Have I misunderstood something here; really, Helga, this seems like a silly story exploring all the ridiculous abstract possibilities, and I know your English is perfect enough to properly explain. I am using sensible examples; please try to play along. I realize not everyone has proper social training or realizes the concept of courteous behavior, but by the time they are an adult, they should have learned something. Sometimes that is a cultural issue; sometimes it is poor parenting.
Yes, some women are looking for a "buddy", but most are not. Most woman here seem to have a higher expectation than finding a male with whom to chum around. The women I have talked to seem to desire a sincere man with courtesy. If he opens the door for her, offers her his seat on the bus, gives her his jacket on a cold day, gives her his umbrella, proper etiquette would be to say thank you; or "No, thank you", not to angrily snarl, "I do not need men!" Why would any person treat anyone trying to be kind with such open disrespect? Helga, here in the States, men open the door for other men, young children, families, old ladies...what do you personally find distasteful about that? If that turns you off, I'm sure many of the girls here can introduce you to some slovenly social cripple with absolutely no manners! All these girls seem to have stories, so there must be plenty of those types around! You could probably have your pick! Xaxaxaxaxa!
Do rude and inconsiderate women frustrate me? Really, Helga!? You, more than anyone, have been around long enough to know how not-intimidated I am; of anyone or anything. The social ignorance of a person who should know better, man or woman, is not worth wasting time to correct. It is impossible to wake someone pretending to be asleep, so decent people must have thicker skin than that. Also, have you noticed the ratio of men to women? Other than rolling his eyes, why should any man react to an overly-sensitive and discourteous woman when the site is loaded with so many kind, sweet, intelligent, well-adjusted beautiful women who are very happy to accept the sincere attention of a decent man. I thought that was why all you ladies were here?
To answer another question, poor social skills are no excuse. Anyone can learn proper etiquette and how to properly treat others; there are courses available or they can talk to an honest friend about their failures. If what a man is doing isn't working, he should not continue to repeat his mistakes. If a man is not smart enough to figure out why he keeps failing with women, it is not a woman's job to train him to be a decent person. He should want to find out how to be a better person for her.