Thanks for that input, but still I disagree mightily. First of all men and women are no "concepts". These may be applicable to science or management, but not fit for a relationship. If someone has clear goals in mind, the person is either FOCUSSED, GOAL-ORIENTED, or a DECISION-MALKER, none of these have anything to do with "strong man". If you want a man who cares, then he is CARING MAN. If you want him to be responsible, he is a RESPONSIBLE man. Still, none of these have anything to do with strength. Only weak people want or need to find a "strong" person. (The same, of course, also applies to men).