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Carlos

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So, I messaged every single girl in this website in my preferred age range, but I rarely get a response. Could it be my country? Or is everyone experiencing the same low response rate?

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L


A) country - girls or your preferred age range (up 18 to 33) are unlikely dreaming of moving to Guatemala, dont' ask me why.
B) housing - an indication of stability and security in any other conditions under A.
C) occupation - see under B.


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Praskovya


Здравствуйте Карлос. Действительно, вы правы. Ваша страна практически нам неизвестна. Лично вы здесь ни при чем. измените страну на Америку или в худшем случае на Доминиканскую республику и вы ощутите разницу. Девочки начнут отвечать вам. Я не шучу. Поставьте себя на наше место. Найдите страну о которой вы очень редко слышали. Вы будете мечтать завязать серьезные отношения с девочками из этой страны? И, если эта страна будет в экономических таблицах ниже вашей страны? Похвально, что вы интересуетесь русским языком.


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Aksi


It depends on what you write in the first message. If it's standard: Hello, how are you?... Such messages rarely meet 😁


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David


Hello Carlos. Having viewed your profile i will say That i find only two negatives one You have adressed the other Is beyond your control but Sadly You bring womens attention to this matter... You also put the Qoute „You messaged EVERY girl in your age range” You video is good, so are your pictures... my advise to improve your profile is

Remove the fact of What You would change about yourself is youd be 5 inches taller Has first thing a woman will do is look at your hight which is 5ft 4inch.... women like tall men .... your too honest You Tell the truth about your hight which You have to do anyway..... but pointing out the fact too dont win You dating points... find something else youd change like „your too kind” or something more possitive!!!

You want to move to Texas You dress smart and your your and have focus on What You want your country is very poor however like Salvador your an achiever in life.... If You also extended your age requirements to 35 years youd be a Good prospect for a 34 year old also.... Hope ive helped You in some ways.... If You have messaged everywoman the reason for You łow responce rate will be. Messages like Hi.... Hello... wink... your hot.... your beautiful.... silly little message go unnoticed..... find the girls You like the most out the girls who are online now... read there profile.... then send a message based on observations about her likes and life and her pictures make the message about her and What You like and What You both have in common... start the message off with her name finish It with yours so She knows Its not just sent to anyone and everyone!! Tell her to read your profile and You would like her to ask anything She likes about your life in your country or about your country as Russian or ukrainian will know little about You or Where You live... ask her questions too.. dont be affriad to Re message those You already have with new message If They not like this They can block You... but be polite say That sorry to bother them again but Now You have more time youd like to send them a more personal and in depth message.. Tell her You have photos on your profile and videos.... i think If You constuct a message tailored to an indevidual like ive explained You can go from 0% reply rate to 75% your an inteligent man who dresses Good. Play to your strong points and remove the 5 inch remark... i think You have allot going for You. welcome to the forum. Dave

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Inessa, 56 y.o.

Russia

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I think, all will be good.You are a good guy.Write on another sites too.I wish you mutch happienes and love.

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Anna, 48 y.o.

Ukraine

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Добавьте Г - физические данные (рост и вес), все мы в юном возрасте мечтаем об Апполонах.


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David

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I agree to differ..

He Has a house/cottage he dont own however he can provide suitable accomadation and shows he dont live beyond his means...

I have a friend who does Art like this man he Has contracts with magazine and newspaper and also teaches art... the man wants to move to centrel america and willing to pay.... his voice and english and clothes and video Tell me this is a educated man.... If a educated man says he will pay and shows himself on video to me this is showing Good intent!!! I agree there are better countrys but the point is this man could be a provider for his family!!! I think the nań deserves a chance at his age theres room for improvement also


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David

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For man this is only site needed fantastic women and Good features and They get rid Of most the bad eggs! Other sites are out to charge per letter Of exploit men and pay scam artist... this promotes free speech and Has good reputation (the best) and see happy couples It gets results... in this agency i trust most!!


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Aksi

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And the point of lying about height? All truth will be revealed at the first meeting.


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L

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Ве easier said than done.. these are the facts for now: he lives in Guatemala, renting a house and black trading - that's what he really has at the moment. And you focused on his potential which is not bad at all.. but keeping this approach and from this perspective, the observing of his potential prospects is still far from reflecting the reality of international dating - and it's nothing to do with having or not chances but with a different capacity.


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David

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I am not saying he should lie about his hight. Im saying theres no need to point out Its his dream to be five inches taller? Im 6ft 1inch, i dont shrink  .


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David

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His country is not ideał neither his hight. However małe membership here for a year is 2 weeks wage in his country and he says he will pay.... without dialog Nothing is proof... i own three houses outright have savings and a convertable car living in a devaloped country still dont make me a better person of a Good husband for a Russian wife!!!


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L

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Prioritizing is the issue - some things are to be settled before others.
Nothing personal 


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Salvador


Hola Carlos, no he visitado tu perfil para poder opinar.

En mi caso, no he pagado la membresia para ver como se comportan los correos, he tenido que borrar muchos correos de mujeres que entran al Inbox.

He sido miembro en este sitio desde mi primer viaje a Moscú en 2014, he borrado al menos dos cuentas y ésta debe ser la tercera.

