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I do not seem to always know what to write, but I haven't yet told anyone she was sexy. Do ladies think this is not awkward for men? I believe there is too much pressure placed on early contact. On a personal date, the lady may not like a man at first sight, but I have the rest of the evening to change her mind. (In theory; maybe then she REALLY does not like me!) If she were here, she might fall in love with my music before she falls in love with me. ))) Not all men are handsome as Tomasso; some of us must rely on other qualities to keep your attention until you can see our better qualities and hearts. )))
Of course, I participate and share in these forums. Several have written they wish more men would participate; I’m just trying to keep things lively until the other men show up! And sometimes I say something good! The forum gives interested ladies opportunity to read about a man, without unfair pressure; or give ladies insight into how some men here think. I also want to read what ladies have to say. I do not believe I’m some great author or wizard with many answers; I simply type quickly. Sorry if I write too much.
Keep in mind, the auto-translator Some in US say I’m funny, but the humor can be very subtle. Even in US, not everyone understands the joke. ) After writing something here, I spend time changing all words that might not translate well. That doesn’t really allow one to relax and be himself, does it? I fear saying “petite, mature woman” and have it translate “little old lady”. Please, try to be patient. )
Many of you have been very kind. Thank you. I have already made awkward mistakes here and misunderstood meanings. Circumstances do not always portray one in best light. If you saw me in action at a debate, you might think I am severe. What a horrible man! (Unless, I were on your side.) With politicians and lawyers, I am stern and not always polite. (They don’t like me, either.) When looking for a man, search for his soft side, ask him the needed questions to discover it and give him time to reveal it, if that is what you wish. Should you discover the love of your life, you will spend much of the rest of your time together doing this. Good time to practice.
Of course, I participate and share in these forums. Several have written they wish more men would participate; I’m just trying to keep things lively until the other men show up! And sometimes I say something good! The forum gives interested ladies opportunity to read about a man, without unfair pressure; or give ladies insight into how some men here think. I also want to read what ladies have to say. I do not believe I’m some great author or wizard with many answers; I simply type quickly. Sorry if I write too much.
Keep in mind, the auto-translator Some in US say I’m funny, but the humor can be very subtle. Even in US, not everyone understands the joke. ) After writing something here, I spend time changing all words that might not translate well. That doesn’t really allow one to relax and be himself, does it? I fear saying “petite, mature woman” and have it translate “little old lady”. Please, try to be patient. )
Many of you have been very kind. Thank you. I have already made awkward mistakes here and misunderstood meanings. Circumstances do not always portray one in best light. If you saw me in action at a debate, you might think I am severe. What a horrible man! (Unless, I were on your side.) With politicians and lawyers, I am stern and not always polite. (They don’t like me, either.) When looking for a man, search for his soft side, ask him the needed questions to discover it and give him time to reveal it, if that is what you wish. Should you discover the love of your life, you will spend much of the rest of your time together doing this. Good time to practice.