I'm sorry you feel that way. The world shows us all everyday that we are not nice as a race of people but there are real ones, like you, and I out there, that have a small shred of hope. I ask again, talk to me, I am curious and I will not go Kals route, not to be critical of him...but I am here, trying to just talk about what makes you ...you.....tell me how you think ..I really love to know how others think and feel, after all, maybe my way of thinking need to be corrected on occassion (often as I age) LOL. And to your point of being used......maybe one day you will let me tell you of a painful story of use of one man and one woman, sad all over for both. Olga, I ask you in the nicest way, this is a forum, educate me, I am in no way the smartest or most handsome man here, but I do have an open mind and heart. Your mask, you say is lazy, is still very pretty   Good day