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Ok, Helga...you know me...my question is, "What kind of man is always faithful and never abandons his woman?"

Why is this about the woman? Must she be something exceptional so her man will not discard her and move to the next person? (Although I do like Katherine's rule for sex every night at 9!) This is wrong thinking; if an irresponsible man leaves and is not faithful, his poor wife will somehow think there was something wrong with her, when very well he was the problem. There is never any excuse for deserting your mate...he promised to love her unconditionally and always.

When a man and woman make vows to love and cherish each other, for richer or poorer, in sickness or in health, in good times or adversity...what does that mean? To a man of character, he will never desert her. If she is sick, he will nurse her; if she is cold, he will warm her, he will give her his own cloak and endure the cold so she can be warm. He will cover her in the storm with his own body. He will go hungry so that she may eat. If she cannot walk, he will carry her. He places her needs before his own. If she is sad, he will understand and try to make her laugh; he will take her hand and walk with her; he will hold her close; if she yells at him, he will roll his eyes, but he will never hit or betray her. He will be her best friend and teach her to become his best friend. (Sometimes she must be willing to listen.) What is all this foolish talk about abandonment!? A true man does not abandon his mate...period.  

One problem is as Helga said. Do not grovel before him; make him respect you. Do not create your own monster by treating him like a child and doting on him all day; you are his wife, not his mother! Expect him to be a man and take proper responsibility; a decent man will rise to the challange. (If you must, get rid of the couch and make him sit on the floor!) If you have no expectation of him, you will achieve this.

One last observation...I am aware that most of you ladies do not believe this kind of man actually exists. That is something totally different. My experience is that many, many, many good women choose "Bad Guys!" Then they are unhappy because they are bad. What did these ladies think was going to happen!?

Okay, this is my sermon for the day. Time to take up the collection for the offering!  

Here are the captions for the two pictures I am posting.

(1) GIRL: "God please send me a man who will love me and make me feel special!"
GOD: "I did this, years ago, but you kept telling him you liked him only as a friend!"

(2) "Why do girls always go for the bad guys!?" (Creature From the Black Lagoon)

13.10.14

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