"what does a man do when his partner suffers a stroke or becomes ill"

There is a Dutch film describing that issue - Comes a Woman to a Doctor. The main character is very controversial, however, with unresolved internal conflicts of his own, but this very theme - what will you do if - is revealed well (see a shot below).

"I understand some women see this type of man as weak. Really!? "

Really-really. Only the other day there was a comment in one thread, something like "Women attract men with the air of weakness which is created by such qualities as courtesy and tact". Guys, beware of being courteous and tactful!  

But mind, all people are different, even within one culture.

However, I will tempt you a little, Doug   are you sure you do not want to change? It is so sweet, calm and comfortable to be taken care of by a "convenient" lady...Usually people enjoy when they are treated like that (I personally would enjoy it).