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Billy

Ukranian women...

This may cause a bit of a s*it storm but I can't let Ben have all the fun in here  

 

Getting serious, have I just been unlucky in who I've been talking to or are Ukranian women just strange. One of my best friends in the world is Russian, his wife is from Moscow, I've met her friends, I've got friends from Russia, Poland, Lithuania, Romania etc that I've met in travels that I still keep in touch, a couple that are coming to visit Vancouver later this year and will be staying with me and they aren't the first to do so...  if I couldn't interact with anybody from that general area I'd think it was me but I tend to get along really well with most people and most Slavs. I've met lots of Russian, Belarusian, and other various Eastern Euro countries on this site and we may not all be perfect matches but I still have had some great talks and liked many, and am getting to know some of them better so again why such a difference with Ukranian women?  I haven't met more than 1 Ukranian woman who is all the following sane, interesting and nice. I know don't judge an entire peoples by 30ish women, everybody is an individual and of course I know that but that is an epic streak of bad luck from one country wouldn't you say? I don't want to get into every specific case i'd be here a while but just to give you an idea, these are what happened in my last 4 ukranian interactions, all within the last couple days.


 

girl 1 has sent me 6 interests, every few days i'd get another one, I finally wrote her and introduced myself, said hi and made some small talk about her profile...and she read it and never responded. Okay if you're not feeling me, that's fine but you sent all the interests and all I said was hi and somehow that turned you off? 

 

girl 2, again sent me numerous interests, finally she sends me a why don't you respond message so I told her her profile contained no info so it's hard to take somebody seriously if they can't spend a minute to fill in their profile. So she said ask me anything you want and we'll talk I prefer talking. Okay, I asked her some simple intro questions, and all my questions are open ended to spur on conversation, I asked 4 questions, she replied with 3 words. How you close off the conversation that fast is beyond me and the one question didn't even warrant an answer. I asked if she's traveled much and if she has any favorite places and if she did what about them made them stand out to her, 1 question, answer, france.... Okay, I took that as didn't want to talk. Hounded for a week everyday by her after that... hi, hi, why aren't you responding, hi, hi, are you mad at me, do you want to whatsapp?...I just wrote you said absolutely nothing, I don't want to talk to myself and blocked her. She could speak english so this wasn't a language barrier, she just had nothing to say and that happens a lot, they just come in a terminate conversations and then ask where you went.

 

girl 3 her first message to me was hi what are you looking for. So I said and she replied with what she was looking for. She said is what I want sponsoring, some guy told me it was. I said kind of but you're an adult if you want that, you're allowed to go find that, nothing wrong that. Then she lost her mind, you men all want to come and stay for a little while and have fun with us and then you don't want to pay. Canadians and Americans all the time. I was like you may be right, I don't know I've never been to the Ukraine, it could be full of guys trying to do that but don't chew me out for it, I didn't do it. Then she wanted to defend how it wasn't sponsorship because she needs to live and a real man takes care of the woman in Ukraine. I was like say what you want, it's sponsoring and if you want to bitch about it, take it to someone else, I didn't bring it up and I could care less. She kept on getting angrier and more insulting, and then I came to my senses and blocked her. She dragged me into her crazy lol

 

girl 4  It started off okay, how are you single, cause of this and that, how about you, that's when it got weird, she explained how she was on some magical journey with the universe, and that she had to learn about herself. So I tuned out the crazy and focused on the learning about herself, and I said well it sounds like you did learn if you're open to looking for someone now...and she said it's a secret don't ask...I didn't but why bring up something you don't want somebody talking about?  Then she started talking about god giving us everything and blah blah blah, it was just scattered nonsense... she was either on drugs or needed to be.

 

and I've got way worse stories i just kept that to the most current....so what's the deal, do you women find differences between yourselves and your Slav neighbours. Is it me, is it just bad luck. I mentioned this experience to one of my friends wives friend and her response was Ukranian women are fkd lol, she's Russian but I'm curious to hear what other guys are experiencing too, are you finding better communication with one countries women vs another. I know this comes off as a little offensive towards Ukranian women and I am sure there are lots of amazing women out there, I'm just saying, they're just sending me their worst representatives lol 

 

 

 

 

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Natalya

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хаха, Татьяна, это веселый и прикольный пост, который свел вместе две родственные мужские души в Долине джедаев. Один наставник, другой ученик, подающий надежды. Билли заварил кашу, а наставник Бен дает ему рецепты и советы по славянской кухни. Могу им только пожелать приятного аппетита  

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Tatyana, 44 y.o.

