Men & women
Leonidas
THE MARKET OF LOVE AND BEAUTE
Dear Ladies and Gentleman.I have few days in this site, and I would want to be shared together you, certain thoughts.
Only thoughts, not conclusions.
The truth is, that first time in my life I am in dating site.
Why I am here? For the same reason that most of you.
The process is simple. Very simple.
In five minutes, you build a profile, write whatever you want, you show your better self, you put the more beautiful photographs.
Photographs with sunsets, in the sea, in the mountain, photographs sexy, sensual.
Photographs that be jealous and professional photographers.
And the message!
"I am looking for a true love"
"I want to meet a sweet girl"
"I have that a real woman must have"
"I have a good job and I want to meet a beautiful woman, intelligent, and cultured"
"I am a passionate woman, who knows how to make her husband happy" .....and......and....
Messages!
Hope, expectation, promises.
In the center of the heart.
And the bench of "folk market" are ready.
On the bench all the "merchandise".
Men with muscles, tall, beautiful, with money, with good jobs.
Women impressive, with good clothing, with wonderful bodies, with rich or small breasts, large ladies ,small....
Women with radiation, capture you with their eyes.
Many hours on the internet,
searching their own Juliet, and their own Romeo.
With the push of a button.
So much simply.
With the push of a button!
Natalya
Добрый день, Леонидас! Только мысли: нет, не просто — не просто найти нужного тебе человека, найти родственную душу. И проблема не только в несоответствии фотографий, а и в несоответствии анкетных ответов пользователей с ними самими, большинство из которых, обозначив своими приоритетами в анкете искренние и честные отношения, — сами не готовы к таким отношениям. Странно, правда? Люди разучились просто общаться друг с другом. И если Вы ищете здесь родственную душу, а не "удобного" партнера, Вы не будете воспринимать этот сайт как рынок, потому что душа — не товар.
Дорогой Леонидас. Вы правы в том, что современные технологии затягивают нас в виртуальную жизнь. Но просто поменяйте своё отношение к этому. Рассматривайте сайты знакомств просто как новое средство для знакомства и общения. Такое же как письма на бумаге, телефон и телеграф. И всё встанет на свои места. Там мы тоже кнопки нажимаем. Что ж, весь мир приходит к кнопкам.
Tatyana
А что надо писать ? Например
"SOS!"
"Мне плохо быть одинокой , моя жизнь падает в пропасть"
"Я никому не верю"
"У меня никогда не было семьи, никогда не было детей"
"Украсьте мою старость"
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"Послушайте, еще меня любите за то что я умру" (Цветаева)
может быть так? Абсолютная истина, хочется прокричать эти строки на весь мир
Сайт вводит в заблуждение красивыми фотографиями, нежными фразами и сладкими обещаниями, никто не напишет в первой строчке "Помоги мне, мне плохо"
Надо чувствовать по другому .
На сайте находятся одинокие люди((
Leonidas! I agree that on the site everything is simple.
Simple if people are not serious, simple if you are looking for one-night relations. Really you can easily reach any woman.
But if you are looking for not only a woman but for a friend, or a life partner, whom you can trust, you'll reach nothing with one push of a button.
Leonidas
Dear.
You do not know you, if I'm ready for a soul mate, or not.
The "merchandise" I wrote it in quotation marks.
"Goods", not a commodity.
Allegory is.
You know allegory?
Leonidas, Вы очень сильно ошибаетесь. Все это - очень не просто. Не просто строить отношения в виртуале, когда ты не видишь человека, не слышишь интонацию его голоса, не можешь к нему прикоснуться. Как много обид, непонимания и огорчений можно стереть только лишь нежным прикосновением. Важно не только - что мы говорим, но гораздо важнее - как мы это говорим. Надо быть очень сильным человеком, чтобы строить отношения в интернете, и очень умным, и смелым, конечно.
Hi Leonidas and all ladies, good morning from Spain!
Leonidas what you think is what everybody has felt here, when after some days or weeks still they don't have any letter!
But in my personal oppinion and with my own experience, THIS is the best site because here liers, scammers or fake profiles are erased quickly! I have been in many sites in Spain and in foreigners (like this) but here i found some nice women to write them, and in this forum very clever women who helped me to take decissions (Zhanna, 47 y.o; Emma, 52 y.o; Helga, 34 y.o; and i could be doing a very long letter only with their names!) and now i'm talking with the one i hope will be the last woman i need to love.
About this post obviously you have to "sell yourself" in the best way and you have to put your best photos, or you will say to those women you are looking for: I'm nerd, i'm stupid, i'm a freak, i don't work, i smoke and drink alcohol a lot..... worst words from you, is this what you write?
`But it's very easy to find nice people and liers, and you have many options to know the truth and we have also Facebook-VK, Skype-Viber, WhatsApp-Line to see them and talk and see if that woman is what you expect or not!
Leonidas
Leonidas
Dear , Oscar.
Good morning from Greece.
I did not speak at all for this site.
On the contrary, I find it very good.
I speak for the dating sites.
And of course, no one expects the profile to write negatively.
Oh my Gosh!!! If it is possible!!!
Each one tries it presents his better self.
And very well it makes.
But, thank you for reading.
Leon.
Leonidas
I did not write any conclusion or personal crisis.
And of course, I have the impression that acquaintances with serious purpose,
is more difficult in these site
The advantage is that there are many women and men in these site.
The options you have is many.
And who knows??
Nadya
Яна, это PR ))
топики на форуме отличная самореклама.
как мне кажется) сразу куча просмотров))
Natalya
Конечно же, я знаю, что такое аллегория. Вы высказали свои мысли, я — высказала свои. Я Вас чем-то обидела?
Leonidas
Dear , Nadya.
Okay.
I don't disagree at all with you.
That's annoying?
In these sites, we are not seeking to show ourselves?
We do not seek to express our opinions;
Men and women.
Importance has, that we make without trace of superiority.
Respecting the opinions of all, and when I still don't agree.
And as you said "is a bunch of opinions".
That you love you get.
Leon.
Leonidas
Ekaterina,
"This is a private auction"
Very, very good!!!
It is much more good, from the Market.
Thank you for giving me another dimension.
Victor, thank you for kind words.
I suspect there are beautiful, smart ladies behind the forum as well.
Let's wish Leonidas lucky search!
Hello Emma, i'm nt Victor but i don't mind this little mistake!
You have sent me some advices few time ago and i knew you were right so this is just what i have to say!
Surely there are many smart ladies in the site who don't write but read it! But i made the account of men/women in this site and there is a 5/1 women for man! ALL OF YOU are beutiful obviously! But i am not able to see and talk to all of you and maybe i'm loosing, some nice women but it's all because i'm talking with my soulmate (or i hope it so).
Shame on me ...
Sorry, Oscar, how could I mix up! I should not write too late at night. Sorry.
By the way, does it mean something if a person calls another person not by his name?
Following my native tradition I have to buy a shirt for you!
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