Понимание природы отношений между западными мужчинами и русскоговорящих женщин

Sometimes these relationships comes to happy end. But it is only sometimes.

How is your marriage with our young wife?

Прочитав Ваш профайл, почувствовала глубокую симпатию к Вам!Желаю счастья, здоровья, долгих лет вместе с Вашей очаровательной супругой

"В жизни с возрастом начинаешь понимать силу человека постоянно думающего.Это огромная сила, покоряющая все.Все гибнет:молодость,обаяние, страсти-все стареет и разрушается.Мысль не гибнет , и прекрасен человек, который несет ее через жизнь"Познакомилась с вами благодаря вашей анкете.Я удивлена,просто поражена,и восхищаюсь вами!!!Дай бог вам здоровья на долгие долгие годы!!!

Взаимопонимания ,счастья и долгих лет жизни Вам и вашей супруге!!

TO Larissa: How is your marriage with our young wife?

Perfect  ))

Желаю Вам счастья и гармонии в семье!!!

My marriage to my young wife is perfect. My new son (19) commented, "Peter acts like a young boy", I like that! The truth is that I feel like a young boy of age 20 or less. We chat on SKYPE. She does her best to speak only in English. I also speak in English and I try to repeat her English in Russian! I am told that most English speaking men learn only a little Russian. My wife and I have the goal that we are both fluent in English and Russian.

Most of the Western men with good intentions are not aggressive. Most Russian speaking women expect the man to take the initiative in a relationship. I can speak from my 5 years of searching for my wife on this agency.

I believe that to have a successful courtship that understanding and compromise are needed on each side. It will help if each side makes changes. I believe that the man and the woman will have more success if they each take these differences into account. I am now happily married and I believe that the time, discouragement and effort have been rewarded with the present happiness of my wife and I.

My suggestion to the men, would be to clearly state what you are looking for. Don't wait for the woman to speak out.

My suggestion to the women, would be to give the man hints of what you want. I remember that there were times when I was hoping and praying for a response from a woman. I thought that if I asked her for what I wanted, that she would think that I was too bold and that speaking out would push her away from me.

It is my opinion that we find at least part of what we seek in life. One of my goals is to live to age 107. I eat good food, do hard physical work and keep my mind very active. If our thought is that we may fail... this becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

От всего сердца желаю Вам прожить не 107, а минимум 110 лет в здравии и любви!

It is my plan to discuss the following topics:
1.) The differences between the English speaking man and the Russian speaking woman and how to find success despite these differences.
2.) How to make good photos for the Russian speaking woman. Do you want to find a husband or do you want to find a lover?
3.) How the English speaking man can have a good marriage. I am told that most English speaking men don't learn much Russian. My wife and I work to each be fluent in the other's language.
4.) How the English speaking man can travel in a country where he speaks little of the language. I have traveled in Ukraine, Russia and Belarus. The worst that a person has to fear is that people will think that he is a fool. I have had better treatment by authorities in Russian speaking countries where I was a foreigner than I have been treated in my own country where I am a citizen!
5.) How the foreign man can best obtain a visa to travel and how to save money on the plane ticket. This agency is the best one in all of the world. They seek to help people and don't look to make big money from the clients.

Dear Peter
After reading your ideas for the future discussion I have to admit that you are really able to give good useful advice and I'm looking forward to talking to you on different topics cause I see you are rather positive and you have done all your best to find a wife. I wish you and your wife and your new sons lots of best! You are cool!

I am 28 years older than my wife. In my opinion, our marriage is very successful. I have a very youthful outlook on life. I feel very blessed because I have found the perfect partner for me. My wife says the same thing. Before I met my wife I have had several women reject me saying I was too young for them.

Thank you. You have reminded me that I should place a photo of my wife and I on my profile.

Robert. I am pleased to see you participating on this forum. I wish that more men would express their opinion. understanding what happens in a relationship requires male and female input.

Dear Peter! I never was looking for someone from US before. I thought that American men are very different from European men and we will have too many problems with each other. From what you say, I know that you have visited Belarus and you learned a little Belarus people (and other Russian-speaking countries). What do you think about this? How much of a difference in our everyday life, in relationships between men and women and etc? And I apologize if my question seems silly to you. Thank you.

You were playing games with me while you were serious with your present wife. Shame on you))))( a joke)

Peter! Ich habe eine Frage für Sie! Aber ich habe einen Wunsch hervorgebracht voshischatsya Sie. Dieser Wunsch, alles zu haben! Gesundheit, Weisheit und Erfahrung der vergangenen Jahre, das Streben nach Glück in der anderen Hälfte des Lebens ... Für mich haben Sie eine sehr gute und freundliche Menschen, zhizn.No liebt ... Das Leben ist wie Sie! Seien Sie glücklich und gesund!

Hello Svetlana. I feel like a stranger when I am in America. I feel more at home in Russia, Belarus, Ukraine and Azerbaijan. I believe that part of my soul is Russian. My first and favorite book was, "The golden cockerel and other fairy stories." I was age 3 years and my grandfather read the book that he had given to me. Recently I asked my wife to read me her favorite story in Russian and the story was my childhood story! I did not know the author of the story.... Pushkin! My second book in 1943 was "Dersu Uzala". I still have this book.

I think that I am too atypical to comment on relationships. What I can offer is my observations of what works for me and what does not work for me. Thank you Svetlana.

Петр! у меня нет вопросов.Я просто искренне восхищаюсь Вами. Вы любите жизнь,и она любит Вас.Я желаю счастья Вашей семье!

Yesterday, I became a great grandfather. My grandson Adam Simte and his wife had a baby girl, Sofia!

Absolut true Peter ! I just had to make the same experience ! And it seems like not with a happy end ?!
But at least, it seems like things are much the same. Even through all generations !
And i absolut agree. Conversation is most important. It happend to me, just like you described it.
Sometimes i did not clearly speak out my desires. And it was interpreted wrong.
The next time i was direct, but with the wrong timing. So i was the fool again !
So even my intention has been only good always. Counting this happenings, i mastered it to loose my big love !!!
My advice for both man and woman are too. Talk as much as possible. Never be shy to ask.
And most important, ask if you are unsure about the meaning.
It is so rare to find the right one. But it feels more worse to loose like that !!! (((
All the best to you all searching !

Я новичок на сайте. Но хотела бы сказать...В России принято из века в век инициативу проявлять МУЖЧИНАМ...Мне сложно вдвойне...Самой себе признаться "МНЕ ОДИНОКО" ой как непросто,а заявить ВСЕМ громко и настойчиво...Учусь!

My marriage is excellent. My stepson now studies here in America. I expect that my wife will have her visa in June. We will have a wonderful time here on the farm with her gardening ability and wonderful food!

It could not be better!

Thank you. You inspire me to express more of my ideas.

I believe that a person can find a good partner in many places. The important thing is to clearly say who we are, in order that the people who look at us can have a true picture of who we are. For many years I felt sad that women appeared to ignore me. I now realize that they DID notice me but that I was not yet fully formed as a good man. I have learned that the important thing is to be what we want to be and then people will notice us.

Хочу уточнить для себя: Кем мы ХОТИМ быть???? Или кем мы УЖЕ СТАЛИ???
Я надеюсь уже кем-то быть( стать) к 80 годам если честно.

Hello Svetlana, My opinion is that Russian speaking women are treasures. I have American friends that are looking for a wife, but they are afraid to travel abroad.

I wish that I could find a way to attract more good men to the site.