Dear Paul,
I think, it is a time to write a full list our your requirements and do's with don't's to your future candidate in one post 
Why do you spread it over so many pages, it is not very efficient.
So, the most suitable woman can read it and go straight ahead to tje point  (if she still want after all  )
I honestly wish you more patience, empathy and Frohe Weihnachten!