Ukraine

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Так я же как раз и хотела всех повеселить )))🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣

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Elena, 58 y.o.

Russia

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Вы серьезно все это написали? Женщины которые ищут в МД свою половинку, могут такие посты написать о мужчинах обитающих годами на этих сайтах. Ваш опыт покажется вам невинным лепетом.   


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Billy

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I didn't know that was the criteria by which I had to measure before i could post...how does what I have to share compare to the female experience.  Thank you for taking the time to add nothing to the conversation, much appreciated.


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Ekaterina

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Billy! if you are unlucky with acquaintances from Ukraine, then communicate with women from other countries! why are you so worried? there are many beautiful and smart women on the site! Is there a problem?  

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Hanna


Привет)) Билл! Обиженный ребенок полон чувств и эмоций, справиться с которыми он не в состоянии!  Вместо того, чтобы высказать свое недовольство, вам наверное нужно поменять свою стратегию общения .Вы чувствует себя ненужным, отвергнутым? Поэтому, в первую очередь вы должны подумать по чему с вами так происходит общение.Обратите внимание на этот факт, что многие Дамы также имели негативный опыт с европейцами, которые красочно рисуют свои рассказы и дают надежду к отношением .Чтобы найти иголку в стоге сена нужно потрудится Билл! Вы нам напишите о Канадках-.. ваш опыт? ..думаю что требования завышены чем у славянок))Удачи Билл!!! 


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Natalia


В Украине живёт много русских, возможно Вы общались с русскими, а не с украинскими женщинами.))))
Я, русская по национальности, но проживаю в Украине.
Вы же не видели паспорта этих женщин, где они родились, кто по национальности их родители. ))))
Украина многонациональная страна.
Там живут, венгры, словаки, чехи, евреи, румыны, русские, и все они имеют украинские паспорта, но по крови, они не украинцы. ))))


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Natalia


Судя, по Вашим фото, кровь у Вас тоже далеко не канадская. ))))


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Christian


Wow, this forum is pretty wild, Shakespeare was an amateur compared to the stories we find here  

I have only been writing with one Ukrainian women, so the statistics are a little weak.

She were both intelligent and beautiful, I would jump on a plain right now to meet her if possible, but unfortunately she was intelligent enough to dump me...  

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Eric, 77 y.o.

Netherlands

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But you are aware , that almost all pictures in a woman's profile , are photoshopped.
So , in reality it can /may be a little less.

But even without make up , I personally do find , that Ukrainian women look rather good.
I'm not using the word beauty , because that is subject to a person's taste.

These women have a large pool , to pick from.So , that makes it even more harder and important , for us men , to present ourselves in the best way , in a profile.

Remember , it is the 1st impression , which counts even on internet dating.

If she was not a scammer , I think that you know , why she left you .... or not ??


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Christian

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Hi Eric

Thanks for your comments.

Yes, you are right, pictures can be photoshopped, and maybe 10 years old, at least that is how it is on local dating sites in Denmark.
Here people even photoshop their pictures on facebook, it´s pretty crazy.

Fact is that her intellectual side and natural sweet mind hit me pretty hard, and even if you stripped makeup and whatever digital filters, she would still be a very attractive women in my eyes.

She decided I was not the right match for her, and I have learned never to argue against women intuition, so she was probably right.

But at least it shows that off course there are genuine and intelligent Ukrainian women, opposite of the experiences that the threadstarter Billy have had, that was mainly the reason why I shared the story.

Cheers
Christian

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Vera, 51 y.o.

Russia

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Girl number one after sending so many interests probably at the end found someone better, girl number two probably didn't know english well and was lieing that she does. Girl number 3 probably wanted to discuss her bad experiences and get some compassion from you. Girl four probably wanted to fascinate you with her intelligence and inner world, but instead of that you found her weird.


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Larisa

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Совершенно с вами не согласна, участие в дискуссиях и создание постов может как-то влиять на то, что из себя представляет женщина? Вот я например до этого вашего высказывания нигде не участвовала и вы будете утверждать что у меня нет культуры?))😂😂😂😂

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