Puedo atestiguar y dar fé de este sitio, por este medio conocí a una linda persona y somos muy buenos amigos aún, ella ya se casó con el hombre de sus sueños y recibo a menudo invitaciones de ellos, mis amigos para ir a visitarles.....

Si creo en las personas de este sitio, son reales y sinceras, no andan con juegos.

Lo que si te puedo afirmar es que las personas en los países del Este, son francas y directas.

Piensan bien lo que van a decir y si hay un compromiso de cualquier índole, debe ser respetado.

Así que es importante no prometer algo que no puedas cumplir.

Respecto a nuestros países de origen, en mi red VK tengo "Amigos Virtuales" de ciudadanía rusa que viven en Cancún - Isla de arena de coral-.

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No somos culpables de nacer pobres ó de provenir de un país en desarrollo,

Pero sí somos culpablde que al dejar de existir, hayamos vivido en la pobreza.


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Salvador


Mi perfil fué escrito por mí de manera muy negativa, pues niego alguna posible relación afectiva con las mujeres.

Y sin embargo, recibo una cantidad regular de correos que no he leído.....

Interesante comportamiento.....


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Natalja


Не поедет молодая девушка рожать детей в Гондурас, лучше вы приезжайте к нам на Колыму.))


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Aksi

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I wasn't specifically talking about you. I was talking in General 😁


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Nadezhda


Есть все шансы. очень приятный молодой человек. Хорошая анкета , фото и видео. То что многие девушки , когда видят страну проживания не отвечают - это хорошо . Сразу отсеиваются незаинтересованные в личных качествах мужчины . Останутся только "специальные леди", как тут часто пишут.
Удачи тебе Карлос !!!
почитай форум , наберись хотя бы теоретического опыта в международных знакомствах. Очень поучительная история со взрослым мужчиной из страны- мечты.
есть очень хорошие молодые девушки ,которые не побоятся хотя бы начать переписку и узнать тебя как личность .а потом может все перейдет в реальные отношения .
Просто не надо торопиться )))


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Wiwiena

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может быть все прозаичнее? Он, она (высокая стройная натуральная блондинка) идут вместе на пляж.. Гондурас дрогнет. Только вчера все было как в старом кино, а сегодня - он Король и все ему завидуют и поклоняются    мячта!


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David

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I like being tall i dont want to be 5 inch shorter.... in England i know women thst go on dates and men lie about there hight.... being tall is Good Has women can feel protected and wear heels without getting strange looks If the mans a midget  


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David

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Maybe the culture is different in England but for women hight allways a issue some years ago i dated a woman my hight 6ft 1in but i wasnt tall enough for her She married a man who was 6ft 7in and managed to find anouther woman the same. Being 5ft 4in If a woman he met 6ft in England this would not be normal i agree the man looks Good and Hope him success. I was not saying for envy i was saying this should not matter the nań on video is Everything a woman should want except little niggles we bring up


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Wiwiena

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it's very interesting .. very ..


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Aksi

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It was a problem for me to find a dance partner.. All the guys were either the same height as me or lower... It looked comical ☺


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David

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What type Of dancing did You do? Yes in England man always bigger


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Aksi

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Dance? Salsa. But now it's in the past. For dance we need a constant and trusted partner. Almost like a relationship🤣

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Katerina, 50 y.o.

Russia

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Не надо было писать на форуме , а проверить самому . Если никто не отвечает , то измени страну на Австралию ,США ,Великобританию ,Германию или хотя бы Испанию  Напиши в анкете ,что у тебя есть свой успешный бизнес и ты владеешь шикарной собственностью в райском месте . А про рост, после всего выше сказанного можешь даже не заморачиваться    оставь как есть 163 см  (шучу конечно😀  А если серьезно , то просто начни переписку правильно.Я уже представляю что ты всем им написал и поэтому это никого не зацепило(не впечатлило) Наши женщины особенные ,очень редкий вымирающий вид  , если влюбится ,о поедет за тобой даже на край света  

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Katerina, 50 y.o.

Russia

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  ахахааа Жалко ,что парень не поймет шутку про Колыму  Это наш чисто русский прикол 


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Salvador

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Kolimu where is it?


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Natalja

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Он может Колыму найти на карте, так же как и мы Гондурас. (Помните старый анекдот про Гондурас?)А если серьезно, я думаю, что парню надо приехать в Россию, немного там пожить и выбрать девушку для создания семьи. Потому что ,девушка с сайта знакомств согласится, приедет, потом ей не понравится страна, и парню придется брать кредит, для того, чтобы отправить ее на родину. Был уже такой случай.

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Katerina, 50 y.o.

Russia

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Колы́мский край, Колыма́ (в разговорной речи) — историческая область на северо-востоке России, охватывающая бассейн реки Колымы и северное побережье Охотского моря. Понятие «Колыма», как определённый регион, сложилось в 1920-х — 1930-х годах: сначала в связи с открытием в бассейне Колымы богатых месторождений золота и других полезных ископаемых, а в годы массовых репрессий 1932-1953 годов — как место расположения исправительно-трудовых лагерей с особенно тяжёлыми условиями жизни и работы.

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