I have discovered, some women do not always tell you what they mean. Sometimes they look for a creative way to say, “Good-bye and please do not to let the door hit you in the rear!” Sometimes they complain about something irrelevant.
The girls here seem very smart; in a short time they discover a lot about a man. This is easy because a man usually speaks his mind, and for some, that is the “kiss of death!” (Sometimes better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak freely and remove all doubt.) So, I will offer some tips for men here, at no charge. Am I am expert? Nope! This is really simple stuff!
Never meet a girl wondering if is she is worthy of you; the smart woman quickly sees this (and you want a smart woman, right?) Always ask yourself if you are worthy of her; she will notice that, too. Do not always explain what you want; be quiet and ask what she is looking for? (She will tell you.) Women quickly notice if the man puts himself first; or if he puts her first. I think girls want to be first, but they might tolerate the man placing himself first…for a short while!
Don’t act like she is winning some prize if you give her your attention; treat her like she is the prize. Don’t express negative feelings. Most women are not looking for some man so they can discover what he wants in order to serve him; they are usually looking for someone to cherish them and give them what they want! You can win a girl’s heart by discovering what she wants. And for God’s sake, if something isn’t working for you in relationships with women, do not keep repeating the same things over and over and expect a different result!
Once I had a job interview with a 15-person committee. I asked them their goals and what were they doing to accomplish them. They told me, and I asked them if it was working? Their answer was no. So I asked how long they had been working this plan. Five years. There was a long silence just before I quietly asked, “So why do you keep doing it this same way?” That was the end of the interview! I got the job and it was the best job I ever had!
Sometimes I have to look at myself in the mirror and ask, “Doug, are you an arrogant, selfish jerk!? (All men are at some point!) Do people seem to like you or not?” I have been very fortunate since coming to this site; I have met many, wonderful woman and almost no one has been unkind to me (several came very close!). Maybe I am being a decent person and treating the ladies properly. But, when looking in the mirror, if I realize that after meeting 100s of women and still no long-term success, possibly the problem was not the 600 other women. Maybe time to reconsider who I am, maybe consider will I be able to accomplish my goal of finding the love to end all loves, if I keep working the same lousy strategy? If it isn’t working; stop doing it!!!
Life is not a one-act play with men as the central character. Sometimes men and their egos forget life is not about them; it is about the other person. True joy comes only by giving; both giving to ask other and all needs are met. I believe, to win the desires of my heart, it is worth changing myself to become a better person; for me as well as for her. These are simply my thoughts.
The girls here seem very smart; in a short time they discover a lot about a man. This is easy because a man usually speaks his mind, and for some, that is the “kiss of death!” (Sometimes better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak freely and remove all doubt.) So, I will offer some tips for men here, at no charge. Am I am expert? Nope! This is really simple stuff!
Never meet a girl wondering if is she is worthy of you; the smart woman quickly sees this (and you want a smart woman, right?) Always ask yourself if you are worthy of her; she will notice that, too. Do not always explain what you want; be quiet and ask what she is looking for? (She will tell you.) Women quickly notice if the man puts himself first; or if he puts her first. I think girls want to be first, but they might tolerate the man placing himself first…for a short while!
Don’t act like she is winning some prize if you give her your attention; treat her like she is the prize. Don’t express negative feelings. Most women are not looking for some man so they can discover what he wants in order to serve him; they are usually looking for someone to cherish them and give them what they want! You can win a girl’s heart by discovering what she wants. And for God’s sake, if something isn’t working for you in relationships with women, do not keep repeating the same things over and over and expect a different result!
Once I had a job interview with a 15-person committee. I asked them their goals and what were they doing to accomplish them. They told me, and I asked them if it was working? Their answer was no. So I asked how long they had been working this plan. Five years. There was a long silence just before I quietly asked, “So why do you keep doing it this same way?” That was the end of the interview! I got the job and it was the best job I ever had!
Sometimes I have to look at myself in the mirror and ask, “Doug, are you an arrogant, selfish jerk!? (All men are at some point!) Do people seem to like you or not?” I have been very fortunate since coming to this site; I have met many, wonderful woman and almost no one has been unkind to me (several came very close!). Maybe I am being a decent person and treating the ladies properly. But, when looking in the mirror, if I realize that after meeting 100s of women and still no long-term success, possibly the problem was not the 600 other women. Maybe time to reconsider who I am, maybe consider will I be able to accomplish my goal of finding the love to end all loves, if I keep working the same lousy strategy? If it isn’t working; stop doing it!!!
Life is not a one-act play with men as the central character. Sometimes men and their egos forget life is not about them; it is about the other person. True joy comes only by giving; both giving to ask other and all needs are met. I believe, to win the desires of my heart, it is worth changing myself to become a better person; for me as well as for her. These are simply my thoughts.