Men & women
Natalia, 47 y.o.
Как бы я хотела, чтобы,хоть , раз в жизни, меня заинтересовал мужчина, который на много старше меня.
Возможно, тогда бы, у меня мнение и изменилось.
Единственный мужчина, который меня интересовал, и который старше меня на много, это Дитер Болен.
We all talk about our own life experiences. If you have a guy, and keep him busy, then things will be fine. If you use the oil well as a tool as punishment, then the piston will be rust and go. Remember the Theory of Evolution. Least used parts will be come weak and fall off. But there are ways in Yogic exercises, the guys and even to a large extend women can preserve their situations. Now a days, no one knows, no one practices.
So true. Life is very mysterious. My last acquaintance in this website ( I deleted the profile and now i am back ) is actually getting settled down with a nice guy, also from India, whom they know each other, but didnt know what to do. Actually, day before yesterday, 18th September, 2019, they moved in together in their Belarus home. I am so happy for them. Sometimes, you are more happy and thrilled more than you find your ONE when you help people settle down in life and make them understand their feelings with others. She is a good friend now. I have asked her to send me a " Rakhi ", whereby she accepts me as her brother, and I am very happy.
We, as human beings, are not here to be selfish, but to be of purpose for all aorund us. That is when we find true happiness.
Totally agree. Reading all comments, I was just reasoning within me, how I chose the "Preferred Age " in my profile. Still articulating within me. I want to have children, its a reason. Everyone has their own reason. But it is not just to have an eye candy for you to take around.
Beautifully said from your part
But it put a question mark. and you keep off, especially about children. because you cannot spoil the relationship due to conflict on this. People can put YES, and then put in their condition if any. I think it is well understood that, any sensible and responsibile guy who want his children to grow around him and imbibe what all he has learned and acquired, will not think of even engaging in a relationship, especially intimate one, with a woman he is unsure of having a stable relationship.
Super and beautifully written.
I thought that we were here for a stable relationship. if we talk about, the only looks philosophy will never work. She will have no peace of mind, neither will he. Both will be scheming against each other. what kind of life is that ?
I must say that any guy, who is 26 - 30 years and above, and still playing around, doesnt have any proper serious topics that he can handle and proudly say about what he has started to achieve in life, will be waste. He will remain there, always scheming on how to tray a young girl. If the girls are getting carried off with sweet talks and flashy ( probably he wont even have the means to sustain it or grow it to the next level) is doing so at her peril. I started working when i was in college and 17 years old, because i fought with my mother who didnt give me money. She was one really strong, Iron lady. She passed away last year in 2018.