Answer to the topic of the post.
I don't like your (his, anyone's) appearance.
I don't like your (his, anyone's) nose shape, height, hairstyle or clothing style.
I didn't hear you (him, anyone), I don't know anything about you (about him, about anyone).

I met you (him, someone) by accident.
We started talking. I realized that you (he, someone) are smart.

I want to have a man with a smart head. I'm not interested in his nose, his style of clothing.
Two smart people will find a compromise.
A beautiful idiot is needed only as a purebred dog.