Gentlemen's club
Why i give up
- The women here are not enough implied in the process of communication, they usually barely answer (when they do), sometimes disappear without reason even after good first exchanges, rarely ask questions and the man has to create her interest (why always in that way???) not only but he should FEED the conversation and the girl doesn't.. discouraging!
- In fact, most women are not really motivated to find love and make nothing to get it.
- Women behave as if they should be deserved as a trophy or a medal... we are equal, aren't we ?!
- There are many profiles but, and women often say it themselves, are not active, don't come here often.
- Reply rates is not so bad but not good enough either.
- Many dolls with ridiculous reply rate (ex 4%) who just want to show themselves, receive likes, winks and attention but are not here for finding anyone. They want to flatter their ego.
- We are in a dating site and they are not curious to discover their interlocutor... (his content, who is he, etc...) they are supposed to find a partner but without making any effort for the conversation?
- Why writing a profile? 10% of women read it and care about it. Only appearance matter for them?
So i completely agree with Robert from UK saying below "Can someone help me understand the mentality here. A lot of girls on this this website claim to want a relationship but quite a few literally force you to carry the conversation. What I mean by that is you are expected to generate all the conversation and questions, that is understandable for the first few messages but quickly starts to become irritating and condescending especially when you have been communicating for a week or more."
My faith is gone, it is discouraging, i couldn't imagine it would be so hard.
Game over. Good luck to you guys !
I don't know how you can search for years and decades and not find one. I met my boyfriend on 1 August and we celebrated the New Year together, although we planned to meet back in October, but it didn't happen for reasons beyond our control. Now we are dating again in March and are planning to get married in May and start moving in. And that's with the fact that I had a few more offers to meet before that, but I was looking for someone special. Why am I telling you all this: Are you ready for the expense? Are you ready for an actual meeting? Are you ready to take responsibility for your life? Can you answer honestly and directly what you want?
Привет Мет. Ни кто не говорил тебе, что поиски это труд сравнимый с кропотливой работой.
Я согласна, что не все могут вести диалог, и ни кто не хочет терять своё время на то, чтоб тебе не было скучно. Верно..
Если нет обоюдной симпатии визуально, а потом и содержание писем не даёт интерес, что может держать этих двое, да не чего.
Ты не думал, о том чтобы поставить новое фото на профиль, может это даст какой то визуальный эффект, но многие уже читали твои гнеаные посты и думаю примерно понимают, кто за чёрными очками ..
Ты обвиняеш девушек в том, что они себя презентуют, сделай то же самое, не стесняйся)))
Yuliya
Леся, этот молодой, симпатичный и не глупый человек НЕ ХОЧЕТ делать сам то, на что жалуется, а именно быть на равных - вкладываться в переписку. И даже выслать свое фото, хотя бы одно.
И я на 100% уверена не в стесняшках тут дело и все у него замечательно.
I think the issue you're facing is: you believed the process of finding someone here would be different than how it is in real life. The truth is. The same situations you live in real life are going to happen here. First of all be realistic about your standards. Yes. You should have standards. Women has them and we accept them. So have yours and let the girls know you have them. But also understand many women here as in real life have grown up with the mentality of modern women and they believe they all can get and deserve a faithful handsome millionaire that will rescue them from everything. So your work is to filter the ones that are not wife material if that's what you're looking for. Most of those women that reject 99% of men will never be able to get a man and will stay alone for the rest of their lives. But you can't do anything about it. They're choosing to believe in the lie of modern mentality that tells them they should act like a prize and not like a woman. So you shouldn't blame yourself for that. Work in yourself. You're still young. The prime of a man starts at 40. So work in making your mind stronger and don't give up.
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