ifs various régions. Going South is another great travel : civilization , people humans values and time itself changes. The more you go South the more you earn times in the same 24h a day and the more you have and need human interactions. It's just another world, the old world human being oriented still resisting to the destroying modernity and capitalism.( another story, more or less related to the Disney sides of for instance Netherlands ) . Of course Netflix and mcdonald are every where in France, I'm not that naïve. I think i'll escape to creta one day, even Greece or Portugal are no more satisfying my "exotic" but realistics needs.

Ooohh la France ...
I already miss the outdoor life ...

Although in some parts of E Europe you can still enjoy and live the outdoor life ...

And I understand what you mean ... yes , the times they are a changing ...

Bob Dylan wrote a song about it ... way back in the 60 'ssss

Realized too late. Do you means that "vlaamse" is belgian oriented. I dont remember that they have "vlaamse chocolate met slaghom" ( dont know how to write it but i 'm proud of my tourist accent ).

Yes , Vlaanderen is the Dutch speaking part of Belgium.
While Wallonië is the French speaking region.

So , Vlaamse chocolate with whipped cream (= slagroom) - I don't know about that.
I don't eat too much candy and Sugar products ...

Yes , I am maybe a little boring - because I don't drink and don't eat too much chocolate ...

But you have the different Vlaamse vlaai with cream - a sort of cake with different fillings ...
A well known delicatesse for many people ...

Thé world "delicatessen" iself used in North countries probably following England speakers or maybe German one influenced by the France from that time, is incredibely meaningfull. In roman langages it would have logically been originated from the over-sophisticated french culture wich invaded and defined the rest of the world in that scope, but it's not the case. In french we even use an australian origine for the very french "croissants" ( thatis "vienoiserie", from "Vienna"). Lexically "delicatessen" is from a very very délicate and crafted high expectation product. A way to over sell a hand made product probably..at least a nice looking/sounding word and word.

Thank you for the explanation on this ...
Yes , languages and words ...

I am mixed Polish-German-Italian-Spaniards. I was native blonde in my youth and now have silver hair. I never color my hair.
4 my grandkids are blonde and only one girl have dark brown hair.
I am working with some persons from Russia. They are natural blonde. My classmates from Russia were blonde, too especially from Northern Russia.
My present husband is blonde as his parents, grandparents, brother and sisters.
So I don't understand the sense of question. Blonde isn't fashion...or to be similar ideals. Slavic, German, Scandinavian people are natural blonde.
But one more point : blonde or silver in reality?I install one picture with my natural hair now. How can you name it by picture: blonde or silver?

возможно некоторые *блондинки* стали такими потому что они старше и уже седые, поэтому они красят волосы в блонд 

Ну почему же нет блондинок??? Они есть всегда и везде 🤣😁😄