Oh please, please! Allow me to answer this!
Devin, I remember when you left, almost two years ago; I was just arriving, but have never forgotten your forum comments before you left. Somewhere, in the archives, is that post and my response, but for those who do not wish to search, I will respond again, having now almost 2 years of familiarity.
Is anyone curious why I specifically remember you, Devin? The exact same mannerisms you are showing right now, of which I am embarrassed as an American.
You pretentiously appeared on the site, as if you were God's gift to women, and immediately begin insulting these intelligent and sophisticated women with snide remarks and disrespect, while simultaneously whining that you are somehow being mistreated; a victim of your skin color. Nothing could be further from the truth.
This is a fabulous site. The owners are proactive and responsive to the needs of their clients; they work diligently to insure there is no better site to meet women, and this site is the best! The girls, many of whom I have known for some time, are remarkable; they are not (as you claim) “stuck up!”
Slavic women are polite and espouse excellent manners; unfortunately for you, Devin, they are particular and have higher standards than you are presently able to meet. That is not their fault, it is yours! Your failed understanding of social protocol is stunning. You did not get blocked for “no reason”; you were blocked for a reason, which in seven years you have yet been unable to determine. We know this because you have returned to repeat the same faux pas' that were destroying your chances when I first arrived. Your approach to women is condescending, impudent and unacceptable in civilized society.
Amazingly, you’re incredulous to be experiencing the exact same rejection you received when you first displayed this same rudeness. Your sad response is, once again, to blame and insult the ladies because, obvious to you, your complete absence of culture and social protocol could not possibly be a factor.
You have learned nothing, Devin! After years of failing Basic Communication 101, you return with the same distasteful disposition to take the same test and immediately blame the professor for the result! It is your personal social skills that hamstring your chance of finding a lady. Devin, you da’ man! Own it!
Let me be clear! This site is not “overrun with stuck up girls” (your words); it is generously blessed with thousands of amazing, beautiful, sophisticated women, whom you, once again, ostentatiously offend, right out of the gate; a replay, almost word for word, of your first failed experience. You have the utter gall to offend to these women on their own turf, calling them “self-promoting” and “American wannabees” and you think you’re going to get a date? Son, when you beat the horse with a baseball bat, does she still give you ride!? Believe me, My friend, you are in no danger of one of these women sending you mail (but you already realize this, don't you?)
Smart men understands that denigrating women as “stuck up b*tches and hoes” is counterproductive to meeting a girl. Where did you learn this? I suspect that approach doesn’t work down the “hood”, either, because you have returned. You clearly see yourself as a suave, debonair, smooth-talking macho dude whom these women should thank God that you ever gave them the time of day. We all see something much different.
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These girls demand a man show them respect; a gentleman would treat them like a queen. You wouldn’t get away with this here in the US; she would run you out of the house with a shovel. Many of these girls have already been mistreated. You’re old news; they can just as easily be abused here. Not necessary to travel to America for another tragedy and broken heart.
You require major attitude reconstruction before you’re ready for any non-abusive relationship with any woman; that kind of change must be accompanied by sincere regret and humility. Is there even a remote possibility of that occurring? Until that happens you are a very real danger to every woman on this site, and the managers need to be aware of this. You see, I’m an American, too, and I know you. The girls are not the ones with the baggage; you are.
One thing I find really amazing, is that irrespective of your appalling discourtesy, Devin, some of these girls have the grace and good character to wish you well. I guarantee you, every one of these women is your intellectual equal and probably superior; they are fully capable of putting you in your rightful place (if only for purposes of their own entertainment). Despite your reckless disregard, they have still shown you respect. Believe me; it’s not because they like you!
I am trying to be careful with my words because of three superb and competent moderators, for whom I have the highest respect, who must decide whether to allow my response to post. (Could not possibly be as offensive as the opener.) I pray they do, because as an American I have a right to confront my countrymen when they become a crass embarrassment to myself and my country. As well, Devin, you must hear and honestly consider these words. The world has had enough “ugly Americans” and so have I. I’m a paying member of this site and I defy any simpleton to come here and jeopardize my opportunity to find the dream of my life. And somewhere, she is probably here!
After almost two years, I have watched these girls endure a huge amount of incivility from crass and insensitive men. In their admirable search for a decent man, they must sift an enormous amount of chaff to find one good grain, and then there’s no guarantee to be chosen. Yet they continue to honor us men by searching us out and believing in us, and by God, we need to respect that. These extraordinary ladies deserve the utmost reverence and I refuse to permit any egocentric, socially-dysfunctional cretin to insult them and myself, while we are about the critical task of discovering our future partner.
You arrogantly appear on the scene as if you are somehow God's gift to women; you immediately begin calling these wonderful and sweet ladies disparaging names, while whining that they are somehow treating you differently, because you are black.
