Gentlemen's club
Why i give up
- The women here are not enough implied in the process of communication, they usually barely answer (when they do), sometimes disappear without reason even after good first exchanges, rarely ask questions and the man has to create her interest (why always in that way???) not only but he should FEED the conversation and the girl doesn't.. discouraging!
- In fact, most women are not really motivated to find love and make nothing to get it.
- Women behave as if they should be deserved as a trophy or a medal... we are equal, aren't we ?!
- There are many profiles but, and women often say it themselves, are not active, don't come here often.
- Reply rates is not so bad but not good enough either.
- Many dolls with ridiculous reply rate (ex 4%) who just want to show themselves, receive likes, winks and attention but are not here for finding anyone. They want to flatter their ego.
- We are in a dating site and they are not curious to discover their interlocutor... (his content, who is he, etc...) they are supposed to find a partner but without making any effort for the conversation?
- Why writing a profile? 10% of women read it and care about it. Only appearance matter for them?
So i completely agree with Robert from UK saying below "Can someone help me understand the mentality here. A lot of girls on this this website claim to want a relationship but quite a few literally force you to carry the conversation. What I mean by that is you are expected to generate all the conversation and questions, that is understandable for the first few messages but quickly starts to become irritating and condescending especially when you have been communicating for a week or more."
My faith is gone, it is discouraging, i couldn't imagine it would be so hard.
Game over. Good luck to you guys !
Russian and Ukrainian women aren’t like the typical European and North American girls and guess what. That’s a good thing. Sure It takes quite a bit more effort and work. But to me that’s the magical part about it. Call me crazy but I loved the ice princess act. When my jokes bombed and I got the your a foolish man look. I’d laugh and keep pressing on. After a while. Something happens. They start opening up. They may even break a smile and ohhhh boy is it ever beautiful. If you think you’re just going to conquer a girls heart in a few conversations. I got bad news. It ain’t happening. You have to also think. They may or may not be comfortable speaking English. So sure they may throw out a few one word answers but give it time. Yes you have to have incredible social skills. I’m talking on a whole other level. For some reason when guys start this journey. They think you just get online and viola. Instant win. I got shot down tons. I got called stupid Canadian man and I was cool with it. But in the long run I ended up with I’d say one of the most beautiful girls on this site. Married her 8 years ago and it’s been incredible. Don’t give up on a few correspondents that didn’t light up the sky.
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