Men & women
What can i do?
Hi everybody!
This letter is specially for women because i need an answer of all them!
Some of the ladies here, have read from a few days ago a few commentaries i left in the forum, and in some of them i spoke that i was learning russian because a Kiev's woman stole my heart and i was trying to do my best to make her know how much i I was willing to do for her even i was thinking seriously to leave Barcelona and go there, but in this 2 weeks, conversation between us is almost void, and meanwhile i was doing plans to visit her we used to talk during hours everyday, now 2 months ago i try to talk with her in all different ways: WhatsApp, Skype, Facebook, VK and also in this chat, but our conversations are always the same: she says that she is very busy and only writes me SO SORRY DEAR!
So now i repeat the Title of my post: What can i do? or what should i do?
I have to start forgetting here? ask for explanations? or wait a little bit more, because in this time interval i found a woman.
We started writing ourselves with a nonsense conversation, but now we do it more oftenly and she is so cute, kind and absolutely stunning!
When I first started this search I was told by a Russian woman that if Eastern European and Russian women are truly interested in you, they will move heaven and earth to communicate. If they give you excuses as to why they can not talk or they disappear with no communication for extended periods of time, they probably lost interest for whatever number of reasons.
It's difficult on the heart but there are plenty of terrific and beautiful women on this site alone that are waiting for a good man. Keep trying and good luck to you, Oscar!
Gracias por tu mensaje Lyudmila! Eso es lo que pienso y aunque era muy doloroso, olvidarla es la mejor opción, porque ella no piensa lo mismo que yo: ni soy importante ni le interesa seguir!
Por cierto escribes muy bien español! Enhorabuena!
I feel bad for you Oscar. It would be best to move on try not to think to much why she quit writing you.
I myself did the very thing to a wonderful woman I met here a few years ago. Sometimes we get scared at the thought of what could happen if things continue. I think both men and women can find it easy to talk online about how nice it could be if we are together or about future plans but when it comes time for the rubber to meet the road most won't get in the car.
Dear.Oscar!
It can be various options
Hot heart is good, but even better to join him cold reason.
It may be too rapid developments you scared her and she's just knock down by your fervor.May be she confused . You write that you would have to go to her.
A little bit about us, Russian and Ukrainian women: each of us wants on the one hand as quickly as possible to solve the problem of creating a family - on the one side, but on the other side If we recive offer so quickly as we did not expect as we think that we'll wait a long time, - we are simply psychologically not ready for your fast offerings.
And you as a men wondering: what these Russian women want?!
It's like one of the reasons, there may be other ... you must take a step towards sincerity, heart to heart talk ...
In your case, if your passion is not respons to you or respond very succinctly and discreetly, try to talk, but better details write a letter with a request to explain what is happening.
Because as I know , the worst thing that can be for any person is to be in limbo the state of uncertainty. And, and if you do not get a clear answer, let move further in your quest.
Good luck and I wish you to meet only your best soul mate!
Alberto
Oscar, desde mi experiencia y la de otras personas muy cercanas a mi:
Lo primero es que, debes armarte de paciencia, y estar preparado para las desilusiones tanto como para encontrar el amor con una chica del Este.
Es una experiencia apasionante, en todos los sentidos. Vas aprender mucho de otras culturas y otras tradiciones, pero también vas a tener más de un disgusto grande antes de encontrar la persona que es para ti.
Cuando lo hagas, cuando conozcas a una chica Bielorusa, Ukraniana, Moldava, Rusa o Kazaja, que va a ser para ti, entonces sabrás lo que es una verdadera mujer eslava luchando por su hombre.
Para llegar a esto, puede que te cueste unos meses, o unos años, estate preparado para todo.
No lo dejes, continúa, aparecerá.
Un saludo.
Yana
Dear Osckar,
your pain of soul and uncertainty are clear. Many who are on this dating site faced the similar. Is it perhaps necessary to become silent to you for some time?
It is impossible to despair! Time will sort things out. Stock up with patience and belief to find the happiness.
I like these lines:
I will never ask people to come back.
Yes, I will miss.
Yes, I won't have enough them, BUT …. they made the choice ourselves.
Gustav
Estimado Óscar No pierdas el tiempo. Paciencia y para adelante . Suerte
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