If she has a list of "7 guys", she's clearly a little confused and I would not be going to visit her. Spend a few months getting to know her and weed out the casual observers. If she has "7 guys", after a few months, any guy should be able to realize this...after a few months he should know if she has two guys!!! With two guys, she is still s little confused!   Go for a visit when you're the only one!   ...unless going as a tourist, of course!