Just a friendly hint from me: I only had a quick look at your profile and find it absolutely UNattractive for three major reasons: 1) your photos are VERY unfortunate: the light effects are desolate and there's nothing to them that would make you look special. The one with the lolly (or whatever it is, I would expect in the mouth of a teenage girl, but not of an adult woman). 2) most men find "I seek sponsoring" and financial interest deterring. I have deactivated such members from even contacting me, so think wisely if you want a genuine relationship or financial dependency. 3) your self-description is catastrophically egomanic: E.g. "from whom do you seek advice?" And your answer: "from nobody" This is blatantly WRONG, as you are apparently ACTIVELY seeking advice right NOW, here in this forum. Next point: "what do you want to change in yourself?" And your answer: "Nothing" Then your reply to how your friends / acquaintances view you: "no idea", followed by "what are your strengths?" "I" With all due respect, if you post photos like THAT and then 'advertise' yourself in such a manner, it is only natural that any man would stay away from your profile! Take heart and give it some warmth 😊 This is about YOU, then surely you can do better than that. You say you like Pushin and Dostoevskij - they were masters of the language. You can put that to good use by writing something positive and attractive (instead of meaningless and boastful) about yourself. Ask a friend to take a couple of decent photos of yourself, instead of the unfortunate selfies. Write more about your hobbies and interests, and you will find letters in your inbox 😉 Good luck to you! ))