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Salvador

Affraid of Meeting??? Or not ???

I am overwhelmed of questions about traveling and visits from men to women....

 

Too many doubts, too many fears I read, non secure minds....

 

I traveled to Moscow on December 2014 to do something good, not dating.....


 

And I was so lucky that my dear Friend E. asked me to meet , of course on this site.... I do not speak russian, she does not speak English....

 

But we met and had a great time,,,,,, I traveled back again to Moscow and SPb last December 2015, again with my very dear Friend Daria and her husband.....

 

and met my very dear Friend E.

 

SO WHAT IS WRONG  ??????

 

Why too many concerns and questions  ?????

 

You have the power to say NO, and as I witness, at Moscow there is Police everywhere.....

 

So , Why do you fear on meeting ?????

 

You, the women have the CONTROL !!!

 

 

It is what I have lived and experienced....

 

I am in love of Russia and hope soon on Ukraine, a country I really sympatize and adore... as it is the country of my dear Daria....

 

 

it is my opinion....

 

and for personal viber, skype and emails, give one that is not linked with your personal info.... if something goes wrong,,,, just block them... It happened twice with two ladies I did not understand...

 

Have a nice day !!

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Natalya, 52 y.o.

Ukraine

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Сальвадор, я очень рада, что Вам нравится Украина. Следующий визит будет в Киев или в Луганск?


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Salvador

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Hello Natalya !!!

 

Thank you for your kind comment...

at this time I have a lot of projects at my job place in the subway and also I delivered money funds for Universities of my children....

 

In my last two trips always ocurred on December, when I am more relaxed at my job and not too much pressure on funds.  I adore Winter and for me , snow is like a magic event.

 

 

Luganks is not possible to get there, due to the war, "not good for the health".

 

Kiev is an interesting place that I want to travel and know it,,,,,

 

I hope can travel back to east europe at the best chance....!!!

 

Thank You Natalya !!


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Salvador

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I am very glad to read from you dear Natalya!!!


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Larisa


Salvador, I think the Russian women are not scared to meet the foreign men as in Russia so in another countries, and they are ready to go to there themselves even. But they are afraid of to do whatever wrong first.. That's why they do worry what dress to wear on for first meeting, what kind of hairstyle to make to fascinate a man, where to go to showing the town to foreign man for first time, where to settle him to.... Well, the usual female anxiety and trials..
But of course, they are mostly afraid of meeting at foreign countries, because the English language is not our home language, and sometime it takes a time to understand the situation alright and what to do then if they are in bad or dangerous situation abroad.. but a man doesn't think the same.. Then the woman has to think herself to come back home to Russia.. And this is not a pleasant situation for her, although the bad experience is a good experience too, if all is finished as well..

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This is just my opinion on your question.

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Natalya, 52 y.o.

Ukraine

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Спасибо , что помните обо мне! Взаимно!


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Salvador

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I think the best and healthy way to do it is according to my mindset:

 

 

1.- Travel to the country / city,

2.- Register in a hotel, safe, clean and convenient located for touring,

3.- meet the person in a safe place like a restaurant,

4.- have a nice dinner and enjoy our valuable time, (here is when chemistry and likeness are checked),

5.- if everything is well, and with time doing touring, spend and enjoy time together, of course a first meeting shall not be so passionate as "expected".... keep minds and desires calm !!!!

6.- if not well tuned, no problem !!!! the country / city is amazing by itself... ( I like to explore alone and discover way of life, social mindset... I have traveled a lot around the world and always do some tests at every place I visit),

7.- if chemistry and likeness are good, next step is to continue communications and find the common goals and tuning between the couple.....

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8.- travel back often to the homeland of your prospect, know their families and someday, the counterpart travel to the country of the mate, and know families and places.....

9.- After a real sharing of goals, planning seriously a life project for both.... then it will be....!!!

 

 

Otherwise, every possible acquaintance would be a nice time shared of two interesting persons....

 

 

it is my opinion and experience 

 

with kind regards,

 

Salvador





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