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Gajanan, 39 y.o.

India

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India,

I am an Indian. I want to know what Ukrainian and Russian woman think about Indian men. I know this a conservative country. But things are gradually changing. What is your views.
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Yana, 67 y.o.

Russia

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Здравствуйте! Об индийских мужчинах я почти ничего не знаю.Какие они,что им нравится и кто им нравится, очень далекая страна.У вас другая культура.Но любовь она и Индии любовь.Я где-то читала, что индийские мужчины очень хорошие мужья.


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Nataliya


Большая часть мужчин, живущих в Индии, добрые.

Это медаль индусов! 

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Nadya


I know that India is the motherland of yoga.
I fond of yoga, I sympathise buddists way of living and etc.
Some friends of mine have travelled to India
and they had been studing yoga with famous all over the world teachers,
some just lived and enjoyed ocean and weather.

But, at the same time, when I read something like that (two links below) -
I do not understand how all moral values could coexist with such way of treating women.

http://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/features/2016/03/indian-acid-attack-victims-share-stories-160309074926141.html

http://indianexpress.com/article/india/india-news-india/russian-woman-injured-in-acid-attack-in-varanasi/


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Nataliya

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Nadya, автор поста спрашивает у русских и украинских женщин что они думают о индийских мужчинах, а не о йоге и т.д.)


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Nadya

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Наталья, ответила как смогла =) политкорректно.

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Natalya, 51 y.o.

Russia

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I've never been to India. But my American man has 50% Indian blood although he has never been to India too. He is very special. I don't know may be I like him so much because of half of Indian blood?  

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Bella, 45 y.o.

Russia

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Меня тоже озадачивают такие контрасты. Поэтому, если встречается человек из страны с такими вот традициями, даже просто в обычном общении, мне важно узнать его позицию. Одни говорят "это древние традиции моей страны, надо их уважать" - тогда близкое общение с человеком становится для меня бессмысленным, потому что есть вещи, которые невозможно уважать. Другие могут сказать что-то вроде "я люблю свою страну, но мне стыдно за некоторые вещи в ней, и я к ним не имею отношения и хотел бы изменить". Тогда вполне можно общаться, потому что человек не привязывает себя к традициям, какими бы разрушительными они ни были, а может самостоятельно выбирать свой образ мыслей и действий. Но таких людей не так много: к сожалению, часто национальные традиции "въедаются" так, что становятся второй природой. Поэтому место, где человек родился и вырос, имеет, нисмотря ни на что, очень большое значение. И в Северной Корее теоретически можно быть думающим, интересным человеком, стремящимся к свободе, - но практически очень трудно быть таким.


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Nadya


Мы приглашены на индийскую свадьбу!
Друг моего мужа из Индии, вчера он сообщил что его сын скоро женится.
И рассказал как они нашли ему невесту.
Папа молодого человека недавно ездил в Индию, там он подобрал несколько подходящих кандидаток на роль невесты для своего сына и выслал ему фотографии. Сын выбрал, далее он пошел к родителя невесты. Родители одобрили. И вот теперь мы приглашены на свадьбу))

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Gajanan, 39 y.o.

India

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If your view is that girls opinion is not taken into consideration then you are not completely wrong. It mostly happen in uneducated families. But as far as my kowledge is concerned, as the people are becoming educated, girl's opinion is also taken into consideration and then they move forward.

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Gajanan, 39 y.o.

India

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What I think if there are certain ritual in ones religion, then the reason behind those also need to find out. One has to question for everything why we are doing these. In Hindu religion some rituals have scientific base e.g. there is one month called 'shravan' which comes around July - August, in this month non veg is avoided in the worship of God 'Shiva' but actual reason behind that is that, in this month most of the fish breeds, hence eating fish need be avoided. Many such cases are there. Hence rituals which are necessary should be followed and which are not can be avoided.
Similarly there is epic in Hindu called 'Mahabharata'. Many people believe it is story of wining of Good over Evil. But if you refer mythologist, they suggests it tells to avoid violence. In this epic 'Kauravas' who are considered to be villain all die in battle and loose their kingdom. However 'Pandavas' who are considered heroes lost their all childrens in that same battle. At the end God 'Krishna' who is friend of 'Pandavas' sees his kingdom and family destroying in front of him due curse of 'Kuravas' mother 'Gandhari'. And later, heroes 'Pandavas' goes to hell and villain 'Kauravas' goes to heaven. It tells even God has to face the consequence of his deeds. Every story gives some knowledge. Hence science and logic behind each ritual and epic stories need to be found.


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Nadya


No, I really do not know about that part - do they ask girl's opinion or not. But all of them have good education and the boy was born in the USA. But before I did not know that that type of marriages (no daiting before marriage, family approved) you can find amongst indian-americans too.

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Danny, 38 y.o.

India

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlqHN_wQpow https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3HyWpNOlz7M . yes they do ask girls opinion for example in my family my father always ask my mother opinion. In this you tube you will see one American who is more than 40 years old got married to a 25 year old Indian guy and this guy live in a village and this american woman is doing everything what Indian woman do in village because this guy is basically from rural area. But in Urban areas also guys do respect foreign woman and marry them and never leave them forever. I can be wrong in this, but yes If I will find my woman here does not matter whatever country she is from, If we both get married I will never leave her for sure. I live in Urban area of India.





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