Men are more simple-minded than one might believe. In reality, it takes very little to make a man happy. Real men need much less than what some believe. What our little minds need is this:
1. To be genuinely loved and praised.
2. To be genuinely respected and honored.
3. A man needs to believe he is king of his world and the center of his universe, even if he isn't! 😉
Our battles are usually over who is the boss, not a prudent solution. Many (many, many) US women demand control, and think they have respect if they have control. Perhaps feminism is more harsh here, but many women’s attitude is, "No man is going to tell ME what to do!"
Smart women can control most men if they wish, but NEVER, NEVER by direct confrontation. An older woman once asked my struggling young wife if she would like to control me? That instantly snapped her head to attention! The woman taught her the above 3 things, which didn't make sense to my spouse, but she skeptically tried.
I do not remember all that happened, but suddenly I was treated like a prince and loved it. I was so happy, I would do anything to continue that euphoria. Our arguments instantly disappeared; she gained control of me and I didn’t care! I became more reasonable because I never felt attacked. If I became too loudmouthed, she conceded, saying, “Okay, dear, you may have your way and I will honor you, but you must be responsible for any bad outcome. 8( Oops! I was dumbfounded but didn’t want the blame for a mess, so I always asked her opinion. When respected this way, there was nothing to argue about? I could not help but love her, she treated me so special I never wanted that to end. Aren’t men’s little brains funny?
Be advised, this will not succeed with selfish men, so determine if he is selfish before you choose. The selfish are never satisfied. They will take and take, and never give. You will exhaust yourselves trying to please a tyrant and never receive the love you deserve. They will destroy you, your family and themselves. This works with honest men with soft hearts. When there is no argument, you will spend your days loving each other. Don’t be proud; absolutely nothing demeaning by honoring and acceding to your husband, but ALWAYS demand his respect. No one can love whom they do not respect. Ask yourdelf; so you want to win or do you want to be the boss!? And what is the harm in fawning over your husband if he can’t help but love you and give you the desires of your heart ? (And who cares what other women say? It is their marriages that are in trouble!)
Thank you very much and you may purchase my book as you leave the auditorium!
1. To be genuinely loved and praised.
2. To be genuinely respected and honored.
3. A man needs to believe he is king of his world and the center of his universe, even if he isn't! 😉
Our battles are usually over who is the boss, not a prudent solution. Many (many, many) US women demand control, and think they have respect if they have control. Perhaps feminism is more harsh here, but many women’s attitude is, "No man is going to tell ME what to do!"
Smart women can control most men if they wish, but NEVER, NEVER by direct confrontation. An older woman once asked my struggling young wife if she would like to control me? That instantly snapped her head to attention! The woman taught her the above 3 things, which didn't make sense to my spouse, but she skeptically tried.
I do not remember all that happened, but suddenly I was treated like a prince and loved it. I was so happy, I would do anything to continue that euphoria. Our arguments instantly disappeared; she gained control of me and I didn’t care! I became more reasonable because I never felt attacked. If I became too loudmouthed, she conceded, saying, “Okay, dear, you may have your way and I will honor you, but you must be responsible for any bad outcome. 8( Oops! I was dumbfounded but didn’t want the blame for a mess, so I always asked her opinion. When respected this way, there was nothing to argue about? I could not help but love her, she treated me so special I never wanted that to end. Aren’t men’s little brains funny?
Be advised, this will not succeed with selfish men, so determine if he is selfish before you choose. The selfish are never satisfied. They will take and take, and never give. You will exhaust yourselves trying to please a tyrant and never receive the love you deserve. They will destroy you, your family and themselves. This works with honest men with soft hearts. When there is no argument, you will spend your days loving each other. Don’t be proud; absolutely nothing demeaning by honoring and acceding to your husband, but ALWAYS demand his respect. No one can love whom they do not respect. Ask yourdelf; so you want to win or do you want to be the boss!? And what is the harm in fawning over your husband if he can’t help but love you and give you the desires of your heart ? (And who cares what other women say? It is their marriages that are in trouble!)
Thank you very much and you may purchase my book as you leave the auditorium!