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Danny, 38 y.o.

India

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Do you know what's the BEST way to MOVE ON?

1. Take the power in your own hands
2. Share the blame, where you can
What do I mean?
Don't think about how you have been wronged! Or what the other person did to you. That's not in your control - neither the input, nor the outcome.


And it will make you go craaaazzzyyyy !! Why did he / she do this to me???? While it's an important question, it won't take you ANYWHERE!!!


Better way -
Think about what you can control. What you can FIX. And that is -
Your part of the mistake.
Figure out where you went wrong, what you can do better in your life in such a situation. And then go ahead and DO IT. JUST FIX YOUR OWN DAMN MISTAKES!!
Try this out. Moving on, forgiving etc. All seem more doable when your workload is less. And it's not your 'Responsibility' to take responsibility for someone else's actions. They will come around in their own time !!
You put in the hard work. You reap the benefits!
Try??

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Irina, 57 y.o.

Russia

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Замечательные вопросы для психотерапии. Есть, над чем задуматься.... лично каждому... наедине с самим собой или, опять же, с психотерапевтом. Я абсолютно серьёзно и никого не хочу обидеть.
А интерпретация где?





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