На что у Вас просят денег ? Вы пригласили в гости женщину ?

Может быть он имеет в виду платное членство?

Открывайте и читайте профили, пишите письма, общайтесь в Skype... Мне кажется, нет другого пути, чтобы узнать, реален ли человек. Удачи вам!

Это можно определить только в процесе общения. Мне кажется, максимум за месяц, будет видно что, нужно женщине

I'm sorry for a bit too acid answer, but... there are no ways to understand for sure ))) you believe or not... nobody will rush to prove it to you... )))
in general, lead the same rules, know her better, don't send money without seeing her in real life, or at least on skype.
if you would like to understand if profiles here are real or not, you can read this forum, all topics and posts are alive, ladies answer the questions. are you still have doubts we are not fakes?  

come on Alex))) is 10-15 euro such a big money to pay your membersheep? at last there are many women have Gold status you could talk to))) And if you  have so many doubts why you are here on russian dating site? where is logic ?)))

Dear Alexander, there are so many scammers in real life too!!! U should try and listen to your inner voice. By the way, we would never know the reality level of your profile))) So take chances and be happy!!! Good day!

Круговорот в природе, ни как вы не поймете, только сердцем и методом проб. Удачи вам!

  Александр, нужно общаться, задавать вопросы, выходить в скайп...Скамеры есть к сожалению как со стороны мужчин так и со стороны женщин....Я желаю Вам позитивного настроя и терпения! И Вы обязательно найдете свою любовь!

Alexander, я советую вам читать посты на форуме, особенно посты на тему "Пары и поздравления". Вы можете убедиться в том, что есть много реальных профайлов и счастливых историй знакомств на этом сайте. Если вы имеете позитивный настрой и серьезные намерения,  то вы  сами общайтесь,  выходите в скайп, и вы убедитесь в том, что мы реальные и самые настоящие женщины! И мы умеем любить и хотим быть любимыми. И и мы также имеем ранимую душу, и наше сердце также болит от обмана. 

And who is a scammer on your opinion? 

Hello Alexander,
direct messages, chat room, forum on this web-site, emails, Skype, talk to the one you're interested in, that's how you 'll know )
take a leap of faith and chose wisely which words to believe be real and which fake
BR,
A.

Yes, of course i have to determine who are real or not.
But what I've heard is that there is a big chance of a girl just looking for a easy way to another country, and then she split up with her partner after a couple of years, when it all comes down to money. They dont want to be togheter anymore, and then they had a way of coming to a country with no real intentions at all..

Alexander, there're many women who has good life and good job here. And many friends and relatives. Believe me, many of us look for our second half, not good way to leave the country. When a lady enters international dating, she realizes very quickly that there's no perfect country for living. And she looses too much moving to different place. And there will be quite a long adaptation period (usually several years) when this woman is dependant on her man complitely with many aspects. That's not very nice thoughts, but they are true.
If there is no love it's very difficult to venture upon such a step.

PS. I don't say all women are like this. But many...

If you can determine reality of the woman, I am sure, you will determine easily, who wants your money... but not you. Trust but check!

that's a totally different kind of fear,
as far as i heard European countries in particular are not that easy to stay in if you are not a citizen and divorced.
i'm traveling quite a bit for my job, for instance, and it's not really a secret that life in the EU is more convinient in terms of service and social securities in particular.
i think for quite a lot of people it's a motivator to look for an opportunity to move to a place when they expect life to be better. and i think it's good if it works out for them, i mean we all are looking for what's best for us, dont' we?
as for the money, as cynical as it may sound, there are prenups after all, why not to discuss it?
i mean, not every girl is a gold-digger and not every relashinships are doomed to end, but if that's what worries you, you should at least talk it through with each other, i think....

Yes I understand that not every girl are a gold-digger. But my point is how difficult it can be to sort the "bad" ones out... I would of course love to meet a nice and sincere woman, but I am afraid that I will be hurted again, and that the woman did not come for love but for a way out for her.

Why would so many woman leave country if they are happy were they are now?

Мне кажется, что наши женщины реальные, желающие устроить свою личную жизнь. А вот с обратной стороны есть желающие виртуально развлечься. Выбирайте женщину соразмерно своему возрасту и ничего не бойтесь. Удачи вам.

Alexander, человек часто получает то чего больше всего боится. Вы делаете Ваш выбор. Или бояться тогда прятаться и ничего не делать. Или смело идти навстречу Вашей судьбе. Пробовать и получать результаты. Слушайте Ваше сердце. Все ответы внутри Вас. Страх плохой партнер.  

don't know about many, but those whom i know left their homeland for their loved ones... and it was neither quick nor easy decision for them, but in the end it all worked out well.

i agree that every negative experience one went through makes them more cautious ... nobody likes to fall into the same trap twice )

but dwelling on the negative experience from the past would lead you nowhere

no guarantee you won't ever get hurt again, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't try though...

Veronika, Alex may just be a prudent man, he does not want to point fingers.  

I have never met a scammer on this site. There are many other ways that disappointment can raise its turgid head and bite you, and scamming is not one of them in the first instance. Unless you are punching above your weight and trying to connect with Kim Kardashian looks, in which case you deserve to be scammed. Stay in your feasibility range and you will be fine.

Есть хорошая русская пословица "Волка бояться - в лес не ходить".

алекс мой муж в своей стране менее обеспечен чем я . мы жили в моей стране , сейчас в его стране. В своей мне было проще и финансово легче. но я не жалею

Alex you have every right to be concerned, I cant give you a definite answer to your question. I talked to a lady on another site and she was on two different sites. The catch was she had 3  different birth dates on each site. I knew not to trust this lady and moved on.....

Good and smart conversation can weed out any shady ladies.  

Alexanger it is good to be very suspicious, good for you...

I worry about the same thing Alex there is no easy answer. If a lady looks like a high level model and she shows interest in me I would not trust her. Real pretty girls are not interested in average looking men.