Tom, just because you do not know were you came from does not mean the rest of us do not. Although, I will allow for the possibility that you did evolve from something...any idea what it was? Also, one does not need to be original to speak the truth; the truth is timeless and possesses an inherent value of its own. I merely state the truth; I am certainly not the original author. One more thing; of course you care who the boss is! If your woman starts telling you what to do, you will care very much who the leader is. I've been here a while Tom; do you feel you're in some sort of danger of winning over a woman on this site? Don't you think the word has gotten around by now!? Tom, you might have difficulty even BUYING a woman on this site, no matter what you offered her. You may, however, make some adjustments in your attitude and I'm sure you would get much more positive attention. You know it is much easier to catch butterflies with honey instead of vinegar. 😉