Devin, I remember when you left, almost two years ago; I was just arriving, but have never forgotten your forum comments before you left. Somewhere, in the archives, is that post and my response, but for those who do not wish to search, I will respond again, having now almost 2 years of familiarity.
Is anyone curious why I specifically remember you, Devin? The exact same mannerisms you are showing right now, of which I am embarrassed as an American.
You pretentiously appeared on the site, as if you were God's gift to women, and immediately begin insulting these intelligent and sophisticated women with snide remarks and disrespect, while simultaneously whining that you are somehow being mistreated; a victim of your skin color. Nothing could be further from the truth.
This is a fabulous site. The owners are proactive and responsive to the needs of their clients; they work diligently to insure there is no better site to meet women, and this site is the best! The girls, many of whom I have known for some time, are remarkable; they are not (as you claim) “stuck up!”
Slavic women are polite and espouse excellent manners; unfortunately for you, Devin, they are particular and have higher standards than you are presently able to meet. That is not their fault, it is yours! Your failed understanding of social protocol is stunning. You did not get blocked for “no reason”; you were blocked for a reason, which in seven years you have yet been unable to determine. We know this because you have returned to repeat the same faux pas' that were destroying your chances when I first arrived. Your approach to women is condescending, impudent and unacceptable in civilized society.
Amazingly, you’re incredulous to be experiencing the exact same rejection you received when you first displayed this same rudeness. Your sad response is, once again, to blame and insult the ladies because, obvious to you, your complete absence of culture and social protocol could not possibly be a factor.
You have learned nothing, Devin! After years of failing Basic Communication 101, you return with the same distasteful disposition to take the same test and immediately blame the professor for the result! It is your personal social skills that hamstring your chance of finding a lady. Devin, you da’ man! Own it!
Let me be clear! This site is not “overrun with stuck up girls” (your words); it is generously blessed with thousands of amazing, beautiful, sophisticated women, whom you, once again, ostentatiously offend, right out of the gate; a replay, almost word for word, of your first failed experience. You have the utter gall to offend to these women on their own turf, calling them “self-promoting” and “American wannabees” and you think you’re going to get a date? Son, when you beat the horse with a baseball bat, does she still give you ride!? Believe me, My friend, you are in no danger of one of these women sending you mail (but you already realize this, don't you?)
Smart men understands that denigrating women as “stuck up b*tches and hoes” is counterproductive to meeting a girl. Where did you learn this? I suspect that approach doesn’t work down the “hood”, either, because you have returned. You clearly see yourself as a suave, debonair, smooth-talking macho dude whom these women should thank God that you ever gave them the time of day. We all see something much different.
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These girls demand a man show them respect; a gentleman would treat them like a queen. You wouldn’t get away with this here in the US; she would run you out of the house with a shovel. Many of these girls have already been mistreated. You’re old news; they can just as easily be abused here. Not necessary to travel to America for another tragedy and broken heart.
You require major attitude reconstruction before you’re ready for any non-abusive relationship with any woman; that kind of change must be accompanied by sincere regret and humility. Is there even a remote possibility of that occurring? Until that happens you are a very real danger to every woman on this site, and the managers need to be aware of this. You see, I’m an American, too, and I know you. The girls are not the ones with the baggage; you are.
One thing I find really amazing, is that irrespective of your appalling discourtesy, Devin, some of these girls have the grace and good character to wish you well. I guarantee you, every one of these women is your intellectual equal and probably superior; they are fully capable of putting you in your rightful place (if only for purposes of their own entertainment). Despite your reckless disregard, they have still shown you respect. Believe me; it’s not because they like you!
I am trying to be careful with my words because of three superb and competent moderators, for whom I have the highest respect, who must decide whether to allow my response to post. (Could not possibly be as offensive as the opener.) I pray they do, because as an American I have a right to confront my countrymen when they become a crass embarrassment to myself and my country. As well, Devin, you must hear and honestly consider these words. The world has had enough “ugly Americans” and so have I. I’m a paying member of this site and I defy any simpleton to come here and jeopardize my opportunity to find the dream of my life. And somewhere, she is probably here!
After almost two years, I have watched these girls endure a huge amount of incivility from crass and insensitive men. In their admirable search for a decent man, they must sift an enormous amount of chaff to find one good grain, and then there’s no guarantee to be chosen. Yet they continue to honor us men by searching us out and believing in us, and by God, we need to respect that. These extraordinary ladies deserve the utmost reverence and I refuse to permit any egocentric, socially-dysfunctional cretin to insult them and myself, while we are about the critical task of discovering our future partner.
You arrogantly appear on the scene as if you are somehow God's gift to women; you immediately begin calling these wonderful and sweet ladies disparaging names, while whining that they are somehow treating you differently, because you are black.