I agree 100% with Natali. Please be cautious, Irina; let him come to you. You are then safe in your own environment and comfort zone, not some alien country. A proper gentleman would automatically show empathy for your concerns. He should want you to feel as comfortable and secure as possible; not push you out of your comfort zone. He should willingly work within your comfort zone, because of a natural desire for you to feel at ease. Beware the salesman; does he endeavor to win your confidence or try to convince you he knows best?

Irina gives excellent wisdom and I concur; you are vulnerable because of your heart and normal desire for a loving partner. Your emotions will affect your normal decision-making ability and place you at risk. Before the meeting, it is prudent for you to insist on control of the playing field because you are the weaker player; he should lovingly and willing accede to your needs. If not, this obvious selfishness is only the beginning of what you will face the rest of your life, even if you do marry him. Your meeting is a great place to find out who he truly is; insist on what is reasonable and see if he truly cares about your feelings. Demand his respect; you can do this. Your friends here support you.