Really, Patric!? You think some f these girls are looking for "free ride?" Usually the guys who whine about money, or not getting what they want, are the ones with the fixation about money. They are usually very selfish men. You are not being abused by the women on this site, but you are not the first one to think you are. You seem to be striking out with the ladies here! I will tell you a secret; it is not the ladies who are the problem. You are doing something wrong.

I have been here two years and met a lot of very nice girls (far more girls than you have met here). I have experienced none of the problems about which you have been steadily complaining. Have I had disappointments? Sure, but never once has a girl asked for or talked to me about money. Never once have any of these girls asked me for ok, maybe once). These girls do not care about your money, and your open bragging about your sogannant "successful" business makes you look superficial and rude. Son, you are fishing with the wrong bait!!!

Let me share something with you, my friend. These girls are smart! They are not easily fooled. You want to impress a girl, shut up about the money and stop complaining about what you want. Start asking her about herself, ask her what she wants; if you really like her, send her kids presents for no particular reason. Be generous! Send her flowers for no particular reason. Don't be a cheapskate! Be generous and maybe you will catch something worth having. Do not think always about what you are getting out of the deal; think about what you can invest in another person's life.

Anyone can make money and have a successful business; who cares!? (They are all laughing at you when you say things like this.) The real test is how successful are you with other people? Most of these girls would much rather live a poor, simple lifestyle, with someone who dearly cherishes them, than be chained to some rude, arrogant guy with money, who treats her like some business acquisition or a shop tool. Read the forums, my friend. You will find out all about these girls. There is hope for you. Show an honest interest in making a happy life for some special girl and their precious child and you may find a real gem, who might een accept you...after some long, thoughtful consideration, of course! (Also, you need to be patient.)