I believe you are almost totally correct on all points except, I always caution regarding sex. Men have strange little minds which are connected to other parts of their body. A good man tries to separate the two so they don’t operate independently. I respectfully disagree if you do not provide enough sex for your man, he will go elsewhere. Some men will do that, but is that the man women are looking for? If sex is why he is with a woman, that is good information to know. Sometimes that is the only reason, but he tells you there is more in his heart. Giving sex to satisfy your own heart is dangerous.

Relationship built on sex is weak. Sex should be the icing on the cake; not the main meal. He should see your value outside of sex and respect you, because our bodies change. If sex is the main meal, he may leave as soon as he is finished eating, or stay for the next course. Sex is fantastic, but can also be destructive. Sex can cloud our minds so we do not think normally. I know this. Sex can cause us to fall in love with the wrong person; someone we never should have considered. Many men experience much heartache because of thinking with wrong part of their body; actually, nations have crumbled over this mistake. Man gives love to get sex; woman gives sex to get love. Love is giving to the one you love regardless of the return. If he thinks you are precious without sex, he will be patient. We have a saying, why buy the cow when the milk is free?

I write because so many young women’s dreams are shattered by making a bad trade. We men already know this.