What are we talking about?
Are we talking about friendships? Are we talking about marriage and family?

If we talk about friendly relations, then I myself am happy and cheerful, I can share with my friend positive energy.
If we are talking about marriage and family, then I want to have a spacious house, delicious food, pleasant rest and long trips.
I will give my husband positive energy.   
I expect a lot of money from my husband.