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Christian

Ladies - what do i do here?

Hi there  

Ladies - I need your advice!

I have just signed up to this site, and I am quite overwhelmed with the amount of letters i get.

Off course I can not start a meaningful communication with everyone, you know, men are not good at multitasking  



Tell me, what is the best way to act on the letters, where I decide not to take it any further - do I write a short reply of some kind or should I just delete the letter - or what to do?

Maybe I am making too big a deal out of it, but when a person have seen my profile and decides to send me a letter, I do think the person deserves to be treated with respect, even that I don´t want to take it any further.

Cheers
Christian


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L


"Sorry, I'm not interested" or just "Sorry" could be an option  


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Hugo

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Unfortunately, in my experience, many things can be lost in translation. I tried to respond to every single letter in the past and even if you say "Sorry, I'm not interested" the person on the other end will interpret this in sometimes confusing ways and assume that because you answered, you must then be interested, which makes it even more awkward. Simply do not answer to those that you don't wish to communicate with, it is not an offense. Peace  


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Ben


And yet another attempt to self-advertise to get more attention.

There is a section called "I seek advice", but this hardly is a question that a grown man would ask.

PS: you can set templates and then instantly reply to all your "hundrends of letters" from all your admirers…

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Sayyora, 53 y.o.

Russia

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According to your profile, you looks like open-minded person, You speak whatever you mean without bad second thoughts.

1) yiu fresh blood here, so getting many letters. Dont worry after sometimes all will settle.

2) , its better if you remove information about having your own company, as its attracts materialistic benefit looking girls and also scamerrs, although here taking care very good  this problems, checked well, but they hide very good too, so sometimes  its takes time, to find out that the person is real. 

You may say about your company later after some letters, only to person, who is really serious

2) Reply only to person whos is interesting for you. Its your right. what is yours will remain yours, what is not will go away itself. 


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Christian


Ok, thanks for the answers.

And thank you Ben, at least now we know, that you apparently are not posting to get attention  

In any case I think you post are often funny, so I don´t mind giving the first pint anyway, if we ever meet, cheers  


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Ben

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Hi Chris,
I usually post for fun, and if my posts go by unnoticed, so be it…
My favourite section is the humour corner anyway  
As for the pint - you're on!
If you're into footie, we can enjoy more to come from 'Danish Dynamite' - you have an impressive side!  


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Christian

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Sayyora - thanks a lot, I have just seen your answer now, it seems like there are some delay on these postings.

Very useful information, I will take your advise.

And you have read my personality very well, I agree with you that I should be a little more careful, now that I am exposing myself to the hole world.

Cheers
Christian

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Elena, 57 y.o.

Russia

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Поступайте так, как хотели бы, что бы поступили с вами.


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Wiwiena


Hallo! if to be "good" to the end, then you need to answer to all ladies.. absolutely every..    I could give you a permission to ignore a half .. but what will God say?  So, just working, dont stop ))) I wish you to meet miss Right, and then - only enjoy 
lg,
Wiw

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Inessa, 56 y.o.

Russia

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And I want to write you too.


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Natalya


Я думаю,что многие получали большое количество писем,когда впервые приходили на этот сайт.Действительно сложно понять,кто пишет просто ради любопытсва и кто действительно заинтересован в общении с вами.И тут можно ошибиться и начать общение не с тем человеком,а важное пропустить.Здесь можно положиться только на собственную интуицию.Как раз проверите насколько она у вас развита.Во всем есть свои плюсы и минусы...I think that many people received a large number of letters when they first came to this site.It's really hard to understand who is writing just for curiosity and who is really interested in communicating with you.And here you can make a mistake and start communicating with the wrong person,and important to miss.Here you can rely only on your own intuition.Just check how developed it is.Everything has its pros and cons...

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David


Where did you go? Was begining to think you was a normal man.

A minority in here!

Was looking forward to some banter!

Maybe im just biased being a Spurs fan and You being a Dane called Christian...

Goodbye and Good Luck if You read this.

PS come back and we will make sure You dont get mistaken for Christian Gray and get kidnapped and taken to a Caribbean Villa sex hut!!





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