It's hard to say who is really better, but it can't be an objective opinion without any statistics, I guess 😊 May be for myself I am a queen of flirting 😁 but for a man who sees/reads/talks to me it looks like silly attempts. As for mistakes...for me when from the first message a man talks about love, sex and other things. Or when they send lots of pictures "happy day", "good morning", come on, just write it down by yourself😂 Also sending intimate pics. If we've just met. For me it's a failure.