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Yves

How to know a profile is fake?

I find it very difficult, there is a fine balance between scammers who do not take real effort to answer in conversations versus real persons who stay general with their answers as long as they have no base confidence in the person. Can be like a vicious circle…


Some indicators of fake are clear: quickly ask for mobile phone nr/ whatsapp/ write in better english than me/ inconsistencies between the limited profile input and what thy tell in messages.


What seems to be a pattern is that profiles with only limited description, partner search up to 99y age, no questions and answers and in average 3 pictures are scam.
Any advise on how to deal with this fine balance?


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Ekaterina


I am not a man, but I can advise a way to determine fraud - to start and continue communication until (and I think that this will not keep you waiting) until words begin about crazy love for you, about the desire to have a family and children with you, until you receive a request to send money. Not always all the paragraphs that you have indicated may be signs of fraud. Under any profile there can be a serious person who wants happiness in a couple.

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Yana, 45 y.o.

Russia

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The first thing to do is to offer a video chat. Scammers usually avoid this. But there is no 100% formula for avoiding this situation.

A hundred letters won't tell you more about a person than one meeting.

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Svetlana, 51 y.o.

Russia

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Мой опыт показывает, что наличие фотографий и видеочат не показатель искренности человека.
Соглашусь с предыдущим ответом, только реальная встреча расставит все на свои места.
Для меня тоже большой вопрос, как не тратить время на фейковые анкеты.

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Fernando, 38 y.o.

Mexico

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You have to learn to make the right questions according to the age of the person. Scammers usually shows themselves as they're as soon as you start to ask about what kind of people they seek for. But again you need to learn to make the right questions.

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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[quote] " You have to learn to make the right questions according to the age of the person " [end quote]

Hhmmm .... that is a new one for me.So , what question will you ask a 20+ young woman , and which questions do you ask to a 50+ female ??

Do 20+ and 50+ females , search for a different type of partner ?

From what you are saying , 20+ women look for a guy with a big bag of money and 50+ females want a middle age man ,who has finished paying the mortgage on his house ??

So , that is the way to find scammers ..?

I am already trying to sort out the questions ,to ask some 20+ and 50+ women.

That is , I`m trying to find the right questions ( I never knew that I should ask women of a different age , a different type of questions)

But it is really , really hard ...

Oohh .. man

Learning something every day ...

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Mia, 55 y.o.

Russia

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Here, I'm a woman and I'll tell you how I think.
For example, when they write me a phone number in the first letter and call me to go to the messenger, I am afraid that this is a team of scammers.
It should be interesting for a real man to reveal a woman, to understand in correspondence whether it is worth communicating with her further....Personally, I need time to communicate with a person, I have an interest in him and I would like to meet him in a video chat myself.
When I receive several messages at the same time with an invitation to a video chat, they are strangers to me, uninteresting, incomprehensible people from the crowd ..... and I did not hire myself to communicate with each of them in a video chat - I have a lot of other things to do and work.
In general, my logic tells me that in the first letters scammers give their phone number, who are indifferent to your feelings, desires, interest. For them, you are not the soul, mind and heart, for them you are "work and money" and they need to have time to work as many women and men as possible faster.

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In general, my feminine advice is to try to reveal each other in the correspondence of the site, and when you realize that you are interested in each other, go to the video call.))





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