Tom, I think Inessa's question was "What does any girl losing by going with you?" Inquiring minds wish to know!!! I'm sure this question is valid because in 3 years and over 500 women (your words, not mine) no one has decide you were a "keeper". (That would be...no one want a keep you, my friend.) Having contacted over 500 girls, why are none of them interested??? Everyone on the forum is dying to know the answer to this!!!