Как мужчине разорвать виртуальные отношения с женщиной, что бы причинить ей меньше боли?

I'm sorry Svetlana, but I did not know that this was something I should thank people for. I will thank people from now on. And thanks for informing me of my misconduct.

I forgot to say Svetlana, that I have also given highest scores for many people on their pictures and I did not expect or want to receive a thank you. That is why I did not think to thank you or others for giving me highest scores. So I believe I still followed my rule of treating others as I would like to be treated. But again, I will from now on if is considered common courtesy for some. And again I apologize.

Некоторые мужчины мне в процессе переписки говорили, что встретили женщину и извинились, некоторые сказали, что не смогут приехать ко мне, что не могут себе позволить путешествия и предложили приехать самой. В этих случаях мы оба пожелали друг другу удачи. Спасибо им за это. Все по честному. Некоторые мужчины просто перестали писать, я не обиделась. Никто никому ничего не должен. С некоторыми мужчинами я не захотела общаться это уже больше года общения , объяснив причину, что я не собираюсь писать ему письма до пенсии или до конца жизни с ним, потому что он даже не собирается встретиться со мной. Ну понимаю, что не совсем вежливо, но так. Думаю, зато честно

G'day Glen a fellow Australian here. I have to agree with you on your views. I do my best to reply to as many winks or messgages. I am quite taken back by the lack of courtesy by some women on here. I am not sure whether they are cautious of fast talking men or just not courteous. Often looking at profiles, I find a nice photo or a great holiday photo, and I pay a compliment, or are just curious where the photo was taken. It isn't hard to reply to a simple question with a short answer. It does not lock you into a future relationship, or a future commitment. I appreciate the women that do answer a question, and I thank them for the answer. I have given up on the wink format , I agree with you . Why send a wink, and then not follow up ,if the man replies to the wink...just do not understand that . Anyway mate I wish you and everyone on here the best of luck in their searches for happiness.

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Мариночка, я всегда с вами согласна!!!!

Inessa, I always check a woman's profile and rarely send a wink or a letter to a girl who has not stated on her profile that she is interested in my age range. That would be stupidity. So I fail to see how you excuse this as decency.

Your statement is the answer a desent men! It"s nice to know that there are real men.

Glen, thanks very much for participating in the discussion. It's very useful to know men's opinion on some things. But I can't understand where the stupidity is - sending winks the to girls who aren't interested in the men 20 years older without reply or to those who stated the age range with a 20-year difference and 'are interested'.
DEAR MEN, THERE ARE TWO THINGS WHICH YOU CHOSE IN YOUR LIFE THEMSELVES - A CAR AND A WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!

The stupidity is in sending winks or letters to girls who are not interested in men 20 years older and then expecting a reply. I think I said this but maybe something got lost in translation 
However, this is something I rarely do, but maybe if the girls says she is interested in a man of age 45, which is close to me (47), I might try  

Glen, I don't use the translator. I understand English. I think you didn't catch me. The stupidity is when men send winks to the gilrs who stated in their profile the age range of 20-25 years difference and they think that the girls are really interested in them(!!!). I think both man and woman just use each other in this kind of relationships. I even do not feel pity for those men. You chose...

Agreed. Sorry for my misunderstanding