Okay, Fernando, here is a rule to consider when dealing with women. If she says don't send anything, you ignore this. If you like her; send something! Sometimes, no means "Yes, please, my heart would love a gift of some sort! Even something very small." (Sometimes small is better) Yes, I agree, Mexican men truly know how to treat a woman (not sure how you missed the "no sometimes means yes") American men have a tough time competing with you! Some Russian and Ukrainian men seem to have been out smoking in the hall while the Mexican men (and Italian men, Tom)were going to classes on how to treat a lady. Women all over the world love thoughtful gifts and flowers. I find some Slavic women have not been well-appreciated. (I don't know what it is about some Russian and Ukrainian men. Many take advantage of their situation. Some of them simply need a good beating! Hahahaha!) I think it takes very little to melt the heart of any woman who has not been properly appreciated. I find many ladies here are shy and don't want you to be inconvenienced; however, no man ever lost a woman because he sent her too many flowers or presents! When in doubt; send her something! If you think she really does not want you to send her something? Send it anyway!!!  ))))) When is the last time a woman came right out and told you what she really wanted!!!? Sometimes THEY don't even know!!!