Hello from Ukraine!

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Чтобы подать в суд, нужно еще его найти. Но это сделать практически невозможно. Никто в Дании не будет его разыскивать. Тем более , что брак скорее всего не легализрован в Дании. Поэтому он и скрылся. Воспитывайте вашу доченьку сами. И забудьте о неудачном браке. Развод можно получить через суд, сначала нужно получить справку из датской полиции, что он пропал без вести для вас. На основании такой справки можно подавать в российский (украинский) суд. Вас разведут. Процесс длительный.. но лучше это сделать, чтобы не ломать себе жизнь до конца. Будучи бумажной женой.Еще устроите себе жизнь.

Что-то странное вы про Данию рассказываете. У каждого гражданина в Европе есть идентификационный номер, по которому его может найти налоговая, полиция и т.д. Алиментами, я думаю ,занимается социальная служба, ее юристы (в Финляндии так). У нас , например, нужно записаться по интернету на прием, должны присутствовать два родителя, юрист проверяет доходы, возможность оплаты алиметов, позже принимается решение и высылается по почте. Каждый год сумма алиментов пересматривается в зависимости от доходов.не может платить папа, платит государство.

Yes , while partly some of this is true , there are some other factors at play too !
Alimony is not a social security provision by the state.

The ex - husband / father is responsible to pay alimony.
There can be different laws in different EU countries.When it is about social security support.

In Holland , the wife must have lived here for some time , to get social support.If the child is not born here (and has a different nationality) , things may get a bit more complicated.

Nevertheless , the father will be Always liable , to pay for alimony.If the child was born , in the marriage , then the child can also ask for Danish nationality (but it depends on the Danish rules and laws)

The Identification Number , is not necessarily giving you access to social security support.It will make your filing for social support , a bit easier.

I'm not sure if the mother and the child have a Danish Identification Number.

Oh , yes , they will find him.He has his Identification Number - this number should be present , ON ALL OFFICIAL DOCUMENTS AND ON HIS TAX AND SALARY BILLS.

So , on his driving license , on his bank loans /mortgage etc.
Unless he is a millionare and can move to his private Island in the Pacific Ocean , they will locate him.

But , the other side of the coin is , to start a legal procedure through court.To locate his where about.
Yes, it can be a lenghty and costly process (although she may get a pro deo lawyer from the state )

From what I have read throughout the thread, it is much less a matter of finding him, but of making him pay the due alimonies.

There is only one way to achieve this:

A Danish court of law must enforce the claim. This is civil law and even for other EU countries, it would be difficult to enforce this outside Denmark.

As Ukraine is outside Danish / European jurisdiction, the only options are:

1) File a case through the Danish Embassy in Kiev or through a Consulate General in other cities, if feasible and eligible.

2) Go to Denmark and obtain direct enforcement plus compensation (travel expenses, cost of legal proceedings and a guarantee that alimonies will be paid). In return, however, the father has the right to see his child, even though he doesn't want to as paradoxical as it may sound. 'Renegade fathers' try to use this lever of pressure to get out of their trouble 'unscathed'.

Можно начать со службы по защите детей, написать письмо туда, сообщить кто отец , его данные и данные ребенка.

Yes , I know ...

Oi Violeta. Em meu país (Brasil), precisa provar a paternidade e uma vez provado pedir ao juiz fixar a pensão de alimentos. Na maioria dos países funciona igual. Existe ação judicial com cooperação internacional. Se tem o registro assumido pelo pai e o endereço vai no defensor público da sua cidade para ele encaminhar. Se não tem o registro da filha assumido pelo pai, precisa reunir todas as provas da relação que tiveram e levar no defensor público, para ele encaminhar esse processo. Nesta segunda hipótese o defensor vai pedir DNA cumulado com alimentos. Não sei se o teu país possui tratado de cooperação internacional com a Dinamarca, se tiver é mais rápido. Se não tiver precisará mesmo um advogado na Dinamarca e nesta hipótese também é possível que o seu país forneça esse serviço público. Em resumo reunir todas as provas que possui (registro da criança admitido ou não pelo pai, identidades, provas da relação com o pai, como fotos, emails, conversas por aplicativos, etc), e levar no defensor público da sua cidade acaso não possa pagar um advogado particular. Boa sorte.

Милая Виолетта.
Ситуация сложная. Мой вам совет,сначала найдете хорошо адвоката. Здесь в Украине!!!
И пусть адвокат все разузнает.
Если вы пойдете сама в посольство Дании,вожможно вас даже слушайте не станут.
Поэтому только адвокат!!!

теме год, автор давно уже удалила свою анкету

Seems to me she chose to carry the child to term without the man's consent, and it's likely she will bear full responsibility for that outcome  

Assuming you can prove to the Danish courts that the child is his, the claim for alimony/support seems plausible. Good luck

Good points are made here by Natalia. In the context of international marriages, contesting the custodial and visitation rights of a child's biological father poses a most serious ethical predicament for the prospective foreign spouse.