We don't forgive??? Hard pill for a man to swallow and maybe things are never the same again; forgiving is hard work for a man but also takes a lot of work on her part and sometimes she is not understanding. Of course he always wants to know where she is. Takes a lot of work and understanding for her to win him back. Sometimes too much work. Some of us forgive; once. Those who wish her back after being betrayed over and over need a good counselor.