Dear Paul, I think, it is a time to write a full list our your requirements and do's with don't's to your future candidate in one post😊 Why do you spread it over so many pages, it is not very efficient. So, the most suitable woman can read it and go straight ahead to tje point😊 (if she still want after all😊 ) I honestly wish you more patience, empathy and Frohe Weihnachten!