К себе пригласите. Помогите финансово и она приедет.

Which country you are going friend?

Berdyansk no war... your girlfriend about it say?
But better to meet in Kiev 

Check where is Berdyansk located on the map of Ukraine.
It is not included into anti - terrorist operation area oficially,
but it is still not far from it.
Anyway, if you are worry about your safety, you can arrange your meeting in other ukrainian cities: Kiev, Odessa, etc.

Ukraine
City berdyansk but there is war

But I want go to she.

I no scare but Worry about control army

Don"t worry. Berdyansk away from the combat zone. No panic in the city. But you will not be easy to get to Berdyansk. The best option - Kiev. But do not Odessa. You can see Zaporozhye.

Ok. Thanks. I have only problem because I no speak a Russia

Бердянск - хороший курортный город, на берегу моря. Войны там нет, все спокойно. Но доехать до него, вам будет сложно. Вы не знаете русского языка. Вы будете лететь самолетом? Аэропорты в Киеве, Одессе, Запорожье. Пусть подруга вас там встретит. А потом вдвоем можно и в Бердянск.

I will fly to kiev... and next bus to berdynsk.

I need go to berdyansk alone 

You are a young guy and must cope ; you will get wonderful memories for all life. I hope your girlfriend knows about your visit.
Now, about your trip. There are not reasons to worry. Yes, it's too close to a line of the war, but our army defends. A life in the city is quite safely, especial for guests.
Here are some sites, that can help you:
http://azov.eu/en/berdyansk/how-get-berdyansk
https://busfor.ua/%D0%B0%D0%B2%D1%82%D0%BE%D0%B1%D1%83%D1%81%D0%B8/%D0%9A%D0%B8%D1%97%D0%B2/%D0%91%D0%B5%D1%80%D0%B4%D1%8F%D0%BD%D1%81%D1%8C%D0%BA/6%D0%9B%D1%8E%D1%82%D0%BE%D0%B3%D0%BE
http://ua.igotoworld.com/en/poi_catalog/409312-6-hotels-berdiansk.htm
https://discover-ukraine.info/index/southern-ukraine/berdyansk
As I understood, there is a bus from Boryspil to Berdyansk at 22-25 (ukr.time), or from a bus station at 16-20.
Most of the young Ukrainians speak English, so it's better to ask something them; they are the same, like you. Be in touch with your girlfriend all time; she also can help you, even from Berdyansk. Well, Google will help you also.