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Paul, 56 y.o.

Canada

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Real LOVE

SOrry ladies real love is nothing but a pipe dream for the average man. And you ladies know it. Go to u tube and type in MGTOW listen and learn what average men haqve to put up with....  

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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You live in a free country and have the right to freely speak your mind.What do you want to do with it ....?

Are you going to stay in a downward mood or do you want to change something in your life ?
You know feeling sorry for yourself is/was and will never be a good solution.

And remember , if you want to change the world , you should start with the "man in the mirror" (as M Jackson sang !!!)


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Stephen


From one guy to another.

As far as I can tell you're either trolling to deliberately annoy people and get attention anyway you can. Or you're pissed off because the people you like don't like you.

If the former is true, go elsewhere, no one likes a troll.

If the latter is true take a break, go do something else till you can calm down. It's a frustrating tiresome process, we all know it and we all hate it. That's how most of us ended up here to start with. Putting yourself out there and being ignored or rejected sucks. If you're fed up, tired, frustrated, and/or angry leave it until you're ready to try again.

You're searching for a needle in a stack of needles. If they aren't interested in you, move on. There's no reason to take it personally or be offended. Also remember that they get rejected as often as you do. Otherwise they wouldn't be here.

When you do come back, read your profile as if it were a strangers.

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Are you putting your best foot forward? Is this the way you want others to see you?



Then look at the people you're contacting. Are you sending messages to people half your age or women that are out of your league? If you're trying to punch above your weight you're not going to have any more success here than you would at home. Except maybe in Thailand or the Philippines where they care more about your wallet than your age.

PS: I recently saw an ad on another site from a woman looking for a man who was bald. It was a turn on for her. And look at all the famous actors that have deliberately shaved their heads in the last decade.
So there are lots of people out there that are bald and it's not a problem. Stop allowing it to be a problem for you. Maybe you don't like it but you're stuck with it. Learn how to accept it and find someone that can do the same.

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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I remember Kojak ...
And when you go further back in time , Yul Brynner was one of the firsts.

Acting in the classic movie : the Magnificent Seven , 1960 I believe ....

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Paul, 56 y.o.

Canada

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Love dont work any more i am trying to save men

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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Hi Paul ,

It surprises me to get a reply from you.So you say that love is not working for you , and now you want to warn men for the women ?

I noticed that you referred to Men Go Their Own Way (MGTOW)a little while back.I haven't checked that site but I get a hunch of what it is about.

It is making all sorts of statements and gives warning to men who are divorced or their relation went on the rocks.Well before giving a comment , you first should know the 2 sides of the story.

I don't know you personally but I read that you suffer from Obsessive Compulsory Behaviour.I don't know in what way or strenght it is affecting your life.
Nor do I know your life story or your vieuws , of what is important in your life.

You complain that the women on this site , are not responsive , do ignore you ,don't show some interest ....
Well , I have news for you.
At this moment , I'm not a paying member but I was in the past.

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And I have experienced the same things.So tell me , what's new ?But should that be a reason for me , to begin bashing at these ladies or to treat them dis-respectful ??
I feel that you are generalizing and are treating these women very unfair!

You are bragging about that you have a house (fully paid) and you have 2 cars.And at the same time , YOU don't want to buy a plane ticket to pay a visit to EE or to Russia ???

I'm not sure what material possessions have to do , with international online dating.And when you find out that the lady has a Lexus , you seem to be surprised ???

I can't quite follow this!!

Let me tell you , that online dating is not an easy thing.And you should be ready and accept that it WILL COST YOU MONEY ....

Hey you can get Lucky but I personally wouldn't bet on it.
You are bashing these wonderful ladies about their livelyhood and their income.And from what ground ?

You also want to profile men , as being superiour.And we (men)do and think from our LOGIC....
But I can't find any logic in your recent posts ......

Remember for every bad day that you may have , there are 10 or more persons in this world , who have it 10 times harder than you.So get a grip on yourself and man up.

Life sucks some time - believe me I've been there too ....
But Always strive for the POSITIVE and set a goal in your life ...

Some years ago I wrote a poem but I can't remember if it was for a certain wordly event.And I added it to a reply.
Now I will put in this post.

It seems that it's still actual today ....

So for what it's worth .............

We are the same

Love can be cruel
And love can be sweet
We are in a duel
But don`t want a defeat

What do we know
When love comes around ?
Our heart is a glow
We are on higher ground

We walk on thin air
With a smile on our face
Sometimes life is unfair
And hits us with disgrace

But still , we all
Want to love so bad
And then , when we fall
We feel awfully sad

But can it still be ?
For all on this earth
Everyone , like you and me
To show LOVE and RESPECT , and create a re-birth ???

Eric - (C) - 06 May 2014


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Margaryta


Человек, не познавший любви, умирает гораздо раньше своего тела...(с)


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Borislav


Paul, my friend you are like a Messanger of Doom.Several of your topics are quite like "50 shades darker" but literaly.But that doesn't mean that we should turn a blind eye to the harsh realities.Women are proven time and again that they are well needed "evil" in each normal man's life.Though that mankind is banished from Heaven because of the women, that doesn't mean that we should accept the naturaly evil nature of women as something that men cannot shake off.Yes, it is true that in most case scenarios we bump right into a huge mess or a recipe for disaster, but we are men after all.We are destined not to give up the fight for what is rightfully ours... Women though evil creatures that they are, they belong to us... and we to them, and they are the only mean of keeping mankind alive and kicking by reproducing.So yes... women are necessary evil in our lives... It is true... that most of the women don't follow the "love" doctrine any more.It is up to us men to show the way.There are cases though that are showing good results.We cannot afford the luxury of giving up the fight for what we believe in or what we want from to acomplish in our lifetime.So yes, dissappointing as it sounds and grim... we cannot abandon the cause.There is always something that must be worth fighting for.And happy life with a snake right next to you is one of these things.The snake though dangerous and with a big chance to turn suddenly and bite you in the ass sometimes with fatal results, must be trained to be loyal and content.As I said there enough cases that such feats did not went totally south.Some cases are even unexpected success.





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