Tom, we all thank you for your humble explanation! Heck, Tom! I'll kiss you right now!!!!  )))) By the way, I have been called many things in my life, but stupid is something new for me. I promise to take your opinion under consideration. I always want to improve myself wherever possible; thank you for your openness to share with me! Since apparently not everyone is willing to share with me about my stupidity, I must discover other ways to discern if I am being stupid. One good way for me to understand is when I see everyone laughing at me and saying things with which I disagree and I am the only one with that perspective, I always stop for a few minutes and quietly ask myself Everyone is laughing at me and disagrees with me...is it possible I am being stupid!? This may not work for everyone, but always gives me something to think about!