Answer to the topic of the post. I don't like your (his, anyone's) appearance. I don't like your (his, anyone's) nose shape, height, hairstyle or clothing style. I didn't hear you (him, anyone), I don't know anything about you (about him, about anyone). I met you (him, someone) by accident. We started talking. I realized that you (he, someone) are smart. I want to have a man with a smart head. I'm not interested in his nose, his style of clothing. Two smart people will find a compromise. A beautiful idiot is needed only as a purebred dog. 😉